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DorryArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 18-38
Hi! My name is Dorry. I am never married other mixed woman without kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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CindaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
Hey their I am a country girl I love big lifted trucks I have a lil girl she is my world I have been hurt way too many times looking for something long term I Dont play no games at all I have a good heart. I'm looking for Mr. Right if you wanna know more message me Go to the moving and nice dinner and go to the park and sit and talk and get to know me and get to know them
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GrownmanArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 23-43
Hi! My name is Grownman. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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ZadaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-35
I am a single mother of a 4 ye old boy who is my world and am looking for someone to spend my time with and show as much love as I have to give if ur out there hit me up!!!!!!!!!!!
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RandykrallmaltArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 34-51
Hi! My name is Randykrallmalt. I am widowed caucasian man without kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
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LadawnArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I was a traveler who has come back home after many years experiencing other places and different cultures. I traveled to more places but that's for later. I learned another language, met many amazing people, and tried tons of new things. I love trying new things and going on new adventures, but I also love to just stay at home some nights. I love to cook, I love to watch movies and I love all of the comforts of home. My family is so important to me. Music is a big part of my life. I am a Christian and my faith and God are big in my life. I also would say that I am someone who loves to stay in shape and takes good care of myself. Life is exciting and I love spending my time with the people that I love surrounding me. A first date for me would be coffee or a drink somewhere.
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OlimpiaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 26-36
I am quick witted and sarcastic and I crack myself up (I don't know about anyone else) but I love to laugh. I figure you only get one chance on this planet and i dont care to waste it. I love to meet new people and do new things as long as they are fun of course. I am really girly, you can probably see that haha, but I also like do stuff outdoors, camping, going out on the lake, hiking. After owning a small business for about 8 years I decided to close it and go back to school. So here I am a year later, almost done with my cosmetology license and happier than ever!!!! I'm kind of traditional when it comes to guys- open the door for me, pay for dinner (at least on the first date), pretty much just be a gentlemen ( but not too serious of one :). I like guys that care about their health but are not obsessed with it! Im on the move a lot and like to be spontaneous so I need someone that is gonna keep up! But cuddling up and watching a movie is nice sometime too.
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WinonaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I make mistakes, I'm not perfect, I'm out of control, sometimes a lil crazy, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.As with material possessions or professional achievements, relationships give our ego a method by which to identify who we are to the outside world. The problem is that we attach so much of our identity to the external appearance of our relationships that we lose touch with the parts of ourselves that are wise and conscious. The attachment to this false identity leads to a feeling of desperation rather than fulfillment. After all, without the relationship, or the job, or whichever other false identity we have chosen, who would we be? Besides the ego identification, it's easy to develop a dependency on companionship. That independent person that we once were starts to evaporate. Our mind becomes fogged and as our self-identification begins to attach itself to the other person, unconsciously or consciously, we become afraid to lose that person. We become dependent on that person and fearful of loneliness. Out of our emotional insecurities, we start to become needy and to seek out validation from our partner. So, *** focusing on the celebration of love and partnership, it becomes a game of how to protect ourselves from loss. Out of a desire to avoid appearing needy and out of a fear of losing our partner, we start to filter what we say. In doing so, we do not communicate our needs clearly, openly or bravely. We somehow become convinced that our partner will magically know what to do to fulfill our needs. When our needs are not met, we secretly blame the other person and begin to resent them. When we are unhappy, our partner will pick up on the clues, and in turn, secretly resent us, thus starting a vicious cycle in the silent destruction of a romantic partnership. So much of what needed to be said was not said, and bad feelings are bottled up and start to accumulate for both parties. Have you ever had a friend come to you and complain about all of the things they are unhappy about with their partner? Those are the kinds of things they should be telling their partner, if they actually want a change. Worse yet is when one partner openly communicates their needs only to find that the other party is simply not listening, or does not fully acknowledge what was said, or makes them feel guilty for having those needs. Deep down, we are all really good people. But this doesn't mean that any combination of two good people will make a good partnership. There is such thing as a bad fit, and it is okay to admit it. The best fits are ones where the most important values for both people are met. They must have life goals that align with one another and have a mutual attraction, understanding, and level of respect for each other. Both people must be committed to making the partnership their top priority. Sometimes, even when we realize that our relationship isn't a good fit, we justify staying in it with what seem like logical reasons. We may feel that we won't find another person who accepts and loves us as much as the current partner. Or we may be afraid to be alone, so we simply settle by default. Each time we are reminded of the bad fit, we brush it under the rug and distract ourselves with some other thought. We may feel that we are doing a service to the other person by staying in the relationship, but in reality, we are hurting them by not being honest with them and ourselves. And we are accumulating bad feelings and bad energy in our inner space. The problem comes when we find ourselves in a relationship and we are constantly comparing our partners with this conjured-up "perfect" person. When that happens, we stop appreciating our partner for all the beautiful qualities they do possess. The truth is this perfect person does not exist. More importantly, we may not actually need all of these qualities in a partner to be extraordinarily happy. What we need is to identify the most important qualities that we must have in order to feel satisfied and fulfilled . By not having identified the must-have qualities in our chosen life partner, we end up settling, and since the person cannot give us the things we truly need, we start to resent them. This will snowball into larger issues. In life, we will get random results if we have not specified what we want. Identifying and understanding what it is that we need in a relationship, allows us to set clear intentions, and in doing so, moves us closer to realizing our intended desires. I'm up for anything fun.........
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RosettaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I love to laugh and have fun. I am a devout Christian woman and would like to find the same in a partner. Some place quite to get to know one another.
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GtmustangArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-55
Hi! My name is Gtmustang. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.
