BBW Dating in Cerro, New Mexico

I\'m really down for whatever when it comes to free time, and even if I don\'t think I’ll enjoy something I would undoubtedly bend the rules for someone special. Search for true lover, not egoistic bitch.

Hi. How's it going? I'm here looking for mr. Right. I am not needy, clingy and have my own life. Also, I have little to no debt. I am just revamping this profile, and, it is a work in progress, so, please, bear with me. (Btw, English is my 2nd language AND my first!!)I have no children, and have really big green eyes! (Just trying to throw in relevant facts for you impatient guys!). I love lobster, but, not so much oysters...(even though they are said to b an aphrodisiac.). My favorite colour is orange. I look good in most colours. I am very confident, and, will try to sway you to my choice of which movie you are taking me to! (See? There's that confidence I was talking about!). I am an avid reader, but, prefer novels and true life crime to factually based articles and/or news related reading. LOVE tv and movies. Too many to list. But, a few recent ones that i saw and liked are: silver linings playbook, the house at the end of the street, choose, oblivion, after ea..), so many more I cannot think of off the top of my head! (Btw, if you decide you don't want to meet me because I happen to like NICKLEBACK...it is SOO your loss!..just sayin...I consider myself slightly big boned, but, there is no actual proof that my bones weigh 100 pounds on their own. Oh, and I m very funny. Not sure if that is coming across!Music is a daily part of my life.... I generally will listen to anything that catches my ear and touches me. (I know, there's a joke in there!)K, work. I don't like it...would rather be hanging out with my peeps, listening to music, getting my teeth pulled...lol! It is not really that bad! I actually generally like what I do for a living! And, I totally prefer the nanny gig to the daycare racket! (Although I work in daycare currently, I would prefer to work for an extremely wealthy family that provides full dental coverage!)Latest career update: I have decided to continue my career in child studies. Am going to get my level 2 in January. Nervous, but, looking forward to the challenge!I like the IDEA of marriage. My parents have been married for like 46 years, and they still like each other for the most part. However, I am someone who likes their creature comforts and am generally a homebody. I love affection and doing new and fun activities. Life is short! I have travelled a little. Cabo was amazing, and soo hot! Just the way I like it! Possibly to Cancun next time! Went to the Bahamas on a cruise in 2009...(doesn't seem like that is even possible it was that long ago!)! Love the water, but, after seeing the movie, 'the reef', am a little less anxious to go exploring too far off shore in shark infested waters! BC is great! No sharks in them waters!THIS JUST IN!! woot woot! Anyone wanna help me move!?So, if you think you are awesome enough to apply for the job as 'soul mate, companion and lover', shoot me a message, all you have to lose is...well, nothing! OOk, first date. Something quick and dirty! (just kidding! that is for the SECOND date!). I know it sounds corny, but, if we meet and there is a spark, then the date could potentially last a lot longer. If there is no spark, then 15 minutes could do it! Although I still would like to believe you can grow to love someone, based on their awesome personality, i remain dubious!! So, lets just play it by ear.

I am interested in meeting new people, I am single and have been for awhile because I am unwilling to compromise on what I am interested in, smoking is a deal breaker. I am a big sports lover, watching and playing when I can, I am not a petite girl but I am far from lazy, I do the best I can to stay active and have a great sense of humor. I have 1 son at home and 1 on his own, I am NOT looking for a replacement father, but must be comfortable around kids, I will not compromise time with my son for anybody, but have no problem including someone with activities, I am currently an active football mom. I have tons of friends and supportive people in my life, and would like to continue to have positive people in my life, so not into game playing or dis-honesty, I say what I mean and mean what I say, would love that in return. If any of this interests you then would love to communicate, if not then I wish you the best of luck on your search. Thanks for taking time to read. My first date, or meeting would be in public and somewhere we could chat, laugh and share our common interests. I am not a big coffee drinker but would love to walk or sit by the water and talk, honestly and see if we have an emotional and physical chemistry.

I guess I'm still old fashioned when it comes to opening the door for a lady and pulling her chair out..but I am also a person who doesn't mind getting out and going fishing, camping etc. I bait my own hook and I get my own fish also. As far as music goes I like about anything but hard head banging music where you can't understand the lyrics. My idea of a great man I would like to find is someone who is fun but also serious at the right times, enjoys new things as well as doing things they have never tried. Life is to short and I want to find a person who will always be on my mind as much as I will be on theirs.

I'm a single parent who enjoys spending time with family. I enjoy reading, watching TV. Going out for drinks with friends. Country music and some of the oldies. I love my work. I enjoy the beach and just spending time with someone. I enjoy sharing quality time with that special someone.

Thanks for stopping by to check me out! I have two teenage boys (18 & 16) - they keep me on my toes and hip!I'm laid back and I go with the flow. My job is very busy & stressful but I always find a way to crack a joke to keep it fun and sane. I have a good sense of humor and look for the same in a man. I'm very caring, empathetic, people pleaser, loyal and would do anything for a friend. I'm not high maintenance and don't like drama. I'm a girlie dude's dude cause I can talk college football with the best of them! A good first date is lunch. It's short and if things go well, it leaves you wanting more.

I am done raising my family and now its my time. I work hard and like to play harder. I am a very simple person, doesn't take much to make me happy. Don't get me wrong, I like nice things but not materialistic. I am just me!.....its ok if you still have kids at home, I started early. Why are first dates so hard to decide on...just be yourself.

As my headline says.. I truly believe that laughter is the best medicine! I love to laugh. I have what some would called a warped sense of humor with a side of sarcasm. I am an average looking, honest, caring, and down to earth lady. I'm curvy and thick with a bit extra but not a big big woman. I enjoy going out to movies, sitting at the beach, taking random roadtrips, hanging out with friends, hanging out at home or doing absolutely nothing.What am I looking for you ask? Well I'm looking for a friend first.... If meeting somebody only turns into a friendship I am ok with that, who wouldn't want new friends? Although I am ultimately looking for a long term relationship. To meet someone fun and interesting .... that special someone. Someone who is funny, spiritual, affectionate, loving, adventurous, financially/mentally stable, and up for having fun in life...someone who is not overly serious. I am NOT looking for one-nighters, NSA or relationships with married men so please respect that. I think the first meeting should be something that is as casual and "low stress" as possible. Possibly a coffee or a walk?

I am not perfect & I make mistakes, If that's something that you can't deal with... Don't message me please.I don't want a man to take care of me... I want to be EQUALSI know that everything starts as a friend.. Then goes from there... That's what I am wanting to start as... FRIENDSI work 3pm-12amI have a drivers license... JUST DON'T HAVE A CARI have 3 wonderful children, they are my worldI want to travel somedayI believe everyone has good in them, sometimes its just hard to seeI love to laughI want another tattoo.. Music puts a smile on my face.I've never been to a concert If it thunders outside, I like to sit outside and watch

I love to cook and bake. I use my grill year-round and love entertaining family and friends.I watch a lot of movies and most recently watched Silver Lining and Star Trek Insurrection.I like mostly music from the 80's, Classic Rock. I do listen to a little rap, but mostly just dance songs...I like to shake my tail feather!I am on a break from drinking right now, but still like to party! 420 friendly. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR: a sexting partner or a hookup, so please do not contact me if you are a creepy perv. Thank You. A simple picnic prepared by him complete with two spotless wine glasses and a bottle of Pinot Grigio that we can share.