Single Women in Benton, Illinois

*******I PREFER TO DATE MEN WHO ARE OLDER THAN MYSELF, 45 and UP!!!!!****** Very excited to see the 4 seasons again...and to see something other than palm trees and plastic pink flamingos!! My brother and family are there with my neice and nephew! =)Sweet, sassy, positive, fiesty, playful, dedicated, old fashioned in some ways, witty, sarcastic, confident, loyal, curious, independant, motivated,and very feminine!! Those are a few words that describe me...I am a huge college football fan..WOLVERINES....GO BLUE!! Fall is my favorite time of year!..lol! One of my dream dates? The Big House on a cool fall afternoon...When I meet someone special and there is a mutual connection...I am a very affectionate girl who loves the same in return...he gets my complete focus!! PDA is ok by me ! I have a rescued racing greyhound, Karla, who is the apple of my eye!! (See pic). I love cars...classic and new, love and collect lighthouses, love to shop and am into staying very fit. ***I prefer to date men older than myself, 45 and up...because they know and understand how to treat and spoil a lady like myself. =) I believe that the man should take the leading role in providing ...I love a very confident, masculine, dominant personality that believes he should guide, support and treat his lady like a living doll... I will always make sure he is appreciated! :-) Pet peeves are: SMOKERS and people that take life too seriously...SMILE! :-) I also dislike bathroom mirror pics with no shirt on!!! Ewww...What I love: A terrific sense of humor...sarcasm! Nice hands, (you can tell so much about a man by the way his hands are...!ONE MORE THING::::::::please do not get upset if I don't write you back RIGHT AWAY! I am not on here 24/7... This has me "Online Now" all the time..? If I am interested, I WILL WRITE BACK! Just a meet and greet, coffee, tea, park... Let's see if there is any compatibility/chemistry first. If so, then I would expect the gentleman to plan a first date! =)I cannot wait to hear from you!!!

Time for a new beginning! Looking for someone to share our lives with,someone who knows what they want and will work with me to keep our relationship fun, happy and filled with love. Time is short so lets start enjoying it together:)**PRIVACY NOTICE**Warning--any person and/or institution using this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Drinks and good conversation! Dinner maybe?

I am a single parent with a smile always on my face. I enjoy going to the theater & comedy ctrs much more just ask. I very much enjoy what I do for a living its very rewarding everyday. I am looking for a relationship not a fling. I take every day to the extreme and live to love life to the fullest. Sorry I don't date outside my race!!

I am going to try this ONE more time. Brief and to the point. "I want my best friend and soulmate!!!"****Please have a profile picture of yourself and not your vehicle, dog, or kid (you with the these, is quite alright)! Oh, I don't reply to, "hello." Now, if you are searching for someone to make you feel better? That would be me. I am a loving, caring, thoughtful, positive, empathetic person. However, this has caused some problems in recent history on here. I'm still persevering, however (a good characteristic - perseverance). I know, there is the right person out there. It may not be on here; as my mother always stated, "it will happen when you least expect it." Someone gave me good advise with his own profile. Look through the windshield and not the rear view mirror. Take a sad song, and make it better (aka, the Beatles). I am family oriented, although I do not have any children of my own (not by choice). I married and divorced my high school sweetheart. I have good qualities and some pretty awkward ones (hey, I'm not perfect)! I work hard, college educated, well-rounded, and grounded. My laughter tends to lift people's spirits. If, I can make one person smile a day, that makes my day.I have resided in big cities; therefore, I'm a city girl, and your typical free spirit. Friends often refer to me as the, "chameleon." I can be very professional, dress up, sophisticated, walk into any room and begin a conversation with anyone. I can also be very relaxed, put on my favorite team's sweatshirt, and sit at a dive bar. Awkward means, I really am a compulsive clutz.C.). I have already been there and done that with my career, and residing all over the country. I'm ready to settle down with the right person, who shares the same values my parents instilled in me. Work, be frugal, enjoy life. I take one day at a time now. My parents were the best people that gave me the values of integrity, respecting myself and other's, regardless of their race, religion, or financial background. Give me a chance, and I will "Change Your World," "I will be the Sunlight in Your Universe," courtesy of my favorite artist, Eric Clapton. I am a basketball fanatic (Dad was a basketball coach). I love all types of music (Journey, Eric, the Stones, Eagles, Foreigner), and any old R&Life is so short. Enjoy it. I'm not lonely or desperate. I may reside alone; however there is a difference. That displays security within oneself. Insecure, is when you are unable to be alone. Never mind...that wasn't so brief. I have worked in politics, public relations, and law firms. I write a lot, okay?By the way, this will most likely be revised tomorrow....... Lunch, an adult beverage, or coffee. I love fall and winter. A walk around a lake or park, would be great (bundle up)!

