Single Women Seeking Men In Lone Grove, Oklahoma, United States

Pandora

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

Apparently I was enlisted in the "catch & release" section of this website the first time around, so, here we go again :)I'd like to meet someone to spend time with, with the common goal of it being a long term thing. I am NOT here for a random hookup. I do NOT need a computer for that. So, if that's why you're here, please don't waste my time, or yours. It's rough out there, no need to add to the nonsense of dating in your thirties.** Must love animals ( so yes, you guys with pics of you & your dog/cat, you get extra points)** I have tattoos, so if that's an issue, sorry! If YOU have tattoos, that's a bonus!UPDATE:I like kids. If you have kids, that's GREAT (It eventually gives me an excuse to do things like coloring eggs, apple/pumpkin picking & going to the petting zoo). However, if you have your kids every weekend, and you work all week, where exactly do you think you're fitting me (or any other fishy) into your schedule? Please have time for the attempt of getting to know someone.If you are separated, that CAN be ok, provided you are still not sleeping on the couch. Things need to have progressed on to separate homes, lawyers, etc. To my CT Fishies: You get included in my search (and vice versa) because no one takes into consideration that there is a large body of water between us. Sorry, but, that body of water IS in the way! Cocktails. Takes the nervous edge off (im NOT an alcoholic sillyheads!) Somewhere not too loud; need to be able to have a conversation. Laughter is a must. If all goes well, then perhaps some dinner, or more drinks, or both. Some dancing thrown in would be just lovely. I'm pretty laid back and just go with the flow after that, but this is kind of a must for the FIRST date. Second dates are good for things like bowling (I have my own ball & shoes because I kinda rock!), mini golf, a picnic, etc. Please take note: coming to your house to 'watch a movie' is NOT a date (& is not happening the first time(s) we meet)

Janie

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

Im a pretty shy person until I get to know someone. I love all kinds of music and I love to watch football and basketball! I love different kinds of art and I love to make things myself. I tend to be pretty independent too. Im far from a pushover but would rather walk away than to do or say something I will regret later. My personality runs the gauntlet from silly to serious and I tend to have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. I am VERY protective of those I call family and friends.I tend to look at things alot differently than most and I try to keep an open mind and not judge people for their pasts....because that's exactly what it is...the past. I dont think people should try to change others because then you change what makes up the person you were attracted to to begin with. I also like to try new things....within reason LOL! I think everyone needs their own friends and their own space or it can tend to wear a person down.I think the reason most relationships fail is because of lack of communication or people think that a relationship should simply "BE" rather than working at it.....if you want it to last you have to invest all of yourself and work hard to maintain it. I have been single for awhile. I needed the time to find ME again and to work on my self confidence. I found me and Im working on the self confidence thing. I dont sit around and whine about it...believe me...I tend to internalize rather than externalize things like that. I have two children who are my world, 1 girl and 1 boy. They both live with me full time and anyone who wants to e with me has got to be able to understand that I will NEVER put anyone before them....EVER. I have yet to get beyond a couple of conversations with someone without them lying or some other shady shit.....If you cant be honest in a phone convo I sure as hell dont want to meet your ass....REALLY!?! Obviously you are just lookin to get laid as well....piss off I got no time for that. Ya'll men need to get your sh*ttogether and stop treating every woman like the $2 street hoes you're used to sleeping with within an hour of meeting them! You have no respect for them or yourself and its pathetic. How would you feel if someone treated your daughter the way you treat the women you speak to? Grow up and stop acting like sex starved pathetic ***holes....it makes you look desperate and that is NOT attractive!And for you men who put that you want a relationship or are actively seeking one....only to change your story once you start talkin to someone....you are just as pathetic! Playing games is for children not grown men. I get why you do it....simply to get into a girls pants....but I can tell you that that will not work with me so do us both a favor and dont waste my time.I am generally not a **** but the behavior of about every single "man" who has contacted me on here has me thoroughly disgusted. I DO NOT NEED A MAN IN MY LIFE....I want one there to share life with.....so do not mistake me for some money hungry hoe who will do anything to get your attention.DO NOT MESSAGE ME BEING DISRESPECTFUL! IM SICK OF GETTING EVERY PERVERT ON THIS SIGHT! I will not tolerate being disrespected....period! I realize you mens' minds are in the gutter ***of the time but get your sh*t together or move on. I have no time for someone who has no more class than to message a woman being disrespectful. Just depends I suppose on the person.....though I've never understood going to a movie when you are trying to get to know someone because you can't talk....then again if you arent really into the person a movie theater would probably be perfect LOLz!!

