Single Women in Pilot Mountain, North Carolina

Hi! My name is Kotasal. I am woman from Pilot Mountain, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

If you don't have a photo on your profile then pleeeeease don't waste my time by sending me a message obviously if you can see me I should be able to see you fair is fair. Remember there is a age restriction on here so if your in your early 30's and you send me a message I am unable to respond lol sorry not me it's the site.If your adding me to my favourites I'd kind of like to know why? Especially if your not even sending me a message (just sayin) lolFYI if you send me a message and I do not respond back more than likely it could be one of two reasons 1: I'm at work and can not respond or2: I'm not feeling the mutual chemistry or connection between you and I just being honest.I am spontaneous easy going and fun and hoping you are the same. Oh and I love to joke around and laugh its healthy.I travel allot....more than the average person. I'm not a two week vacation a year kind of girl. I go away every other month if possible even if it is only for 4-... Why not lol life is too short.Next trip Australia again in OctoberI know not everyone can take that much time off of work as I do but hopefully I will meet someone that at least likes to travel. Im hoping to become a MANS number 1 I want a MAN..... yes a MAN who will make me feel special. Is that really too much to ask ? Anyway, I took off all the other blah blah I wrote before and left behind my fav quotes below. If you want to know anything more about me feel free to ask by sending me a message.My favorite quotes lol:)"Laugh when you Can ....Apologize when you Should & Let go of what you Can't Change""A pretty face gets old .... A nice body will change.... But a good woman will always be a good woman"" The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It’s the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows & the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years." Remember WOMAN was taken from man, NOT from his feet to be TRAMPLED ON but from his SIDE to be NEAR him under his ARM to be PROTECTED and near his HEART to be LOVEDEvery woman deserves a man who can make her forget that her heart has never been broken I'm a suck for romance what can I say :) Whatever the moment has In store Suggest something Weather permitting

How about sharing some time together? If you care about the little things in life, we probably wouldn’t have much fun. Laughter, fun, adventure....lets go to Guam..I love Jazz,Opera,Sushi,white spot burger with triple OOO ,a fine meal with a nice glass of chilled white. I love to read...I paint, large, and messy, and sell some of my work, although I dont know why,and find it hard to part with it.My perfect day would start late, a few hours over brunch with friends, and a browse in a good bookstore, or afternoon at an auction. I would love to share my adventures with somebody. What is your perfect day?About you...If your profile pic is you holding up a fish, or you spend your spare time at the gym "working on your abs" we probably wouldn’t be a good match. However, if you are easy going, have a sense of humour and value honesty and integrity, I think we might have something in common. You are cheeky, and creative, but a little conservative. I am cheeky and creative, but a free spirit..I figure one of us should be little conservative ;)Having said that, I own my own business and have been fully employed for the same company for over 35years, so I m not "flaky artist " . I value old fashioned work ethics, and I am at the point in my life whereI would like to make work less of a priority, and fun, travel and relationship , more of a priority :)I am ready to make a change , sell the house and downsize :)Ready for part two :)I am looking for a man I can laugh with, feel utterly and completely safe with and most of all be my, "Sunday lay in bed when it rains, reading a great book with partner"I need someone who can seduce my mind, excite me physically, and who moves me emotionally by being open with me. I want passion, raw, and risk taking, and at the same time knowing we are safe with each other. I want to lie in your arms, listen to your soft breath in your chest and feel the safety of your arms. I want to slide out of bed, bring you breakfast before you wake...I miss those things...caring moments. I know this is getting a little wordy, is that a word? However, I notice most men have things like "must not smoke”, "must look good in a bikini”, "must be perfect in every way" ...I just got back from having sushi, I was alone reading a book. I noticed the couple next to me said nothing to each other the entire time they were there. So my "must" is..."must like me enough to speak to me during dinner" :) Even when we are 80. If you have read this far..now is the important part. While all the rest is easy to describe and know, I get a lot of comments " why are you still on here" I am looking for passion. I won't settle for a passionless, relationship. I want a make me crazy, pull my hair and make me scream for you, man..and that is just waitin for him to come home from work lol..I am not your average girl. It's ok. I am good on my own. I am patient, my man will come, when he does, he will be able to Handle me..until then..I am still lookin :) Life is short, lets have some fun, I dare you Walk, wine...hopefully together :)

