Gay Dating in Fulton, New York State

I'm a down to earth and low key guy, and confident to a point as my appearence suggests. I'm honest and even keeled and my glass is half-full as much as possible. No room for toxic negative people in my life. I don't need to be dragged down by that. I enjoy being active and outside when possible. Enjoy doing new things and would like to experience them with a man I care about, and who cares for me. More travel is one thing on my list. I have been working in the financial services industry for 25+ years. It suits my analytical mind, but lately I feel like I would be happier doing something completely different, possibly in the medical/health services field. I am looking for more social interaction, which is why I am here. And if I find a special guy here and we can have a solid long term relationship, that's a bonus. That's what I'd like in the long run, but my expectations are not set high.I have two sons in college, who are great young men, and have added so much to my life. I have no regrets about my life at any point up to now. But now I want to focus on fostering a relationship with a good man, who knows a solid relationship is a two way street with give and take.I always have a book that I'm reading. I used to read mainly murder mysteries, but have started working in some classic literature. Jo Nesbo is my favorite foreign writer, a Norwegian. TV is mostly an evening filler, but prefer comedies. I laugh easily and love to hear others laugh as well. For movies I can enjoy almost any genre. I enjoy a movie or two every weekend. I feel my music tastes are constantly evolving and expanding. I love how music can evoke feeling and emotion! Food...yes I eat it. Open to trying almost anything.Please note I chose HIPSTER for the word describing my personality. That describes the music I listen to. I often discover artists before most people. I am an overall Hispster? No, but I don't like using just one word to describe my personality. It can vary a bit from time to time. :) Over coffee in a relaxing atmosphere, so we can talk and see if a connection is there or could be.

Friends keep telling me age is only a number. Most of them are younger and have trouble keeping up with me. So I guess there is some truth to that. We only live once so make the most of it, right? Have not date in over 30 years. May need help in this area.

I consider myself a very down to earth kind of guy. I try to be optimistic and keep a positive outlook. I am very friendly and love to meet and get to know new people. I enjoy spending time with friends and family and I'm always there to lend them a helping hand, an ear, or a shoulder to cry on. I'm very honest and upfront. I'm generally very laid back, patient and understanding.I really hate to write anything negative and I try not to judge people, but I do have a few stipulations about the guys I date. You must have an income and able to support yourself. You must have a vehicle. I prefer that you don't have children. You must be drug and disease free and I won't tolerate a drinking problem. A good sense of humor is a MUST! I love to laugh and make people laugh. I like to just be silly or goofy sometimes. I like to tease and flirt! Hit me up, you won't regret it. My first date depends a lot on the other person. I am usually very flexible and would want to find something we both have in common and would both enjoy for our first date. I could meet for a drink, a coffee, ice cream, or a meal. I love Italian & Mexican cuisine. I would want to keep it light and short with no expectations or pressure. Kind of just test the waters and see how we hit it off and then go from there.

I guess if you want something badly enough you need to be specific and clear on what it is you seek. I am a masculine, hard working guy who is looking for a monogamous, healthy relationship. I am not perfect but always striving to be a better person on the inside. Mutual respect, communication and chemistry are the qualities in someone I seek. I wear my heart on my sleve which at times is not a good thing but it is me. Looking for a friend first, dating, and my ultimate goal is a monogamous relationship with the right person. Thanks for reading through and good luck to all :)

- Boardwalk, biking, walking, etc. Love hosting parties (especially during the holidays) as well as other times during the year for friends. Would really like to meet someone who is tired of bars & wants more out of lifeIf you have an interest, let me know!!Ultimately looking for a LTR,but fun in the meantime can't hurt :) Would love to meet someone who knows what he wants, is kind, good sense of humor & is an all around good guy. Maybe meet for coffee or a drink...preferably at an outdoor cafe if the weather is nice...enjoy a little conversation and if the vibe is right then we take it from there!

As my life evolves, I'm busy with my job and a home business, time with friends and family, but something is missing-YOU. It's time we find each other, and open our minds, share time forming a future of fun, because I want a playmate for life. I like to play cards when I'm hanging with friends, Skipbo, poker, and there's always room to deal you in. Go play pool, or bowl and have a few beers, catch a movie, wander through an estate sale, sweat through a KC Barbeque, concerts and parties, or park our butts in front of the TV, and relax with our sweet and salty favorites. Quality time with someone I feel relaxed around, not competition or criticism. Someone who makes me smile even days apart, laugh about private jokes, really at ease, patient and accepting. There's got to be respect, honesty and trust, everyone's made mistakes in the past, show me who are now. No certain body type or looks because I like what makes you an individual, a patch of freckles, a five o'clock shadow, a twinkle in your eyes, a belly after Chinese buffet. A whisper of chest hair under a buttoned shirt, your hands telling a story, a nice pair of legs in shorts. Tenderness in your touch, strength in your embrace. Best match Pisces or Cancer. We could meet for coffee or****ails, maybe go feed the ducks at the park and talk a bit. No pressure, no expectations. It doesn't have to be a big deal, just a relaxing way to spend some time.

Looking for LTR leading to more with right guy, clean, masculine, single down to earth, variety of interests and passionate. None scene guy here & into same.Find value in the simple things because " The Journey is the Reward"Casual dress, clean healthy life style, consider myself intelligent.It would be nice to see the above similarities in a friend, buddy or partner as well as a spirit for life. Like and appreciate masculine guys that are comfortable in there skin and have strength of character and ethics. We will figure it out how and where to meet and what to do, right?

Hi Guys, I'm just a regular Guy that likes to just have a good time. If its going out to dinner with friends or just kicking back and relaxing .Traveling is good too. I'm looking for a Friend and then maybe more. Someone that has a job ,and a car. I like all music but Rap. I'm just looking for that one guy that would like to take a journey on the road of life with me. I smoke, I enjoy Family but also like being with My friends they have always been my comfort zone. so this is it. even if your not interested. just e-mail back just to say Hey. you never know you might have just met you best friend. How funny when u see someone u might be Interested n and u send them a e mail and they hav blocks on there email or blocks not excepting from certain. People. Lmao. If u have blocks on your email then your not that Interested in meeting people. Ur limiting your self. What would I want to do on my First date? How about just a Dinner and a chat just to get too know each other. and move forward from there. That would be cool.

I enjoy walks along the beach. Would love watching the sunset on the beach with that special person. I like to cook and go camping as well. I like country music and oldies. I am a caring person and very loyal.

Who I am.....I am lets go out in to the country man! I considered myself a very aware person regarding social and political concerns, some have called me a activist, I just say I'm awake!! I love my Pekingese dog, and working hard to have a life of serenity. I know how to treat a man good and be able to put a smile on his face.I love my job, my house, and my life, I believe it is now the time to share it with the right man and bring joy into our life's !! Who likes great home cooked meals and spend nights cuddle up watching TV, or going out to a movie, or a having conversations that makes both of us go hmm!Some ones that love pets and would like to meet the same. Ask me out, once that is out of the way. Then coffee and great conversation.