Single Women in Scarborough, Maine

Hi! My name is Benedicta. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian woman without kids from Scarborough, Maine, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

I\'m really down for whatever when it comes to free time, and even if I don\'t think I’ll enjoy something I would undoubtedly bend the rules for someone special. Search for true lover, not egoistic bitch.

I enjoy shopping and going to the spa.... what can I say I'm a girl haha! Spending time with my friends & family & my adorable twin nieces. I love to travel, have recently taken up curling, and have tried my hand at golf a few times last year & did not to shabby!! I am more than willing to try new & fun things with the right person :) I am outgoing, and love to laugh. Very hard to write about myself,,,,, guess you have to get to know me! ******On a side note please don't lie about your age on here... drives me crazy being lied to! This is tough..... I think the first date has to be casual, but I also think the man should be the planner of it.... call me old fashioned but it is what it is. I guess something like a coffee or a drink & then go from there :)

OMG, I hate writing about myself. I enjoy the outdoors and I like movies, either going out to a movie or at home. I have 3 wonderful kids. I like pretty much any type of music. I would like to find somebody that I can be best friends with and to fall in love with. Good Luck everybody. Hopefully talk to u soon!

I have 3 children that I share custody with. I like to fish,go camping. I enjoy gardening and scrapbooking. I like to be outside doing things. I enjoy spending time with my friends and family. Somewhere we can meet and talk to get to know one another, maybe over dinner or a walk.

I am looking for someone smart and funny that has the ability to hold a conversation like me! My family is important to me. I don't have any kids, but i like kids and would date someone with one. I am looking for someone who wants to eventually be in a relationship. I like to take things slow and actually get to know someone. If you want to get to know me, send me a message!Random facts about me:I like my beverage more ice than beverage.I won't kill any insects besides tiny ants and mosquitos. Why? I can't handle the squish factor. The more body mass equals more squish.I tend to hum or do strange little dances during awkward pauses.I don't cover my toes when I sleep.I have an irrational fear of sock monkeys.I don't wear socks until December 1st. I'm allergic to cats, and I think they are icky. I like dogs, bunnies, toad, lizard, whatever .... but cats tend to bring on the icky poo crinkle nose face.I make up words and I may be a little odd. I like to think of this as an endearing quality. I don't have the perfect body. What I lack in flat stomach I make up for in ample bosom and exquisite wit! ;)I am a chicken, so if you want to talk to me, please do! I fear rejection far too much to make the first move!

I work 2nd shift 130pm to midnight.looking for the guy who alway finishes last. I would like a man not afraid to wear a kiltSeduce my mind and you may have my body, find my soul and im yours forever. I do not want someone to promise me the moon and the stars. I want someone to lay in the grass and watch them with me!Im the girl who 1 rose means as much as a dozen. Im the girl who rather spend time with a few friends instead at a wild party with total strangers. Im the girl who would rather stay up all night giggiling than getting drunk. I wanna be the girl who makes your bad day better, and the one who makes me say, my life has changed for the better since I met her. I'm 52, I have a good job. i love kids and grandbabies always have. I love movies. I like most types of music esp live. I like to dance but I'm not really good at it. I tell bad jokes. I am interested in learning more about cars and motorcycles. I enjoy skin art on others but don't have any myself. I love the rain with thunder and lighting. I love holding hands. taking walks. a long slow kiss. just being with someone to hold. I'm not looking for a one night stand. I've been so blessed in my life. I would love to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. It's been a good life so far for that I'm thankful. As far as religion\spirituality, I have my own relationship with God and do not need organized religion to 'help' me define or nurture it.what type of guy i am looking for Fit, outdoorsy type, but professional by trade. looking for somebody to Hang out, do stuff, or just be. a decent, respectful guy (with a mischievous side:) ) have a great sense of humor and simply enjoy the company of a woman. but is content doing nothing on a rainy day. good with going out on the town, doing the weekend in the sticks, or just staying in.I might not be someone's first choice, but I am a great choice. I may not be rich but I am valuable. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I am proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect but I don't need to be. Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away!!! In the end, only 3 things matter: how much you lived, how gently you loved, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you!To all, best of luck searching. I know its a long road. But stay focused and explore the possibilities. I nice first date would be a walking date - one of the metro parks would do. I think having to concentrate on the scenery (at least a little) would alleviate a lot of stress related to a first meeting :)