Shirlee

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

So here are my general thoughts on online dating. I see this as quite simply a way of meeting people that you might get along with (and possibly date) who you wouldn't have met otherwise. I'm not a big fan of the whole, let's do all the small talk online or over the phone - isn't that what first dates are supposed to be for? Plus then, at least if there is no connection you haven't already used up all the easy topics! I say, if we think we might have a connection, let's just meet, have a drink, and maybe see where things go. As Popeye would say, "I y'am what I y'am." I'm passionate about what I care about, empathetic, I try not to take myself or the world too seriously and I can easily laugh and myself and the ridiculous that is life sometimes, and I'm looking for someone who can as well. Overall, I'm looking for a guy who is witty, fun, and who could never be described as generic. I love intelligence without pretentiousnes and kindness with a sense of humor. Though it doesn't need to happen tomorrow, ultimately I am looking for a relationship and I'm looking for someone who wants the same. On a lighter note... "This guy goes to a psychiatrist and says, "Doc, my brother's crazy; he thinks he's a chicken." And the doctor says, "Well, why don't you turn him in?" The guy says, "I would, but I need the eggs." Well, I guess that's pretty much now how I feel about relationships; y'know, they're totally irrational, and crazy, and absurd, but, uh, I guess we keep goin' through it because most of us... need the eggs."-flicks in general...;.... Food: Sushi, Steak, Wine, Cheese, Bacon Other Stuff: Sociology, Fresh Flowers, Organization Stores (it's weird, I know), Flea Markets, Photography, Animals, Brunch Generally I like to meet somewhere for drinks and apps, if we like each other, we can continue to dinner, if not, we go our separate ways!

Marly

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

Very out-goin love all typlove es of music love 2 dance sing goin 2 da movies like 2 cuddle

Adreana

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

Yes I'm grown and sexy, I make good conscious decisions, let me make this clear to all....I'm not here looking for sex nor money...Im a cool person to chill with as a friend...there is not a such thing as friends with benefits as I was taught....why can't people meet new friends and just chill, chill meaning get together cutting it up, and enjoy the presence of the opposite sex without sexual relations...what happened to respect of one another? Im perfectly fine with a walk and talk....

Paisley

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

I`m a single mother of a 11 year old daughter, I`m very fun, outgoing, lovable and have an awesome personality. I love hanging out with my friends and family and of course having a good time. I like to listen to pop music and country music but will pretty much listen to anything. I`m a good person with a great heart and I am looking for a man who will be honest, faithful, loving, caring and will treat me the way that I should be treated. I want someone who likes/loves me for who I am. I'm not drop dead georgeous or have a model type body but looks aren't everything, its whats in your heart that counts. I hope that the person I'm looking for is you :-) I'm open to do whatever.

Beatie

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

I like trying new things or just getting out of the house and doing anything really. I listen to most all music. I don't really pay much attention to the words as long as it has an interesting beat or sound to it I will probably like it. Lorde Royals is my current favorite song. I like bright colors, polka dots, and anything that is unique. I'm working towards buying a house; renting is pretty much a waste of money and I really want to be able to make changes and feel the awesome power of home ownership. Cooking is pretty much an experiment, I like to tweak things even if I've never made it before. I watch anime online during my down time and have gotten to the point where I have pretty much watched most of the English dubbed ones and now have to read the subtitled ones. I tend to be attracted to guys who are a little geeky and big personalities. A true gentleman is much appreciated.I want someone who is friendly, makes me smile, loves to get out of the house and do things, enjoys talking about any subject, and especially likes talking with me about everything. I prefer spending as much time as I can with the person I love although, I also want someone who can go off and do there own things and when we meet back up we can talk about our days and enjoy each other. When I've gotten to really like someone; I love to cuddle and any kind of affection. Showing affection with touch and words is very important to me. I want to be with someone who is at the point in their life where they would like to start building a life with someone special and would like to have kids. I am up for pretty much any activity where you can get to know someone and maybe be silly together.

Jacquetta

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

I'm a good girl (sort of) who's just looking to find a good guy :) to hang out with , have fun with, converse with, and eventually fall in love with. Not too much to ask, right? A little about me-- I love reading in general...-- I try to watch anything he's involved in! Geeky TV shows like Big Bang Theory and Bones are really great too. I like music, who doesn't really? Some favorites of mine are 90's era pop (I'm talking the really cheesy lame stuff***the more "one hit wonder" the better!-- Varied list, I know. I love my job and the clients that I get to work with. They make me a better person.I am always honest, perhaps sometimes too much so, and I expect that in a relationship as well. I am not a serial dater, but I am also not willing to settle for something that is less than right. I love to laugh and finding the humor in a bad situation seems to be the better alternative, but I am also a realist and I don’t view the world through the proverbial rose-colored glassesA little about you-- You are intelligent. You are a geek (The Joss Whedon, StarWars, GeekandSundry loving kind). You can spell and love the intricacies of language. You don't speak in "Bingo" language, and don't type 4 and 2 when you really mean, "For" "too" or "to". You know and appreciate the difference between "their", "there" and "they're". You enjoy silence and it doesn’t freak you out. You are good with your hands and you don’t mind getting them dirty.You have traveled. You can tell wonderful stories. You don’t mind repeating yourself.You aren’t scared to make the first move. Coffee?

Michel

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

i'm easy going, love all different types of video games/platforms. movies and music help me survive this chaotic world. looking for somebody to connect with, that understands that we all need friendship and closeness. someone that understands that we just need to be able to be ourselves, and should not have to be pressured to be someone we're not. any questions? ask away, i'm an open book! simple, casual, coffee, food, park, movies are not good since you have to be quiet and that defeats the purpose of getting to know someone

Mai

• Lone Grove

• Oklahoma
• United States

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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

I am a fun loving outgoing person who enjoys spending time with the right person. I love to hang out with friends, listen to music, go dancing and relaxing at home watching a good movies. My fav types of music is hip hop, RnB and dance.So what am I looking for on here, well...... I'm looking for a "real" man. I'm done with the head games and bs. I guess u could say a gentleman in the street and wild man in my sheets ;).