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Kenda, 41
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

I am a 40 year old professional single lady looking for a man who is ready to settle down with one woman for the rest of his life, a LTR. I have a great career which I have been employed with for over 10 years now and I have a part-time job that is extremely flexible and it helps with earning some spending money for fun times. I do own my own home, own a car, and I do not have any kids. Please be honest, open, have a sense of humor, compassionate, open minded...don't be afraid to try something new as I would want to try something new, but also be independent as I am as well. I am attracted to a white, non-smoking, professional male who is between the ages of ***. Please only respond to me if you fit this age range. I am laid back woman who has a lot of patience. I enjoy many activities...too many to list here but some of my favorites are watching and dancing to a live band, concerts, reading, the beach, camping, attending sporting events of any kind, traveling, spendng time with my nephews, and amusement parks. I am the type of woman who can dress up and enjoy a nice dinner and a show out on the town or throw on a baseball cap and go to a game, or even just stay at home and cuddle. If the above interests you at all, lets chat and see if there is chemistry!! Thanks :) I would like to meet someplace social and have a drink or dinner and see where the night takes us from there. If there is chemistry, I would like to do something afterwards like a walk on the beach or we could stay where we were and just hang out. I am a huge sports fan so if we could watch a ball game, that would be great or like I said go take a walk so that it could provide an opportunity for romance. This would really provide the chance to test out our chemistry!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Cooking Museums Comedy Horror Baseball Shooting Sports
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