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NickiOffline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are. - C.G. Jung I believe that life isn't meant to give us our meaning. We give meaning to our life. I am spiritual but not religious, and I was long before it became cliché and it was just considered weird. I was even country when country wasn't cool although I know for some of you it still isn't:) I am looking for a fellow journeyer whose desire it is to create a mature and authentic relationship. Someone who knows who he is and how to keep it real; the walk your talk thing. I do my best to focus on what I want as opposed to what I don't and I had this at the bottom of my profile but I think it needs to be a little closer to the top for those of you might not get that far... " I will unlikely respond to one sentenced messages or a primary focus on my physical appearance."I value what's on the inside much more than the outer. I am a very down to earth and organic woman. Still waters run deep and so do I. I love where I am in life and excited about where I might be going. I happily accept my grey hair and wrinkles for the privilege of knowing who I am. I've lived long enough to learn if you keep falling in the same pothole it might be time to chose a different road and it seems my road is the one less travelled...ah I am just full of clichés. As I was writing this I started thinking about clichés as they seem to abound here, so I looked up the meaning. Cliché: A trite expression--often a figure of speech whose effectiveness has been worn out through overuse and excessive familiarity. So even though not very original, there is value to be found in the content so I thought it would be fun to express my intention and desires through clichés because it seems it is what most do here in the sea of Plenty of Fish:) Let’s begin with quality over quantity. Yes, and the qualities I admire in others and I am cultivating in myself is the ability to stop and smell the roses and/or coffee. I am interested in people who understand there is no time like the present (yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift). Who comprehend it is absolutely pointless to cry over spilt milk. They may be a diamond in the rough but remember from the little acorn grows a mighty oak. One who carries their own baggage. And of course there is no sweeping things under the carpet, beating around the bush or making mountains out of molehills. You can keep on moving on if you are looking for greener pastures. Judge not, lest ye be judged. And the big one....no drama! I am still very much a work of art in progress.Okay, that is about as cheesy as even I am willing to get. Still there is depth of meaning to the above and here is my actual translation. I love to be around people with the ability to appreciate the small things in life and know that love is in the details. Who choose to live in the present moment and find no value hanging on to the past or are waiting for that better thing in the future that will finally make them happy particularly if they think it is me. Who are aware the only moment we ever have is right NOW! They can see all "so called" negative experience come with opportunities to grow and learn. They understand life is about changing and becoming, and seriously guys, the no baggage thing makes me chuckle. We all have stuff . It comes with the condition called "being human" and I believe it is what grows us and gives us each our unique perspectives. If you think you have none, you might want to turn around and have another look. And if your stuff is you are in an unfinished relationship I am uninterested. What matters to me is your ability to deal with what you carry. And then there is the "no drama" thing. People living with drama always think the problem comes from outside of them and is caused by others. The truth is people who really don't want drama just don't have drama. You have to recognize it when it comes and choose not to engage and it is this choosing that keeps you drama free, not telling others you don't want it.I value honesty and the capacity to tell one's truth even if it isn't popular or easy. I am very straight up and you will always know where you stand with me; something I have noticed not everyone appreciates. And those who do, I call friend. And very important is an understanding how nothing is ever really personal (I'm still working on this one). Also a commitment to creating harmony *** conflict is imperative. Most significant for me is the ability to look for and see the good in life, because life is what you make it. I don't have it all figured out but for the most part I am enjoying the process of self-discovery.My intention is to be my best most loving Me. I live my life daily challenging my ego and it's judgements. I see everybody as a mirror, so if my buttons get pushed I look inside myself to understand why what they did or didn't do bothers me so much rather than blame and look outside at them. It is not easy and I continually slip and fall. It takes practise, courage and much discipline to live this way. I have made a decision that it is important to me that I build all new relationship with those who are on similar path and who are awake, aware and consciously evolving. I wish to create an authentic partnership with someone who looks inside for his answers and is committed to his personal growth. Who takes responsibility for his behaviours and choices, and knows he creates his own experience and from this he grows. I am very committed to leading a green and Eco-friendly lifestyle. I garden and can and preserve the food I grow, I buy organic, I cook and bake from scratch and I even make my own non-toxic cleaning supplies. I think I was born in the wrong decade because I would have made a very good pioneer woman or maybe even a happy hippie or flower child. *If the power ever goes out you are going to want to know me.....lol. More seriously, I really care about my carbon footprint and how I am leaving this planet for our next generations.This is my path and if you share it I would love to explore the endless possibilities. And although secondary to me but not unimportant is a mutual physical attraction and chemistry that must not be *** am raising my grandchildren. They are my first and most important priority and anyone who chooses to enter my life will be an asset to them as well as me. Parenting again was curve ball and not something I ever expected to be doing at this stage in my life but here we are, and the lemonade is wonderful. One last cliché:) I live by the beach and I like to walk....let's take it from there:)
