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Addyson

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

Looking for my best friend, someone I can laugh and enjoy life with.

Ethel

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

Ok so I'm not really sure about this whole on line dating thing but here it goes.... I'm a single mom of 5. 2 are grown & 3 live with me. I'm not here to find a daddy for my kids or for random hook ups so if a hook up is all you're looking for don't bother. If you're still reading this after all that, like I said I'm a single mom & I work very hard. I love spending time with my kids they are my world & priority. I love camping, fishing, & ect..... I also like to just curl up & watch a movie. I can be stubborn at times & I'm very independent. Again I'm not interested in finding a daddy for my kids I'm here for me. I'm hoping to find someone special to share my life with. If you are looking for a Barbie doll kind of woman then sorry you wasted your time reading this cause that is not me. I'm ok with who I am, at least I'm not fake.... I'm not afraid to get dirty, why miss out on a lot of fun cause you're afraid of breaking your nail or your hair will get messed up. Nope not for me I like to bait my own hook & take my own fish off the hook. There's lots more that I could tell you but I think this will do for now. Have to leave some things for you to discover for yourself if you're sincerely interested, that's part of the fun in getting to know each other.

Daphne

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

**** A quick note: I am not looking for ***/ chat buddies - there is life beyond the computer - if nothing progresses beyond a few days of endless banter, say "it's been nice chatting with ya, good luck in your search", move on, tempus fugit! Life is too short and precious to waste such effort in nothing that will not progress. In fact, say that to everyone! It is only common decency.Also, when we progress to exchanging numbers, again... Not looking for endless texting... The purpose is to make a date and meet up for coffee or dinner...I understand there are plenty of other more beautiful and prettier women than I who like to tease, stroke and boost your ego and waste your time) Rant over lol *****.... wait, never mind, they all die at the end of the movie. A Yin to my yang or a yang to my yin. Anyways, you get the picture. Someone who is an equal and balances me out (yeah, the scale is a bit outta whack). So a bit about me: I'm just a bit shy and quiet when you first met me, yet easy-going and friendly and out-going once you've met me. I am not one to talk your ear off. I've been told that I am funny and make people laugh (not quite sure how to take this -- do they mean I make them laugh as comedienne, or a source of laughter and ridicule - I guess that's up for you to decide. I can and do tend to be sarcastic and snarky but only with good intentions. I love to laugh and not take things too serious (tried that route before, didn't quite work out well for me). Games are only fun when everyone knows and plays by the same rules. I am not a good game player, strategies always ellude me - Sun Tzi would make an example of me. Drama belongs on TV or the movie screen. (I tried to get rid of it but i think the Voodoo priestesses ripped me off) At this point in my life, I want simple and easy...Believe it or not I've made it this far without heavy duty baggage ( i think a lot of it got lost back in ***???? Any ways, I don't have the claim stub, so it doesn't matter) I like 60's and 80's music with a bit of ABBA and Mozart thrown in. But can rock out just as good.I like to learn new things and will try almost anything just about once (maybe). So with that said, I am always learning something new about myself and the world everyday. I just recently discovered that I might have the travel bug and would eventually like visit a few places. But for now, going to Vegas for long weekends is the extent of it. And just once, i would like to do a "guy's weekend in Vegas" the whole whiskey and cigars, all night long at the craps table sort of thing. A bit about you: Someone who enjoys laughing yet knows when to be serious...likes the fine and good things in life yet can appreciate Honest Ed's style. You "give in" to go ballroom dancing one night and "make me" go to a Jay's game the next. You know what Wednesday and Saturday matinees means. You like to volunteer and help out at charity events. There are times for going out or staying in and watching that night t.v line-up. Willing to try out new stuff but also know to stick to the tried and true. And once in awhile sit back and be amazed with what crazy and whacky things civilization is up to.Someone who willing to learn new things with me and teach me things they've learned. You like to suit-up and have legend- wait for it- dary day/nites (bonus if you know what this is in reference to)and go dancing and dining, but you don't mind staying at home and watching T.V. (and yes, we can even watch hockey, football or your guilty pleasure of DWTS***but my club days and nights are long gone and in the past (R.I.P.)But the reality is, we are all just looking someone who can be happy with what we can offer and vice-versa...If you made it this far, yay!If I added you as a favourite - was surfing on the phone and your profile caught my attention for one reason or another. Not for nothing but if you message me, please be able to string more than one word sentences. Good luck and happy fishing. An ideal first meeting would be to just meet up for a coffee or drink on a nice patio and have a conversation to see how things go to.

