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Aries · Looking for: Man, 30–40
OK, lets just say that I have had way to many men try and play games with me. If you are not looking for a long term relationship dont even bother to email me. If you do not have time for a relationship do not email me. I am tired of finding someone that we click and have very good conversations and then I open myself up just to be hurt in the end. If you are still suck in your past with your x girlfriends, then you are not ready for uT relationship. All I have to tell you is that if you are stuck in your past then you have no future. If you are afraid of getting into another relationsip cause you have been hurt, then you dont need to be on here. Lets face it we have all been hurt in one way or The another with a relationsip, but we need to realize that not every man or woman is like our x's and we cannot hold them responsible for what our x's did. IF this makes any sense to you continue to read my profile, otherwise i wish you luck in your endevors.I’m not quite for sure what to put on here, seems like every time I do one of these dating sites I get the people who want to play games, but I’m going to try this again. First let me tell you what I am not looking for, and then I will tell you about me. I am not looking for a booty call or friends with benefits. To put it in a nut shell I am a simple woman. I do have children that live at home with me the all of the time. I do have a secure full time job, as well as, a full time student. I try to stay active in my life, whether it is with the kids, school, work, or other activities. This tends to be a problem when it comes to me dating. I have found that a lot of people do not understand the reasons why I will or will not do certain things. I am not a prude; however I have respect for myself so I do set limits. This also is a problem I have run into while dating. I am not conceded but do take pride in myself and have a high self esteem (most of the time). I am a very headstrong, independent, and secure woman; I don’t have to have a man to take care of me; however it would be nice to have one to share my life with as equals. I have started walking every evening and everyday at lunch,(trying to do somethings for me)and would like someone that would join me and have a conversation with and would enjoy it as much as I do. Im currently working on getting in better shape. So someone that is like minded in that area would be great. I like most types of food, don’t think that I can pin point which one I like the best though. I have always found that variety is good. I do listen to other types of music such as; country, alternative rock, some hip hop and R&B. As far as movies go, I prefer action movies; however I am a sucker for scary movies (as long as I’m not alone). I do like to go out on occasion have a drink, maybe dance, shoot pool, or throw darts. A good night out for me always ends up with a walk on the beach. To me the site of the beach at night is breath taking. I do not have too many dislikes. I do not like liars, fakes, game players, and thieves. That is pretty much it. Lol Ok now for what I’m looking for. This is going to be a challenge, cause if we know exactly what we are looking for. Don’t you think that we can find it? I want someone that will be there with me; not behind me or in front of me but beside me. I guess you can say I am looking for my equal, a companion, and a confidant. I am looking for an honest and upfront person that will respect me as well as my children. I do not want to have to support the man that I am with. I have done that and it is not a good situation. If you have made it this far “THANK YOU” for reading all the way through my ramblings. If you are honestly interested in me then send me an email. I will respond; however it might take a few hours. Dinner and a walk on the beach would be ideal. But just a nice quiet place to talk and get to know each other would be great.