I love Peace, calm, harmony. I have a very loving heart....Please don't step on it!I am fortunate to have beautiful people in my life.I wish to meet someone who sees the world in a beautiful way, has done their homework and is happy inside.Appeals to me :)Someone "Conscious"That is their "essence" is Spiritual.I have interests and friends and family.By the way I am low maintenance.But in the future if you want to do something special for me!Go ahead!!!! HahaGood grooming is essential...Addictions do not interest me-drinking to excess... Social. Is fine-smoking to excess-smoking drugs-drugs-gamblers-Sex addicts -PlayersEtcWhen addictions are present, it's like an accidentWaiting to happen.I understand for some people it is like candy store here. Although we are all here looking at options.. What I wish to convey is this...I am not here to be your date number 10 this week.!Nor am I ...Your travel guide,Therapist, Loan company, or one night stand.If you are seeking sheer volume of women I'm notInterested in you. If you need constant validation from the opposite sex thats your business.I don't.Thanks for respecting that.:)I have no time for arguments ,but don't run when there is an issue.You would be the same.i Love conversation and i Love quiet.I see the beauty rather than the lack.Being Grounded and knowing what that means.Life IS a Miracle.......I would Love a partner who understands this as well..... and wishes to enjoy what a lovely relationship brings to.. two caring, whole, secure, patient, loving and aware people. :)i have no time for selfishness and narcissism.In public school and college I was the funny girl :()))I still am:pHumor is essential. Sarcasm not.Words are energy.These are some of the basics...for a good "Foundation"If this is not present i go no further.please do not be offended if i do not respond... I am not spending my day and night on meetville, but i am here from time to time :)Attraction is a real thing. I am not attracted to every man so please don't be offended by that. it must be real.Attraction is not just looks.I must respect you, so please respect Yourself.i am not a rich woman. I do not want anyone's stuff.. I barely want my own!My perspective is True Love can not be purchased.If there is "more" materially then that is a bonus!But truthfully i have no big attachment to things.You would feel the same.";.We are older now.I will spend my time positively, as I see life as precious..I have learned you can tell a lot from a goodbye hug...If a man is going to miss you ..the goodbye will linger a bit.. If he looks back to take you in one more time... He was more than present.If not it.... Chances are it was simply a date.:) Tea? Lunch?.a walk..? a chat? There are options....p.s. My profile pictures are from 2012 and 2013.i work out and am conscious of what i eat.i'm not skinny, i'm not tiny, i'm not huge.I am average.Some days i look very average... other days hmmm...i clean up well!! lolIf you have NO PICTURE ...i will NOT respond!!!!If you have a picture for me then please have at least one that is CURRENTplease know i am Not interested in the following,drugs,parties,young men,affairs.rude people.usersabusers.Long distance relationships.

Hello to those attractive, sexy, fun loving, men out there. For me, the start of any meaningful relationship is honesty. I have been on here a couple times and have yet to discover the type of man I would like to share my time with. If you have had similar experiences please message me instead of simply adding me to you favorites or saying you want to meet me. I love to laugh and enjoy a good sense of humour with a little wittiness (is that a word?) I have a kind heart and soul that I would like to share.I am a confident natural woman that is not into needless drama. I think my friends would say I am kind, social and fun to be around. I am looking to date a confident, happy, kind, fun loving man. I am non judgmental, love and adore my family and friends, and would enjoy meeting you if any of the above diatribe rings a bell for you. We could enjoy going to the beach\lake\river (my favourite places to be) gardening, watching sports, dog walking, hiking, spending quality time with eyes only for each other. Would love to get into boating if that is a possibility as the ocean is a passion of mine. I would be interested in your thoughts. We can decide together....something outdoors perhaps.

