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Shana
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I'm not desperate for men, just never get out to meet any. Thought I'd give this a try. Used to never have a problem meeting people, then I guess new job less free time happened. Plus I was making sure my kids finished college! Taking care of parents, grandparents, everyone else that I forgot I might want someone in my life. Someone who has a great sense of humor but can be serious when need be. Someone willing to have me as a priority (but I don't expect to be main priority when kids are involved, but still a priority). Someone who has patience when need be. Spontaneous but stable! Tender and gentle, but strong! Someone who puts other people's feelings first, but isn't a pushover though! Someone who loves their family and has strong family values, but still lives their own lives and makes their own decisions. My kids are grown, working on living their own life and having their own families. I have three children and two grandbabies! I have spent the last nearly 30 years raising my children to be healthy, happy adults able to have their own lifes and families one day. I chose to put plans on hold and commit myself fully to raising them as best as I was able, and I think I did a pretty damn good job! I am proud of them all and no degree in the world can top having been able to just be called "Mom"! And I can be happy for the rest of my life by myself if need be. But if it doesn't have to be, why should it. So if I meet someone who clicks with me, then great. And if I just meet someone who ends up a good friend, well I'm always looking for new friends! I love the outdoors, just need plenty of sunscreen (natural redhead, I don't tan-I freckle alot or burn, neither a pretty sight!). I'm not looking for a sugar daddy either, you can't buy attraction. Please put a pic on your profile if you want to talk! If you don't want your pic public at least send me one with your first message or I WILL NOT respond! And please men, spare me excuse of how you work for the goverment and it would be a security risk to send a pic! Or you can't figure how to upload a pic! Don't assume I am stupid, *** gullible. I'm kind enough to let you see who you are talking to, return the favor. Otherwise you are just hiding something or yourself and in that case don't waste my time........ meet for coffee or a light drink, good conversation and go from there
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Dom
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
Online
Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 29-45
Hello, I am a proud father of 4 amazing children. My Son is my oldest, he is 21, and my 3 beautiful daughters are 18, 15, and 13. They are the light of my life, but unfortunately there mother and I were never lined up morally, and after 18yrs of a cold and heartless marriage things are finally over. I stayed married for so long for my children and because I believed it was the right thing to do. I recently moved to Bend, OR last January, from Colorado Springs, for an amazing job opportunity, and to start the next chapter in my life. If personality, wit, and humor, and common sense were the same as good looks, then I wld be Brad Pit, lmao!!! I am a very silly person, and love to make people laugh. I love witty and sarcastic, and flirty conversations. I always have a movie or music playing in my head. I do have a series side, and I love to argue(debate). I am pretty intelligent, but dont act like it. I am a hopeless romantic, but also a typical stubborn Male, lol. I love to watch movies, and feel most comfortable snuggled up on the couch watching movies, but also love to go out on the town. I am an avid Texas Hold'em player with aspersions of becoming a professional player. I love to have a few drinks, doing Karaoke, or playing bean bags, or darts, or pool. I am a Denturist, and have been learning to be a better one since the age of 12. There is maybe ***people in the entire country as good as I am at what I do. I have not been on a date for many years so I wld be lying if I didnt admit that this whole starting over thing doesn't scare the crap out of me, but i believe i am worthy of being happy, and have never been one to shy away from a challenge. I am very ADD, so I am at my best when I am very stressed, and at my worst when very bored. I am a problem solver, and and out of the box thinker. When I am mad, it is best to just leave me alone for a little while, and let me figure out if I'm really just being an ass, lol. I am quick to forgive, and never hold a grudge. Without a doubt, I am definitely not a morning person. I am hoping to find my soul mate one day, but will be taking it slow. Ps. Rarely will you find me without a smile, but I never smile in pictures, lol.
