Single Women in Naples, Maine

Hi! My name is Niya. I am never married other african woman without kids from Naples, Maine, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

Exploring a dating site at my age...really? How is it that a smart, witty woman with reasonable social skills finds herself in this predicament? I am a liberal, animal loving vegan who eschews convention and the need to conform. I enjoy witty banter...am well read...love the om-ness of daily yoga...... I am the consummate geeky girlygirl. I am best defined by my sense of wonder and curiosity .Good manners are everything...oh and levity. The ability to laugh at oneself is probably even more important than the converse. I vote, am good to my mother, believe in the reintroduction of the wolf and ferverently believe we all have an obligation to improve our speck of the earth. Calm and soothing with a touch of diva.I completely get that I am not everyone's cup of tea or glass of champagne as it were and really, I am good with that. That all being said, life is short, time fleeting and love reminds us we are alive. I think we often get caught up in the mythical concept of perfection and the maddening pursuit of it, never stopping to breathe and realize we have everything we need and that the greatness within us is only searching for the compatible greatness in another. I believe in fierce loyalty...the reality of someone having my back and I his.

First off, Chat doesn't work on the ipad. So if I don't respond it may be that I didn't get the chat message. Please message me. I enjoy spending time with friends and family. Some of my interests are reading, sightseeing, music, and dancing. I love spending time on the lake and going to the beach. I am shy at first, but very outgoing when I get to know someone. I love to laugh and have fun. I am a Christian Lady. I am looking for a long term relationship. I am not looking to see how many different men I can go out with. I am looking for that one special man. I am not into playing games. I am a hopeless romantic. I enjoy spending time with that special person...whether it be an evening out on the town or at home cooking out and cuddling on the couch. I enjoy cooking but think it's much more fun when cooking together. I can dress up in that little black dress or be comfortable in jeans and sweatshirt. I enjoy going to concerts and most sporting events. What I'm looking for: I am looking for a gentleman. Someone who gives me butterflies every time he walks into the room. I want someone that I miss when he's not there and look forward to seeing or talking to every night. I am looking for someone who feels the same way. I believe that dreams do come true.I am not interested in text dating. ( There is a lot of that going on and I'm not into dating by computer or phone). After talking on here a few times and on the phone, we should meet and see where it goes. Also, if you don't have a current picture, don't expect a response. Meet for a drink or dinner. Sit and talk and get to know one another. Take a walk in the park or downtown.

If you dont want to put a picture up here then thats your choice but please stop asking for my email!! Aghhhhh. Ok, got that out of my system. Well, Im an ordinary down to earth girl. Like all the usual girlie stuff I guess. Im not really a sporty type. Much prefer to be watching on a big screen in a little pub holding a big beer! Love all the simple things in life. Family, friends, handbags! Theres loads more of course but would rather let you find out over a beer. I dont believe in making lists. If there is chemistry between two people, then thats a great start. Hate having to put my mugshot up here but there is not much point in being on a dating site if people cant see you, so please, only contact me if you have a pic up too. Oh and jusy to say, they are not aliens beside me in the photos. Couldnt figure out how to hide their faces (: cheers! It would be lovely to meet a kind honest Man around my own age, to share a laugh with and just to do all the simple stuff. Love to go to see live bands.

There is so much more to a persons’ character than a few written words can describe. In fact in many cases it can take years to really get to know someone. But we all have to start somewhere, right. Do you have just about everything in life but that one fantastic person to spend time with? Do you long to be with someone that makes you feel special and important? Are you looking for your better half… your soul mate? If so, you’re not alone.Our experiences shape who we are. Even so, there’s so much more to learn and much to look forward to… when we find that one right person to share it with. Like Forest Gump said: my momma always said, “Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get”. We don t know what the future holds for us. All we can do is take chances… and pray that Lord blesses us along the way.Do you enjoy the outdoors as much as I do - long coastal walks with the salt water swishing between your toes, the soothing sound of ocean waves, watching sunsets and sunrises, and cozy beach picnics on warm sunny days? I strive to share my time with people who are kind hearted, open, honest, genuine, fun, and down to earth. I'm way past the bar scene, instead prefer spending time with friends at fun restaurants, outdoor events, house get-togethers, picnics, anything that encourages good conversation... and the opportunity to get to know and appreciate people for who they are.I enjoy going out, as well as the comforts of home. There is much to be said about the simple things in life. I love all kinds of music from New Age to New Country. I believe that exercise and taking care of ourselves is important… no matter where we’re at in life.If I were to describe my ideal mate, he would be handsome, clean-cut, intelligent, with a great sense of humor, responsible, and financially stable.’s even-tempered, open minded, and giving in heart and soul, a man with the ability to listen and communicate on a deeper level, a man understands that good things do require effort, and someone who enjoys the simple pleasures in life - as simple as cooking dinner together, when time allows.Equally important is chemistry – a crucial component to any lasting relationship. Sometimes it’s instant. Occasionally it develops over time as we spend time together. Either way it’s a necessity -- and one of those intangibles that has a magic all its own… and it can all start here, if we give it a chance. Lets decide together over coffee.