The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are. - C.G. Jung I believe that life isn't meant to give us our meaning. We give meaning to our life. I am spiritual but not religious, and I was long before it became cliché and it was just considered weird. I was even country when country wasn't cool although I know for some of you it still isn't:) I am looking for a fellow journeyer whose desire it is to create a mature and authentic relationship. Someone who knows who he is and how to keep it real; the walk your talk thing. I do my best to focus on what I want as opposed to what I don't and I had this at the bottom of my profile but I think it needs to be a little closer to the top for those of you might not get that far... " I will unlikely respond to one sentenced messages or a primary focus on my physical appearance."I value what's on the inside much more than the outer. I am a very down to earth and organic woman. Still waters run deep and so do I. I love where I am in life and excited about where I might be going. I happily accept my grey hair and wrinkles for the privilege of knowing who I am. I've lived long enough to learn if you keep falling in the same pothole it might be time to chose a different road and it seems my road is the one less travelled...ah I am just full of clichés. As I was writing this I started thinking about clichés as they seem to abound here, so I looked up the meaning. Cliché: A trite expression--often a figure of speech whose effectiveness has been worn out through overuse and excessive familiarity. So even though not very original, there is value to be found in the content so I thought it would be fun to express my intention and desires through clichés because it seems it is what most do here in the sea of Plenty of Fish:) Let’s begin with quality over quantity. Yes, and the qualities I admire in others and I am cultivating in myself is the ability to stop and smell the roses and/or coffee. I am interested in people who understand there is no time like the present (yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift). Who comprehend it is absolutely pointless to cry over spilt milk. They may be a diamond in the rough but remember from the little acorn grows a mighty oak. One who carries their own baggage. And of course there is no sweeping things under the carpet, beating around the bush or making mountains out of molehills. You can keep on moving on if you are looking for greener pastures. Judge not, lest ye be judged. And the big one....no drama! I am still very much a work of art in progress.Okay, that is about as cheesy as even I am willing to get. Still there is depth of meaning to the above and here is my actual translation. I love to be around people with the ability to appreciate the small things in life and know that love is in the details. Who choose to live in the present moment and find no value hanging on to the past or are waiting for that better thing in the future that will finally make them happy particularly if they think it is me. Who are aware the only moment we ever have is right NOW! They can see all "so called" negative experience come with opportunities to grow and learn. They understand life is about changing and becoming, and seriously guys, the no baggage thing makes me chuckle. We all have stuff . It comes with the condition called "being human" and I believe it is what grows us and gives us each our unique perspectives. If you think you have none, you might want to turn around and have another look. And if your stuff is you are in an unfinished relationship I am uninterested. What matters to me is your ability to deal with what you carry. And then there is the "no drama" thing. People living with drama always think the problem comes from outside of them and is caused by others. The truth is people who really don't want drama just don't have drama. You have to recognize it when it comes and choose not to engage and it is this choosing that keeps you drama free, not telling others you don't want it.I value honesty and the capacity to tell one's truth even if it isn't popular or easy. I am very straight up and you will always know where you stand with me; something I have noticed not everyone appreciates. And those who do, I call friend. And very important is an understanding how nothing is ever really personal (I'm still working on this one). Also a commitment to creating harmony instead of conflict is imperative. Most significant for me is the ability to look for and see the good in life, because life is what you make it. I don't have it all figured out but for the most part I am enjoying the process of self-discovery.My intention is to be my best most loving Me. I live my life daily challenging my ego and it's judgements. I see everybody as a mirror, so if my buttons get pushed I look inside myself to understand why what they did or didn't do bothers me so much rather than blame and look outside at them. It is not easy and I continually slip and fall. It takes practise, courage and much discipline to live this way. I have made a decision that it is important to me that I build all new relationship with those who are on similar path and who are awake, aware and consciously evolving. I wish to create an authentic partnership with someone who looks inside for his answers and is committed to his personal growth. Who takes responsibility for his behaviours and choices, and knows he creates his own experience and from this he grows. I am very committed to leading a green and Eco-friendly lifestyle. I garden and can and preserve the food I grow, I buy organic, I cook and bake from scratch and I even make my own non-toxic cleaning supplies. I think I was born in the wrong decade because I would have made a very good pioneer woman or maybe even a happy hippie or flower child. *If the power ever goes out you are going to want to know me.....lol. More seriously, I really care about my carbon footprint and how I am leaving this planet for our next generations.This is my path and if you share it I would love to explore the endless possibilities. And although secondary to me but not unimportant is a mutual physical attraction and chemistry that must not be ignored. I am raising my grandchildren. They are my first and most important priority and anyone who chooses to enter my life will be an asset to them as well as me. Parenting again was curve ball and not something I ever expected to be doing at this stage in my life but here we are, and the lemonade is wonderful. One last cliché:) I live by the beach and I like to walk....let's take it from there:)

