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Libra · Looking for: Man, 38–48
I will preface my profile by stating in advance that I appreciate and am humbled by any and all the interest shown by the men on meetville. In the event that I do not respond to an initial message, please do not take it personally. We all have our tastes and types, some like apples and some like oranges, and it has nothing to do with you as a person. We all ROCK in our own ways :)Recently I have been accused of being a PLAYER for emailing and talking to more than one person on this site at a time. Interesting indeed. I feel that until 2 people decide to be exclusive and have gotten to know one another a bit, it's too soon to put all your eggs in one basket. My theory anyways. I will continue to date and message people until I meet a guy that is a fit. I am on here to ultimately find a guy that I am happy and excited to see always. I think it's possible :) About me, I am a proud mother of an 12 yr old girl and a 14 yr old boy who are very active in sports and music. I am extremely energetic and in my spare time, which I cherish, I enjoy salsa dancing, cardio kick-boxing, volleyball, as well as listening, singing, and dancing along to music. My taste in music is diverse and always depends on my mood. I love to sing as much if not more than I love to dance. I consider myself intelligent, courteous, mindful, honest and kind-hearted, and I expect the same of the people I date. Things I find attractive in men are: Nice teeth/smile, someone who eats healthfully and has a fit body, is coordinated, athletic, and uses good grammar/spelling and is intelligent. I like a man who has ambition/desire, is goal-oriented, and is adventurous. Must have a work/life balance. No workaholics please. Someone who is easy going, but not too easy going (if that makes any sense :)) clean, neat/organized, self-assured, kind, honest, loyal, patient (even though I am not all the time :)) loves kids, big kid at heart, but ultimately responsible and respectful. Oh and funny, must be funny....Haha! It appears I have just described myself :) If this list is too long or challenging for you, I am sorry, I only expect in return what I have to offer. I think it's fair :)Please (I am asking nicely) do not misrepresent yourself. For example posting old pictures that don't reflect what you look like NOW.Please have more than 1 picture up and one full body picture, and a close up without hats or sunglasses on. It would save me the trouble of asking for one. There are so many guys that I overlook because they don't have good pictures up. A little effort goes a long way.Please have more than 3 sentences in your profile for me to read, because I actually do read them. They tell me a lot. For example, it tells me whether you can spell, or at least use spell check, whether or not you use good grammar and also it should tell me a bit about YOU. SHOCKING isn't it :)Please do not be suffering from Irritable Male Syndrome. If you suffer from this please have it under control before contacting me. I prefer to not be the recipient of someone else's anger issues. Please be down to earth. If you are so in LOVE with yourself, and know it, no need to contact me. I find these types to really have nothing to offer. Just sayin :)Please be able to laugh at yourself. I know I can, and I do all the time. LOLOLOLOL :)Please don't be so irrational that you feel the need to block a girl after the first few messages for no reason, because it makes you feel better....lol :) So immature, and strange at the same time. Please don't round up to the nearest 5" on your height. That's just WRONG again. Yup, people do this. I kid you not.Texting etiquette 101. If I text you, I expect a response. No one likes being ignored. My theory, it takes only 30 seconds to shoot out a text, even if it's just to say, busy right now. Common courtesy. If you don't agree, then I guarantee it won't work out, so don't bother messaging ME in the first place :)Say what you mean, and mean what you say, don't lie, and please don't monopolize people's time. It's rude and disrespectful and really serves no purpose.Deal breaker: If you cancel the first date without a doctor's note or a serious emergency, there will not be another opportunity. I feel first impressions are important, and one should approach it as if they were attending a job interview for a job they wanted. A cancellation means you are not a serious candidate. I know SHOCKING AGAIN :)Top 2 ways to ANGER a woman 1. Ignore her...... and 2. Say you are going to do something and NOT do it . Not ROCKET SCIENCE right? :)A sign of a real man is someone who does what he says he is going to do. REAL MEN need only apply. Thanks :) GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE :)))