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Tameka
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
You will always find me smiling, laughing, and, hopefully, making others smile and laugh too. I don't need a man to "complete" me, I am already complete and very happy with life. I am looking for someone that I can share all my smiles with, make him laugh and spoil him a little too. I want to be able to be vulnerable with someone and let them see that I may not always be able to handle everything alone, and not because I can't, but because, I don't want to anymore. I want a shoulder to lean on and,...if necessary, cry on. I want to allow someone to provide a strength that only a man can provide. I want to and will, adore someone who will appreciate even the little things I do for him. I want to make someone feel like he is the most wonderful man in the world, because, for me,....he will be. I am a woman with many gifts to give. I don't want a life without laughter and that unforgettable kiss. Just read a quote that sums it up,......."You wanted a kiss. Is that what you wanted? Are you prepared for everything that comes with a kiss? Because it doesn't just end with a fade out. There are repercussions. Hearts get broken. Friendships get ruined. Your entire life could fall apart because of ONE kiss". To me, this quote means that your entire life could change because of one kiss,...and not necessarily for the bad. It can and will be an amazing start.I want a man who will call me during the day just to say he is thinking about me. A text message is also good. While it only takes about 30 seconds, it is 30 seconds that I know he is thinking about me. A man who can make me laugh is one who will truly win my heart, and I am not talking about a giggle,....I mean a good ole fashioned belly laugh! I am looking for a man who makes me smile just thinking about him. The kind of guy who will make my heart smile. I want a man that, when I look at him, I get butterflies in my stomach coming from the fact that I can't believe I am lucky enough to have him in my life. I am generally happy on my own, but I know that real happiness is best when it's shared with someone really special. The person I am looking for doesn't have to be perfect, nobody is...but I know there will be something about him that is irresistable to me.I don't really have a "type" but if you can make me smile,make me laugh,hold my hand when we go for a walk, kiss me in the morning, and call for no reason other than to say "I'm thinking about you" then I will have all I need. Deep down, I believe, that we all want the same thing--someone who will truly love us for who we are--chemistry is important, being able to talk to someone with ease and not having to force a conversation or try and "be" who you think the other person wants.Please don't lose sight of the most important things in your life. Only you know what they are, but I can tell you this; I don't believe they have any thing to do with money or possessions. While these are great to have, they will mean nothing unless you have the people you truly love surrounding you. I understand that we are all busy and I don't want to be another "job" for you. My question is,.....is there a "man" out there who doesn't lie, disappear without explanation and says what they mean and mean what they say? At this point, my experience tells me that they do not exist. Almost done here because there has not been ONE man that has proven this theory wrong, and if there are, I'm sorry,...all of the bad ones are messing it up for you great guys. Good luck to the great guys out there, you have your work cut out for you because your predecessors are paving the way with molten lava
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Zanegildvg
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
Online
Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 28-44
Hi! My name is Zanegildvg. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Bend, Oregon, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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Jewels
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 21-41
Hi! My name is Jewels. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Bend, Oregon, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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Babygirl
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
Online
Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 18-33
Hi! My name is Babygirl. I am separated other caucasian woman with kids from Bend, Oregon, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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Haffchad91R
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
Online
Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 25-51
Hi! My name is Haffchad91R. I am never married catholic caucasian man with kids from Bend, Oregon, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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Lawanda
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
Music is a pasion of mine, and I am always listening to all kinds. I am ready to have some of the best times of my life and want to share new memories with a gentleman. I am a attracted to a man who is ready to have fun and looking for the comfort of a companion. I give more then receive, but like to be spoiled at times. I love to laugh and you must have a sense of humor to hang with me. I am seeking a man who can be both a best friend and lover. R u open and willing to take the next step in a serious relationship? I am. My focus is to have fun and enjoy my time with a man that is compatible with me. I do like a strong man to take contol at times, and to be able to see the needs of a woman and give unselfishly. I have a career and I love my profession. I believe there has to be an attraction and a connection before an intimate encounter. I will not receive *** your pic. Timing is everything don't want to waste it. I know online seeking for love is not traditional, but if u want to "meet me" or send a "hi" message just take a chance and ask me on a date! Take a chance, be unique! You never know unless u ask. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Fishing is a sport, you gotta play to win. On the 1st date,kiss. One the second, hey you never know!
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Lenore
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
Offline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I love adventure. Trying new things, meeting new people. Enjoying all types of music from rock to classical. And cooking is a passion. Let me making something special and I am in heaven. Dancing is a thing that's in my blood. I hear the music and my body reacts, must be my Latin blood. My favorite place is the beach.Life has taught me that everyone is special in their own way and each of us deserves respect. First and foremost. I have made large changes in my life and want to enjoy the moment. But also am open to meeting someone that could be something more than friend at some point. I am not interested in one night stands, or dating a multitude of people simultaneously. Just hoping to find something worth waiting for.Please note: not interested in married men. Notice most profiles list status-but want it clear. A lovely dinner, maybe go listen to some jazz. Or dancing. Love the movies. Or a day at the beach - picnic by the water.
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Laurel
Bend
- Oregon
- United States
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
Would like to find that person that brings a smile to my face when I know I get to see them at the end of a workday. Someone’s company to enjoy on a lazy weekend watching movies, or traveling and taking in new sights. Someone who inspires me to be the best person I can be and hopefully I do the same for them. Someone who values trust and honesty in a relationship. Someone I can be silly with. A partner who can stick with you thru good times and bad - we all know life’s not perfect at all times and we have to learn from everyone and everything that happens to us. I believe two people can have varied interests and do not have to spend every single moment together - it gives us something to chat about when we do see each other again, right?I’m fairly laid back, tend to have a sarcastic sense of humor at times, and I can also be a little quiet until I get to know you...but then watch out! Also not a serial dater – so if that’s what you want to do then I'm not the one for you.