I thought I'd give this another try. I'm a very laid back cool chick. I love to laugh. I like all kinds of thingsI like motorcycles,tattoos. Like to go out and dance have a good time or just stay home. Not a girly girl but like to dress up to.I'm looking for something real. Any questions. Just ask.Also another thing if your not serious about wanting to meet someone to hav a relationship w please dont message me. im looking for a good guy who is real, honest and sincere.. not looking for friends w benifits or a hook up or one nite stand. so if your a decent good looking guy(no looks arent every thing but they help) message me

I'm a single mother of one. I have my own business love what I do . I enjoy all types of music , love to dance . Enjoy cooking . Dining in or out . Like action , thriller ,comedy t.v and movies. Looking for a man that has the time for a serious committed relationship.. if that's not you please keep it moving ... And guys texting at first is fine but I perfer phone time and personal time together , I do not need nor do I want a texting buddy thank you . Dinner and dancing its that easy...

9-19-13.Time for corn maze and hanted houses.who want to go.Updated 7-14-13 Let me start by saying. I want to be spoil on a reg basis , but not by gifts. but by your time, your touch, your voice. your smile. I miss the touch of a man,, not by sex, but hand holding. kissing, hugging, and cuddling , i miss that hug and his kiss on on the neck. i miss the text message just to say hi. I am thinking of you in the middle of the day. just for the hell of it... .everyone has lost the true meaning of a reationship these days, yes gifts and flowers are nice, but so is a back rub when i am having a bad day, thats all I want . a nice guy who know hows to treat a female. i will do the same if I find the right guy.. I am a bigger size girl yes I am a bbw. with a big heart. .I dont smoke. but will date a smoker.as long as its not every 5 mins.. sorry. dont want a chain smoker. am looking for a guy mid 30 to late 40s age is just a number,I dont have pets, but I do like them. .. its sunday a really pretty day. when you email me please tell me why you would be great for me.. i know i am on a long shot to find happiness but hell wroth a shot.. please dont think i am a witch. i just now noticed what i am really missing in life. good luckyes i am divorced with a 17 year old daughter.. .THANK YOU for taking the time to read my profile.. good luck.if you want to know anything else . send me a message..p.s.please dont be married or a real big lier.it will come out sooner or later.I am not asking for much.I want someone real.p.s. by the way i dont like getting phone calls from the guys wife . when you get busted.. not my thing sorry.. movie.maybe go to the zoo.maybe go to a shooting range..or even along drive.. or go for a drink.some where to just talk.

I am a 40 year old professional single lady looking for a man who is ready to settle down with one woman for the rest of his life, a LTR. I have a great career which I have been employed with for over 10 years now and I have a part-time job that is extremely flexible and it helps with earning some spending money for fun times. I do own my own home, own a car, and I do not have any kids. Please be honest, open, have a sense of humor, compassionate, open minded...don't be afraid to try something new as I would want to try something new, but also be independent as I am as well. I am attracted to a white, non-smoking, professional male who is between the ages of 30-48. Please only respond to me if you fit this age range. I am laid back woman who has a lot of patience. I enjoy many activities...too many to list here but some of my favorites are watching and dancing to a live band, concerts, reading, the beach, camping, attending sporting events of any kind, traveling, spendng time with my nephews, and amusement parks. I am the type of woman who can dress up and enjoy a nice dinner and a show out on the town or throw on a baseball cap and go to a game, or even just stay at home and cuddle. If the above interests you at all, lets chat and see if there is chemistry!! Thanks :) I would like to meet someplace social and have a drink or dinner and see where the night takes us from there. If there is chemistry, I would like to do something afterwards like a walk on the beach or we could stay where we were and just hang out. I am a huge sports fan so if we could watch a ball game, that would be great or like I said go take a walk so that it could provide an opportunity for romance. This would really provide the chance to test out our chemistry!!

Message me and we can go from there. BLACK MEN ONLY, PLZ!!! and if ur not into full figuted women, dont bother! as it states in my profile i have ( a few extra pounds) . only serious inquires plz! im not looking for games!! i want a serious relationship not just sex!!! i am a grown woman looking for a grown man! It would have to be in an open environmet, such as the park, movie theatre, or maybe a nice dinner!

I'm a pretty laid back person. It doesn't take a lot to make me happy. It's time to meet some new people and have some fun! :)