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Janie, 35

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About Me

Im a pretty shy person until I get to know someone. I love all kinds of music and I love to watch football and basketball! I love different kinds of art and I love to make things myself. I tend to be pretty independent too. Im far from a pushover but would rather walk away than to do or say something I will regret later. My personality runs the gauntlet from silly to serious and I tend to have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. I am VERY protective of those I call family and friends.I tend to look at things alot differently than most and I try to keep an open mind and not judge people for their pasts....because that's exactly what it is...the past. I dont think people should try to change others because then you change what makes up the person you were attracted to to begin with. I also like to try new things....within reason LOL! I think everyone needs their own friends and their own space or it can tend to wear a person down.I think the reason most relationships fail is because of lack of communication or people think that a relationship should simply "BE" rather than working at it.....if you want it to last you have to invest all of yourself and work hard to maintain it. I have been single for awhile. I needed the time to find ME again and to work on my self confidence. I found me and Im working on the self confidence thing. I dont sit around and whine about it...believe me...I tend to internalize rather than externalize things like that. I have two children who are my world, 1 girl and 1 boy. They both live with me full time and anyone who wants to e with me has got to be able to understand that I will NEVER put anyone before them....EVER. I have yet to get beyond a couple of conversations with someone without them lying or some other shady shit.....If you cant be honest in a phone convo I sure as hell dont want to meet your ass....REALLY!?! Obviously you are just lookin to get laid as well....piss off I got no time for that. Ya'll men need to get your sh*ttogether and stop treating every woman like the $2 street hoes you're used to sleeping with within an hour of meeting them! You have no respect for them or yourself and its pathetic. How would you feel if someone treated your daughter the way you treat the women you speak to? Grow up and stop acting like sex starved pathetic ***holes....it makes you look desperate and that is NOT attractive!And for you men who put that you want a relationship or are actively seeking one....only to change your story once you start talkin to someone....you are just as pathetic! Playing games is for children not grown men. I get why you do it....simply to get into a girls pants....but I can tell you that that will not work with me so do us both a favor and dont waste my time.I am generally not a **** but the behavior of about every single "man" who has contacted me on here has me thoroughly disgusted. I DO NOT NEED A MAN IN MY LIFE....I want one there to share life with.....so do not mistake me for some money hungry hoe who will do anything to get your attention.DO NOT MESSAGE ME BEING DISRESPECTFUL! IM SICK OF GETTING EVERY PERVERT ON THIS SIGHT! I will not tolerate being disrespected....period! I realize you mens' minds are in the gutter ***of the time but get your sh*t together or move on. I have no time for someone who has no more class than to message a woman being disrespectful. Just depends I suppose on the person.....though I've never understood going to a movie when you are trying to get to know someone because you can't talk....then again if you arent really into the person a movie theater would probably be perfect LOLz!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Suzann

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am unique to say the least. I am loyal, hardworking, extremely energetic, and a touch eccentric. I am tattooed but had to remove my piercings for work. (I know right?). I like shows like Swamp People and Dirty Jobs. LOL. Honestly that is what I watch. I like all different kinds of music ranging from Pantera to Belly. My kids are my whole world and always will be. They are my lungs in life and will always come first. I believe in values when it comes to relationship. Trust-very important to me. I could be described as two people. Confident office doll and behind the scenes hillbilly. I secretly love the outdoors. I spend a great deal of my time with my children camping, polar plunging, planting trees and flowers, hiking, fishing, picking morels and blackberries. I like to do muddy things and get dirty. Building something? An adventure in the woods? Got some farm work for me? Let's do it! My favorite things in life definately include dirt and water-hands down. I absolutely LOVE the water! You can't keep me out of it whether I have a bathing suit or not. Just being honest. A campfire, good company, stars, my kiddos, and maybe a drink or so sounds like Heaven to me. (Not a huge drinker but not a bore either.) I am very driven and self sufficient. If I want something...I get it. I am looking for good company, possibly more. My hopes are to find that person that completes the vacant side of me. I have experienced all walks of life and grown from the experiences (for the better). My kids whipped me into shape. ;-). I am not judgemental, very compassionate, and understanding. I believe kindness is the key, after all...aren't we all fighting something? I love to cook. My passion in life. Makes me happy. I want to be that grandma everyone begs for recipes some day. I work out daily but I am not picture perfect. Exercise is important to me. Keeps my head clear. I am a very good woman and am proud of what I have made my life into. And I am looking for a very good man to spend what may develop into a lifetime. We'll see...I'm not jumping the gun or rushing into anything....just hoping for it someday. If I find that person-I will never let them go. Not into men extremely older than me or men without jobs. No-I am not a gold digger. A job shows drive, responsibilty, and charachter. My ideal man-some kind of construction type or hard working man that I can take care of and that loves me for who I am. Not looking for perfect but if you spend every waking minute in a bar, I am not the girl for you. Not really into office men. I like the "tough guys." If you can't handle sarcasm...I'm probably not your type of girl. Please no innapropriate *** am looking for someone to relate to....to spend time with. Not looking for just a good time. Looking for my other half. I know you're out there. ;-) Anything outside under the stars. Or maybe a walk in the woods. I could even go for a nice meal, a glass of wine, and conversation. I am up for anything. Would even be up for painting your house....lol. Quite a story that would creat for our first date huh? Live a little. Love more.