I've been here since 1981. I love the sunny days. I feel at home at the beach, it's so peaceful.(except for the mosquitoes). I can go out or stay home. Comfortable in my black workout pants to my black evening dress. I believe trust & respect are equally number one in a relationship. Anything can grow from there. I am a positive, easy going, happy to be alive kind of girl. I love all music....ok rap not so much...I dance every chance I get. I have 2 beautiful daughters and 2 grandchildren.; 1 sister.;gone on", the other 3 live out of state.I'm looking for a man that is easy going, has a sense of self, a best friend, and more. Has great relationships with his family & friends. Must be able to cook & clean & do laundry..... I can dream, can't I? Someone who likes to laugh & be silly. And be serious only on Sunday & Monday nights! I read a saying this week..."The best things in life aren't things".... They're people! I believe in God, my country and myself. If you want to know more, please just ask!... Lol, just kidding, lets start with coffee!

Well this is all new for me but here I go. I am a single mother of 3 wonderful children! Between my family and working I don’t have much time for socializing but I do try to get out with my friends as much as I can. I love the outdoors, fishing, hunting, gardening or just going for a wilderness drive. I also love to stay inside & read a good book or enjoy a movie with the family! I absolutely do not tolerate lies & deception, if you can’t be honest don’t bother it would be a waste of both our time. Somewhere comfortable where we could chat and get to know each other.

Nice to see that you have taken the time to check out my profile. Don't be shy or worried about what to say when you send me a message, because some of the best conversations can be started with just a simple "hello, how are you?". The whole idea is to see if you can develop a longer conversation from a simple start. In other words, do you have what it takes?!?!Well to get this thing going I should probably tell you a little about myself. I've been told that I don't fit into the typical average type of woman. I have a wide range of interests and can fit in with just about any type of personality. I've gone through my share of rough times and obviously I've worked my way through them and have managed to keep moving forward with my life. I do have 3 kids, who are the most precious gifts I could have ever asked for. I'm not going to say that they are angels, because they aren't. They have their moments just like any other kid does, but we take one day at a time and work through any frustrations that they have together. Family is very important to me and I try to stay in touch as much as possible. Just for your information, we don't have any drama in our lives; however, my kids keep telling me that I need to find a great guy because they want a dad. (Short story if you would like to know more) Their ideal match for me would be a guy that fits the whole "; personality. As my oldest keeps telling me that I remind him of "Miss Kay". So yes, I was raised a tomboy and love to get dirty just as much as I love to dress up for a night out. I was also raised with religion being a huge priority and I still see it as being that; however, I'm more flexible with teaching my children and being involved with Church. I also try to be involved with the Community and my kids' school. I like to stay active and expose my children to the world around us in taking mini vacations that have some sense of history to them. I grew up being taught a wide range of values and the one that has stuck with me the most is the value of a mother should always be there for her kids and that she is responsible for the upkeep of the house. Now having said that, I have worked very hard to establish myself to the point of being able to work from home. It's not easy, but I'm a firm believer in that success is only created if you put the hard work into making it. We have set several goals for ourselves for the near future and we are working very hard towards accomplishing those goals. So I guess you could say that I have a rather busy life, but I'm willing to make time for the right guy.To give you a little bit of an idea of who the right guy just might be, here are some of the things that I look for. As I mentioned above, my kids think that the "; personality is perfect. To break that down some, hunting, 4wheeling, fishing, being outdoors, camping, being on the river, farming, gardening, animals, and anything else that you could add to this whole category are huge interests. So if you enjoy being active, have a wide range of interests, enjoy kids, are looking for a friendship that could develop into something more then send me a message. I'd love to hear from you. Surprise me