Single Women & Men in Carleton, Michigan

Hi! My name is Arf. I am divorced catholic caucasian man without kids from Carleton, Michigan, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

***ATTENTION:*** I am going to tell you right off the bat if you are looking for some ass then you better keep looking. I may be a BBW but I have alot of respect for myself and don't just jump into bed with anyone. I pride myself on being a good girl and not thinking I need to spread my legs and to have a man make me feel good about myself. Sorry to be so blunt but I'm just tired of men hitting me up for sex. If you are looking for ass go to OBC.com. Also one last thing don't think because I'm a big girl that I'm desperate and easy to get into bed because there is nothing further from the truth! Anyone that is looking for something serious and don't play games feel free to hit me up but if you think you're going to get in my pants "You will get your feelings hurt!" I AM A BBW SO IF YOU DON'T LIKE THAT THEN KEEP IT MOVING! ANYWAYS MEAT IS FOR REAL MEN BONES ARE FOR DOGS! Also if you want to meet me send me a message don't just click the meet me button cause I don't pay attention to that! ***I AM NOT HAVING SEX AGAIN UNTIL I'M MARRIED!!!******Now if you made it past the above message then here is some info about me, to start off I am a 34 yr old single mom of two little ones. I'm a laid back person that likes to have fun, even though I don't get out much due to the kids. I enjoy spending time with friends and family; I make my own fun, I don't do the whole club or bar scene. My idea of a good night out is just hanging out with my family and friends and just going to dinner and a movie. My children are my everything and to be with me that is the most important thing; you have to accept my kids. I have a great sense of humor and can sometimes act alittle silly but hey what would this world be like if you can't laugh and have fun. I'm a very confident individual and if you can't deal with that then move on. I know what I want and I go for it. I don't let life's little problems bring me down. I just laugh everything off and take one step at a time. I graduated from Salter College with a degree in Medical Assisting. I love working in the Medical field but unfortunately due to family issues at the moment I'm unable to do so. I am currently a stay at home mom and would love to get back to work real soon. I'm not only looking for love but I am looking for my best friend. I'm looking for a relationship that is going to be 100%/100%; meaning I give everything I have and I expect the same, a relationship should not be 50%/50% like most people think. I'm looking for some new people to chill with that are cool and laid back. Someone that likes to have fun, has a good sense of humor and knows how to enjoy life no games. Someone that can make me laugh but at the same time be understanding when need be. I want someone that is drama free and like me don't let the little stuff take over and stress you out. I want someone that is gonna challenge me mentally. Someone that isn't gonna call me fifty times a day just to tell me I'm beautiful. I want someone that is sweet but not someone that is going to smuther me. I mostly listen to Christian music but sometimes listen to R&B, reggae, and Rap. I will basically listen to any kind of music. I love horror movies but yet to find one that scares me. If you think this is you then feel free to hit me up with an email. I want some that is not only going to be my lover but my friend as well. He has to be honest I mean don't tell me what you think I want to hear just tell me the truth and someone that has a great sense of humor but can be serious when need be. I want someone that is not only going to want to jump into bed I want my man to be romantic and spontaneous. He would need to be good with kids because I have 2 and they are my world. Someone that loves family and is just basically a good hearted man. I WANT MY BEST FRIEND AND MY SOULMATE!!!

Tired of the bar scene, looking for something new and fun. I'm pretty laid back looking for a relationship without all the drama.