I think the profiles that are the most compelling, the most thoughtful and hopefully the most honest are the ones that tell the story that can’t be told the first or second time you meet and probably don’t need to be told if there is a third. Oddly enough, it is about subtleties delivered with a broad brush approach. So here goes… I have an unyielding zest for life but love the quite times. I have been on meetville for about a month, quietly learning about the site and how it works. This morning, cup of coffee in hand, I am writing my profile. My life is about the yin and yang…I am an artist. I paint but I also work in the corporate world. I love the water and sailing/cruising but love connections to community and friends. I am not mixed up… it makes perfect sense to me. Humor, I truly think the world can’t turn without it. I love to laugh…the good kind, a real belly laugh. It is a gift we should use more. I like organization and try to keep my home/boat in order. She is my passion. I love my boat and Mr. Dobbs, my rather large, cat. He has turned out to be quite the boat cat.-aboard, boat cat. The people here are the perfect mix of eccentric and down to earth, well-to-do and hard working, fun and quirky, well versed in boat “mechanicing” to needing help tying a dock line… but we all love the water. It makes me smile to walk down the dock and see the grays of the dock boards, the ripples on the water and then the inevitable interruption of a warm greeting “another beautiful day.” Simply said, it is a good place. What I want… what kind of person will I ultimately find?… that is almost impossible to say upfront. It is about chemistry (literally), interests, direction, work ethic, values, sharing a good beer, music, knowledge (that yin and yang thing again, what can I learn from you and what can you learn from me), how you feel about the other creatures we share the plant with, how well you can trim the sails and oh, did I mention laughter. I am fit, strong and feel that I have a feminine quality that manages to stay in place even when I am working in the bilge or on my diesel engine. Appearance matters but it is not defining. Like a painting, for me “looks” are comprised of many layers: smiles, complexion, body shape and tone, hair and that ultimate sparkle in the eye. Pictures only go so far… you have to see a person in their environment to ultimately find out if there is a connection. To quote a song… “it’s a fragile magic” Gotta love life and it sure is fun trying to figure out this journey. Informal, simple. A drink or lunch.

Not looking for Mr. Perfect (or anyone who thinks he is), just looking for the right guy for me. He should be articulate, intelligent, trustworthy and have a great sense of humor. He shouldn't get his britches in a bundle when something goes wrong; between two semi-intelligent people we can figure things out with little to no angst involved. Would love you to have a good personality. I love to talk and to listen and I would like the same from you. A good conversation goes a long way!If you can't find things to talk about then it would make for a very ackward date. Let's talk on the phone first and see how the conversation flows. After that we can meet somewhere for a cup of coffee or something like that.

I working so hard all my life, but children now adult and have own life and my life bit emthy....I missing sam good company for holiday and evenings sametimes lonely...I still have dream meat same special, my soulmate... Cup of tea/coffee in good place

Well, I am outgoing, fun, spontaneous and love to have a good time. I love to cook and have friends over. Would love to meet someone to enjoy. I am not a stalker and I have my own life already. Do not want to raise or mother you and no whiners without a job need apply. No married men or players need apply! Looking forward to hearing from you :) You decide and surprise me!

I love movies. I want to see every movie ever made. I enjoy it more watching with someone who also loves film. I like live theater, too.I love animals, all animals. I have a dog, cat and lizard right now. I've owned birds, rodents and fish. Even took care of a torantula.I love to be in, on or near the water. If you have a boat, GREAT!People have told me I'm the nicest person they have ever meet. Since I've heard that so much I guess it must be true.Family is mighty important. I see mine frequently. 2 of my adult children are living with me. 1 is disabled and 1 is going to college. My other son has graduated college and living on his own.I'm friends with a local band and go to see them whenever possible. I'm not shy on the dance floor.I like to be outdoors; camping, gardening, walking .....I'm deeply spiritual but not religious. God is everywhere, not just church.