  • Jeanette

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    ***IF YOU ARE ONLY ON HERE IN PURSUIT OF VAGINA, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME!!*****Does dating even exist anymore? Let's try to pronunciate slowly. D-A-T-I-N-G. I believe it's this obsolete thing where guys pick girls up and go out (yes, I actually said GO OUT) with them for awhile and they actually get to know eachother and see if things progress? I could be wrong on this, but from what I remember, that's what D-A-T-I-N-G entails. It, however, does not entail you sending me pictures of your junk, inviting me over your house the first few times we get together, and expecting sex because you bought me dinner. Wow, what a foreign concept. I'm kinda lost...??34 Year old female from NY, standing 5'8" tall with a very voluptuous figure. I have meat on me, so if you're not a carnivore, we won't work ;) I love to cook! And I'm damn good at it, so I definitely want a man who appreciates a good woman who can throw down in the kitchen (amongst other places)..heheI'd also like to say that I am a REAL female, meaning I was born with a vagina which is more than I can say for a lot of what I see on here lmao. Wow, I said vagina twice already, no wait 3 times now. I'm such a perv.If you don't have a picture, don't message me. This isn't ***scanning pics on aol. So "my scanner broke " as an excuse went out the window years ago lmao. Everyone has a picture, there is no reason you shouldn't.I'm interested in meeting tall, attractive men who are interested in dating with the intention of it possibly leading to something more serious. I AM NOT HERE FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS OR A FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TYPE DEAL. I DO NOT THINK I CAN MAKE THIS ANY MORE CLEAR! I like TALL (Meaning 6ft and over..Hey I love to wear heels, but I have been known to make exceptions ;), White or light skinned Spanish, educated, well built guys... I also love when a guy has a scruffy look going on with some sweats/jeans a t-shirt and a fitted cap. I am definitely an arms girl! I love big arms. A sense of humor is a MUST. You have to be able to laugh at yourself (and others, lol) if we are going to click. I am not into the metrosexual thing at all. I want a man who looks like a man. A little hair on your chest never killed nobody. Tattoos are also a plus. I also like shaved heads, light eyes, and goatees. But,the most important thing, is a man who treats me with respect, knows how to appreciate a woman of quality, and is a gentleman. I don't know why you're on here, but I am on here to ACTUALLY meet in person eventually. If you want a penpal or just pictures, I'm not your girl. I don't want to have an online relationship with you and have your online babies. I want to see YOU in the flesh.I have been on and off of this site for awhile because I refuse to settle. I have a strong personality and I know what I want. There is no point in being with someone just to avoid being alone. I'd rather enjoy my own company than put up with bullsh*t or be with someone who I don't get along with. With that being said, I also have a very sweet, submissive, feminine side as well. I'm a complex person with multiple facets to my personality.I generally like to exchange *** I've heard every long drawn out story as to why almost every dude on here doesn't have a *** buying it. So, go do a clean sweep of your *** back to me. Hopefully anything where you don't wind up pissing me off lol

  • Kayleah

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I'm a cute girly girly who is a tomboy in ways. I LOVE sports!!!! My favorites are football, baseball & hockey. I do enjoy going to sporting events & tailgating too. I like going to the batting cages or gun range to waste time. I like being outdoors; camping, fishing, boating, & walking outdoors. I don't do snow or the cold. I'm a warm weather girl. My goal is to move from here & I also LOVE to travel, visit new places, & meet new people. I'll travel to any place that is warm & has a beautiful view.; a workaholic. I love working as dumb as it sounds, I hold 2 jobs. I like being independant & being able to take care of myself. I'm also a full time college student. I just recently decided to go back to school & am working toward 2 majors; Human Resources & Health Care Administration. I believe very much in WORK HARD, PLAY HARDER!!!!!!! I like to let my long brunette hair down by going out whenever possible. I like to dance, karaoke, & be around people. I'm always looking for the next cool social gathering. I like comedies, chick flicks, & scary movies. I LOVE going to concerts. I like most kinds of music; country, rap, pop, & rock. I like something casual & public where there is no pressure. For a 1st time meet a coffee or are drink a fine & low cost so that way you don't feel like I'm out to get you for what you may have. I'm not like that. I don't want to spend a lot of time on a 1st meet. I like to keep it simple and let first impressions do the work and decide if I or if you would like to meet again. After that I'd be open to lunch or dinner, or even meeting for a drink. A picnic in the park is fine too. Meeting for a walk on the trail is a nice idea. Not a movie, I can't get to know you. Not at neithers home, too private & comes with bad intentions. Not a sporting event, I'd be more involved in the game, lol. The batting cages would be cool though. I am competative. I'd love to see how many more balls I hit. Bowling could be fun. I prefer not a club, it's too loud & I can't get to know you that way either. I'm not into guys who bring a dozen roses, it's too pushy in my opinion & I feel it comes with expectations. I single flower is appropriate with me. I don't need or require anything flashy. I'm more about the thought & effort put into the date. DO NOT ASK FOR SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't stress this enough! If you come with intentions I promise to send you packing. I'm not looking for a jerk who's looking to score! I deserve & demand respect!!I am a bit old fashion when it comes to dating. I like my door opened for me, help with my coat & chair, mostly you picking the date in the begining, & a like a guy who doesn't go for the "1st move", I'll let you know when I'm ready. When I know you're someone I'm interested in you'll be the first to know. Politeness goes a long way as well as manners. I like to have fun too but I'm looking for that special someone. I hope to find Mr. Right, not Mr. Right Now. For all those who don't understand or know how to treat a woman, save us both the hassle & don't take the time to message. I'm not normally so ****y sounding but some of these guys have no clue.

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