I am a woman always looking for new adventures(and I don't mean sex gentlemen). I won't cater to you sitting on the couch, watching sports and getting fat. I want you to be there to live life to its fullest. I am a rocker at heart and want you there with me screaming our lungs out til we have no voices. FYI you better be able to keep up with me in the mosh pit. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger!! I'm in no way a bar star (I used to be in my younger days lol) but I have friends who are in the music biz so I'm very supportive of Calgary's local music scene (it rocks!!!!!!!). I am a self sufficient woman and you should be a self sufficient man. No stage 5 clingers!!!!! My Family is very important to me and are a big part of my life. A little more about my values and beliefs....Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.It is because we are different that each of us is special.Do not set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you..Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future.By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life.Do not give up when you still have something to give.Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other....Do not be afraid to encounter risks.It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find.The quickest way to receive love is to give love; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly.Do not dismiss your dreams.To be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose.Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going.Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.I'm looking for...HonestySomeone who knows what they want in lifeYou need to have your sh*t togetherYou should be self supporting cuz if your looking for a sugar mama...move along ..that.s not my thing...lolIt would be nice if your into bikes (especially harley's)You are willing to take chances in lifeYou have a sense of humorYou like to have funYou are a man of integrityYou don't lie or cheatYou are happy with the simple things in lifeYou can laugh at yourself...not othersYou must be at least 5'10"(sorry guys I like to kiss up not down)We all have baggage....lets just check it at the door Hmmmmm....lets see....How about meeting for a brewski and some new ink? LOL...kidding....lets save that for the second date.

Hi there, Nice to meet you.... hope you're enjoying your Summer 2013.... It would be awesome to hear from you if you're into getting to really know me for the right reasons.... not for a quick fling, not for a quick booty call, but instead, show interest in all that I am, all that I do, and all that I have to offer when treated the way a woman really wants to be treated.I enjoy long walks along the ocean, a vast array of music, a nice glass of red wine, and a romantic at heart. Genuine and caring is my nature, calm, cool and collected.... very social and work hard to meet my many goals in life. I have a wide variety of interests, but next venture is to obtain my motorcycle license and get a really nice bike in a years' time... lol.... would love to meet someone who is into doing some bike touring one day. Love to travel, camp, fish, golf , walk, play pool, bake, cook, dance, and most of all, laugh and smile alot! Life's too short not to.If you're looking for true friendship, a loving relationship building trust along the way, and looking for great companionship, I look forward to meeting you soon... thankyou for dropping in, and I wish you all the best in your search for that someone special. My idea of a first date would be to meet for a Coffee somewhere quaint, share some good conversation in a comfortable setting and see if there's a chance for a second meeting.

Hi I'm in my 50s! Wow has time flown! Now the focus of my life changes, with kids behind me life can hold all kinds of adventure. I have been single for a while and would like to have more fun in my life. I like walks on the beach, cooking and enjoying a meal with friends, a good game of Cranium or Euchre. I used to love to dance and have always wanted to take a salsa or ballroom dance class.I love to travel! I have always dreamed of going to Machu Picchu, it is supposed to be amazing. I would like to do more exploring and it would be fun to do that with someone else.I listen to Abraham cds and find the information to be inspirational. I am always working on self discovery. So stop by and say hello, don't be shy, I won't bite... Hey guys maybe someone could share what the meet me button is for? What am I supposed to do next? Am I supposed to send you a message?

Hi, I am a glass half full type of person. I try to find a positive aspect in every day. My job is the greatest and I enjoy it immensely. I have three children that are grown and they mean the world to me. One of my hobbies is painting pictures when I have time. Spending time with my friends is another thing I enjoy. I just got my class 6 license, so I am out on my purple bike every chance I get. When I hear music chances are you will find me dancing, I love both music and dancing. And yes I have a facial piercing but no tattoos. Want to know more? Just ask. If you do drugs or drink to excess, no thanks.