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CarmelinaOffline
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
I enjoy most forms of art, watching movies and cuddling. I love cooking, most anything outdoors. My outlook on life is that there is always beauty to be found and that being positive is a way of life. I love kids and pets. I enjoy most kinds of music, but some more than others. My goal is to find the right man to spend quality time with on a part time basis for now anyways. Who knows if I find the right guy??? I love laughing and must have someone who also has a good sense of humor. My goal is to continue to be happy, help others and appreciate life. PLEASE NO MARRIED MEN,NO ATTACHED MEN, NO MEN WITH SIGNIFICANT OTHER, NO BOYS IF U R NOT AT LEAST 35 OR IF U R ONE OF THE ABOVE DO NOT WASTE MY TIME PLEASE. It seems that many of you guys dont't understand what a lover is, sad, so i guess i have to spell it out. A lover is a man who wants to spend some intimate time with me, no this does not mean just jump in the sack and carry on. It also means a menogamous but not full time relationship. If you want to talk, laugh, have some fun and spend some time together,and also have a respectful caring sexual relationship with give me a buzz. If u r looking for wam bam thank u ma'am, they have hookers for that. PLEASE do not IM me unless u have contacted me so I can see your profile. Thank You and have a great day!:) Being that I am a flexible and adaptable person, who enjoys so many things, I think that a first date would depend on whom I am spending it with. Rarely do I make a one sided decision and do not believe that is the way to start a relationship.
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MeganOffline
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
Most if not all the guys on here want the one thing they can get anywhere and thats a one night stand.. I am seriously looking for my future and will not settle for anything less then that. I have my expectations on here if you choose to contact me read first please..Just moving to Chetywnd till the end of January ***This most likley will turn into full time living here we shall see .For now I may go home on weekends weather permitting. . If you are looking for a loyal .. honest hard working gal who loves and puts ***percent into her man then look no farther.I believe the most beautiful person is one who has as much beauty on the inside as the outside. If you seek someone who has the outer beauty,,make sure what they have on the inside is just as deep.. I do not seek the material things in life what matters to me is loyalty and trust.. I am seriouslly looking for a relationship and so far its been nothing but a lot of game players, at our age I find that a little silly,I seek a guy who is not afraid to show his intimate side either outside or inside, by this I mean do not get offended if I want to kiss you when we are in a line up in a grocaery store... No not a long lingering wett kiss but a kiss that says I love you... and glad you are in my life, I want to see that smile at the end of the day and I want to see it first thing in the morning. .I seek. someone who has there stuff together.. I want to share those moments of being outside fishing, camping or just sitting around an open fire watching the stars holding hands and cuddling on a blanket in the back yard talking about our day.. If you have the tendancy to sleep around KEEP on going..not looking for someone elses leftovers.. ... I have a picture so you should to.. and it should be CURRENT.. not 10 or more years ago please.. ... You should have NO hangups from your past.. leave the baggage at the door come on in.. I have a great job.. I am not looking for a keeper nor am I looking to keep anyone.. althou I am missing something that I like and enjoy.. I am no barbie doll .Not looking for a ken doll.. Long distance is ok as I have a job with flexability but I am not the 1 who will do all the traveling... works both ways ... anyways,, if this sounds like fun... knock knock..pets are huge in my life as well.I love going out to local hockey games I try to stay involved with the community in every way possible. KIds and grandbabies are also big part.If I have looked at your profile I must have liked what I saw, but being on this site for awhile now I no most guys want someone who is close enough so they can see them when they want.. Sorry being in a small town does not give me that flexability.. good luck fishing..Oh and by the way I am 56.. I tried to change my age on here it will not allow me to...I am looking for a guy who brings as much into a relationship as I do... this meaning YES you have a job.. Yes you are single.. and Yes.. you want to be into things we both enjoy ......I am the most loyal gal you will ever have in your life, I need only one guy in my life to stand and walk beside and if we are apart you never need worry that I am out looking thats not who I am now or ever was in the past. If you like what you have read please send me a message and I will respond. I am a no BS kind of gal if I do not think we have much in common I will let you no right away. I am not into games.. ( smiles,,,, some yes)... First dates are gonna be the reason that you will have a second date. We could meet for coffee.. go for beer and wings or go grab a popcorn... or just let me beat you at a game of crib.. or what ever,,, did I say LET me beat you lol..