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RcblaySouth Haven
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-31
Hi! My name is Rcblay. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from South Haven, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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CramerSouth Haven
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-31
Dont wanna pay for all this so add me on ***! 💁 cramer***
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AbcdefghijklnmSouth Haven
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 58 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 38-58
Hi! My name is Abcdefghijklnm. I am never married lds caucasian man without kids from South Haven, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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Truckyea5KArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 23-34
Hi! My name is Truckyea5K. I am never married catholic hispanic man without kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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ChayaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
See what all the fuss is about and get to know new people well this should be fun !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Plz dont write to me if ya have no picture up. Few drinks to break the ice !!!!!!!!!!!!! :-D!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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WendalynnWellington
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 27-40
I have two kids, 7&9yrs old , and I love cats. Yes, crazy cat lady does apply to me!!! Would like to meet friends that could possibly turn into something serious. Paying sucks, so look me up on *** , Wendy Haines, picture is a cat with its tongue sticking out..... I will soon be legally divorced. And don't think I'm one of those girls who gets married and divorced at the drop of a hat because I'm not. I was married for 10 years and only after much heartache, enough was enough. Please write me....Since when do girls have to go after the guy??? I am a Christian meaning Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. I call God my Heavenly Father. Your choice is your own, it wouldn't be real love if it wasn't.... I want to be married before sex. Sorry if that's blunt but frankly I don't think that's blunt enough for some. I did things wrong the first time and I don't want to make the same mistake twice. I'm not perfect, I don't expect anyone else to be,except God. We should learn from past mistakes though and change. Bad/old habits die hard but they do die!
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KooladdylrConway Springs
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 57 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 37-54
Hi! My name is Kooladdylr. I am divorced other mixed man without kids from Conway Springs, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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Jrdewmy9Belle Plaine
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 62 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 40-58
Hi! My name is Jrdewmy9. I am widowed protestant caucasian man with kids from Belle Plaine, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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MakailaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-41
Hello, Okay let me start with the normal.... I am the mother of a beautiful 16 year old young lady who is intelligent, respectful and the best child in the world! I have a career that makes me excited to wake up in the morning and go to work. I have goals and dreams for my future that encourage me to stay motivated and on the right path. I am looking for someone who has goals in life and thrives to achieve them. Someone who is respectful of others feelings and points of view. I do not want someone who smokes weed or drinks weekly.... to each his own but that behavior does not fit into my dream for my future.This is where I do not mean to sound like a butt head but I like the type of man I like and if you do not fit then please do not contact me..... Thank you. I am only attracted to black men, taller then I am (which shouldn't be hard I am only 5ft 4in), preferable someone who takes care of their body (you don't have to have a 6 pack but don't have the belly hanging to your knees either). I am by no means in perfect shape but I try to keep the belly from drooping over the pants. I ask that if you are interested in meeting me to get to know each other would you please answer me this question when you e-mail me... What is your goal within the next six months? If this question is not answered I will know you couldn't take 5 minutes to read about what I'm interested in therefor you will not get a response.Thank you It is up to us to decide what to do for a first date..... I will say that it won't be movies at my house or yours though :)
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WinonaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I make mistakes, I'm not perfect, I'm out of control, sometimes a lil crazy, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.As with material possessions or professional achievements, relationships give our ego a method by which to identify who we are to the outside world. The problem is that we attach so much of our identity to the external appearance of our relationships that we lose touch with the parts of ourselves that are wise and conscious. The attachment to this false identity leads to a feeling of desperation rather than fulfillment. After all, without the relationship, or the job, or whichever other false identity we have chosen, who would we be? Besides the ego identification, it's easy to develop a dependency on companionship. That independent person that we once were starts to evaporate. Our mind becomes fogged and as our self-identification begins to attach itself to the other person, unconsciously or consciously, we become afraid to lose that person. We become dependent on that person and fearful of loneliness. Out of our emotional insecurities, we start to become needy and to seek out validation from our partner. So, *** focusing on the celebration of love and partnership, it becomes a game of how to protect ourselves from loss. Out of a desire to avoid appearing needy and out of a fear of losing our partner, we start to filter what we say. In doing so, we do not communicate our needs clearly, openly or bravely. We somehow become convinced that our partner will magically know what to do to fulfill our needs. When our needs are not met, we secretly blame the other person and begin to resent them. When we are unhappy, our partner will pick up on the clues, and in turn, secretly resent us, thus starting a vicious cycle in the silent destruction of a romantic partnership. So much of what needed to be said was not said, and bad feelings are bottled up and start to accumulate for both parties. Have you ever had a friend come to you and complain about all of the things they are unhappy about with their partner? Those are the kinds of things they should be telling their partner, if they actually want a change. Worse yet is when one partner openly communicates their needs only to find that the other party is simply not listening, or does not fully acknowledge what was said, or makes them feel guilty for having those needs. Deep down, we are all really good people. But this doesn't mean that any combination of two good people will make a good partnership. There is such thing as a bad fit, and it is okay to admit it. The best fits are ones where the most important values for both people are met. They must have life goals that align with one another and have a mutual attraction, understanding, and level of respect for each other. Both people must be committed to making the partnership their top priority. Sometimes, even when we realize that our relationship isn't a good fit, we justify staying in it with what seem like logical reasons. We may feel that we won't find another person who accepts and loves us as much as the current partner. Or we may be afraid to be alone, so we simply settle by default. Each time we are reminded of the bad fit, we brush it under the rug and distract ourselves with some other thought. We may feel that we are doing a service to the other person by staying in the relationship, but in reality, we are hurting them by not being honest with them and ourselves. And we are accumulating bad feelings and bad energy in our inner space. The problem comes when we find ourselves in a relationship and we are constantly comparing our partners with this conjured-up "perfect" person. When that happens, we stop appreciating our partner for all the beautiful qualities they do possess. The truth is this perfect person does not exist. More importantly, we may not actually need all of these qualities in a partner to be extraordinarily happy. What we need is to identify the most important qualities that we must have in order to feel satisfied and fulfilled . By not having identified the must-have qualities in our chosen life partner, we end up settling, and since the person cannot give us the things we truly need, we start to resent them. This will snowball into larger issues. In life, we will get random results if we have not specified what we want. Identifying and understanding what it is that we need in a relationship, allows us to set clear intentions, and in doing so, moves us closer to realizing our intended desires. I'm up for anything fun.........