Been thinking a lot, maybe a little too much. The whole dating thing isn't really me, but I guess that's what they call it before a relationship is established. For me, meeting someone is enough to figure out whether or not that other someone is truly genuine or too faulty/flaky; especially if they stick around long enough. First impressions don't go away and I understand for example- even myself has said silly/stupid things out of nervousness. However those kinds of things can be overlooked like reading between the lines. Sure I should be some what attracted and impressed by someone just being themselves no putting on a front or a disguise. Scooby Doo where are you... I want to feel mentally and emotionally connected with my future investment. If it turns out friendship is better, great the more friends the merrier. Don't know what my future husband will think of that, but I will never cheat. Back to the main point I was trying to say, I am not sure if I should be with someone or not. What I want is for all the right reasons, not everyone is on the same page though. Deep down I live with a few old fashioned values true to me and feel I deserve to be taken care of, and my child included. I'm a decent exceptional homemaker most men would only hope for, after they married or been with the wrong gal for too long to figure it out. Although I could be wrong, and I truly am the exception. The way I am able to go about things. First I like to attempt to establish a connection through messages that which breathes some of your essenses (as well as mine in reciprocation) and gives me ideas of your worth to me on a mental level. I like notes, letters, something that someone puts time and effert into tells me what I need to know. It gets my heart and soul going, if you don't have time for that and prefer short and sweet; proceed to exit now and go to the next profile as I am a waste of your precious time. It's not the real deal until it's for real-real. This country lady likes to take things a little more steady. Secondly, that comes in time and by then you'll know enough about me and my little quirks.; a treasure to call my own... Hoping to gracefully merge into a relationship with my best friend and see where it belongs in God's masterpiece. The future must be open to marriage which is what I desire to share with one man for life. The life I live has some baggage and I tell it like it is straight up and forward. Nobody is perfect, and not one cookie cutter could replicate this piece of work. I am unique, one of a kind, and hard to find. I was designed by God; No one said it would be easy for me to live my life. I just accept what is thrown at me and make the best of it each day, and keep on moving forward. Proud to say I've lost weight, and will continue to work on staying healthy. I'm not a toothpick and I never will be, I'm a real woman. Life is full of blessings and misfortunes, yet I remain grateful through out. If you like me enough or fall for me, nothing will stand in the way of true love and happiness. I can't promise that if we meet that it will work out, that is a chance both parties must make. No failure if the feeling is mutual, win-win if both parties decide it's "the one." If one is in and the other is out, that's just part of the risk we all take to see if the pieces fit. Don't get stuck in quick sand over these hit and misses, keep looking!Things about me: -Open minded for the most part, try to keep an open door policy -Honesty is the best policy, say it straight don't be too late-A little shy until I'm comfortable-The past is the past, adds to character of who one has become-I'm Christian but not going to push religion into someones face, live and let live -I like most music and movie genres -Stay at home parent/homemaker -Live with my parents -I don't drive, not sure if/when I will, just never had the itch to do so -Only have one child who is 5 -Not much of a drinker more for a special occasion, I'm a sipper if anything-Not a party girl I'd rather have an entertaining party at home with decent people safe/sane fun In my future partner these are my main requests:*Accepting of my child*Knows how to compromise when needed or agree to disagree not escalate the situation*Communication: express feelings, thoughts,plans, ideas... otherwise what is the point if we can't share.*Must drive, if I don't I need a partner that does and can look past that*No FWB! *Non-smoker is my preference as I don't smoke. Light smoker okay. *Light drinker/occasional drinker okay as long as you're not Dr. *I message first to get to know people before deciding to meet, then decide to start a relationship, friendship, or nothing at all.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile, not everyone will get a message from me. Just keep swimming :)

hobbies-babysit children,goal want a christian person and actually have a relationship, pretty and loveing and careing,hip hop. i just want a respectful guy that is nice. dont like to rush. I need a boyfriend im lonely tired of being lonely coffee and doughnuts

I can’t get messages look me up on Facebook adam willis or message me your phone number if I like I’ll send ya text or call if your lucky

My 20:1. I am unapologetically independent and would prefer someone to walk through life WITH as opposed to FOR.2. I love my family madly - all of them.3. I am the mother of three gloriously opinionated children, who show me each and every day how much stronger I am than I think.4. I forgive easily; I forget rarely.5. I do not trust easily, though I am fiercely loyal.6. I find intelligence more attractive than social status.7. My expectations of others are low; my self-expectations are ridiculously high.8. I’m an author, not an orator.9. I prefer logic to irrational behaviour.10. Debates are fun; arguments are not.11. I’m not particularly interested in ocean world pollutants; I’m more interested in keeping my fish bowl clean.12. My attention to detail is impeccable, but the span is short.13. I am process-oriented and uncomfortable with spontaneity.14. My mind is far more adventurous than my feet; my feet struggle with gravity.15. I am socially reserved, though I thoroughly enjoy philosophical conversations about elemental magic and other supernatural phenomena.16. I neither build nor burn bridges. Learn to fly or start paddling. Hovering is unacceptable.17. We all come with strings attached.18. Honesty is mandatory. Always.19. I'm overly fond of dry humour and sarcasm.20. I probably won't respond to "Hi". That's not me being mean. It's a filter. Conversational coffee.

Well lets see who really reads this!!! Don't know how much faith I have in the online thing but thought why not!! I have been working so much that I don't have a whole lot of time to go out anymore and I don't believe you'll meet your soulmate at a bar!! I have a home, car and a job!! I love my kids they are first and foremost and I spend a lot of time with my family. I love to laugh and have a good time plus I'm funny as hell I even crack myself up!! I know what I want out of life and a relationship and I won't settle for anything less!! Why should anyone settle you get one life and I'm going to make the most of the one I get!!! If your just looking for a one night stand I am not the girl for you!! If you want to know more just ask!!

Hi! My name is Bobbeach2Sf. I am never married other caucasian man with kids from Carleton, Michigan, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

I enjoy music, travel and movies. I want to see the world, share God's love and have a family. Meet for coffee or at sweetlife or for some fro-yo