Chance

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

To talk about oneself is such a difficult thing to do. I will try to make it short and sweet. I am at a point in life where I am excited and ready to start over. I am willing to try new things and learn as much as I can about anything I can. In all honesty my family has been my world and will continue to be my world for a very long time. They come first, but I am also at a point where I can take time out for me. Along with that it would be nice to find someone to share the smallest of joys and the largest of adventures with. Whatever they may be. It's time for me to go outside the box and hopefully take someone along with me for the ride. Any takers?Friends and family would describe me as kind hearted, very generous (to a fault sometime), fun to be around, a bit of an ***, loves to laugh, hard working, and a mom who truly loves her kids. I am looking for a kind hearted man, good communicator (a must), funny, funny, funny, very passionate, affectionate, loving, generous to others (not myself). Meaning willing to help someone if they need a hand. Accepting of others. Geez! The list goes on. Ok, so much for short and sweet. Got a little out of control there! Anyways , I'm looking for fun and friendship that turns into passion and love. If your game give me a holler!! Something casual. No stress. Just good o'l fun. Meet and chat.

Kenda

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

I am a 40 year old professional single lady looking for a man who is ready to settle down with one woman for the rest of his life, a LTR. I have a great career which I have been employed with for over 10 years now and I have a part-time job that is extremely flexible and it helps with earning some spending money for fun times. I do own my own home, own a car, and I do not have any kids. Please be honest, open, have a sense of humor, compassionate, open minded...don't be afraid to try something new as I would want to try something new, but also be independent as I am as well. I am attracted to a white, non-smoking, professional male who is between the ages of ***. Please only respond to me if you fit this age range. I am laid back woman who has a lot of patience. I enjoy many activities...too many to list here but some of my favorites are watching and dancing to a live band, concerts, reading, the beach, camping, attending sporting events of any kind, traveling, spendng time with my nephews, and amusement parks. I am the type of woman who can dress up and enjoy a nice dinner and a show out on the town or throw on a baseball cap and go to a game, or even just stay at home and cuddle. If the above interests you at all, lets chat and see if there is chemistry!! Thanks :) I would like to meet someplace social and have a drink or dinner and see where the night takes us from there. If there is chemistry, I would like to do something afterwards like a walk on the beach or we could stay where we were and just hang out. I am a huge sports fan so if we could watch a ball game, that would be great or like I said go take a walk so that it could provide an opportunity for romance. This would really provide the chance to test out our chemistry!!

Georgiann

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

Let me start by telling you I'm English, yes yes I know what your thinking bad teeth and an allergy to dentists! So if you are indeed a dentist hello do you have time to fit me in?Ok for masochists who decided to continue on you can breathe easy knowing I'm not here looking for a green card marriage. Nor do I want 10% of your wages sent to my family back home in the motherland, If you are 5ft 10 or less I'm sorry flats are out of the question. My age requirements are flexible but under 30 or over 50 is a stretch even for me So ask yourself the following questions :***Do I want a woman who takes amazing care of herself physically, emotionally and spiritually?2) Do I want a woman who is polite, generous and treats people with respect, regardless of their own behaviour towards others?3) Do I want a woman who makes me laugh so hard I can't breathe?4) Do I want a woman who gives me space to be myself and doesn't try to change me?5) Do I want a woman who is independent, responsible with money and has herself together?6) Do I want a woman who is driven, ambitious and not afraid to take risks?7) Do I want a woman who is cultured, classy and well travelled? However let's treat each other like human beings, with respect, integrity and honesty. People who cannot articulate their feelings, communicate in real time and not just by text and are afraid to say " hey your just not the woman for me" I would rather not hear from you;) I like to keep it real.Here is my commitment to you;-I promise not to waste your time, or mine.I will always be honest ,and you will always know where you standI have no agendaI'm in no hurry and I relish taking the time to get to know youI'm not into serial dating or putting you into some crazy rotation, but know that I am communicating with others until our relationship becomes more establishedI believe communication is key and will not limit it to text messages, I prefer to talk on the phone or meet in personI will not misrepresent myself in my pictures or how I live my lifeI may not respond to all that reach out to me, please don't take it personally ( refer back to the first line of my commitments)

Barryhuffmar5

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Man. 63 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: woman. In age: 41-59

Hi! My name is Barryhuffmar5. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Benton, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Richardine

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

Im done with Drama. Dont want to not have to work so hard on a relationship. Want to have someone thats wants to hang out & have a great time with no issues.; loves to laugh. I enjoy camping, riding and doing whatever comes up in the moment. (no Smokers and prefer you to be taller than me) I'm up for anything. Movie & Dinner to Concerts/Bands. I'm very easy going love to be spontaneous.

Deadmanshand

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Man. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: woman. In age: 18-35

Hi! My name is Deadmanshand. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Benton, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Fitzy91Ea

• Benton

• Illinois
• United States

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Man. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: woman. In age: 22-31

Hi! My name is Fitzy91Ea. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Benton, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.