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Benjamina
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
First off, I have no time for players who just want to serial date, or see how many women they can meet. I run into that too often from guys on here, and am just about ready to give up. Always seems to happen with the more attractive guys who obviously want a certain type that isn't me, like younger, prettier, whatever. They can have you. So, don't bother to message me if that's the case. Thanks. I'm 44, have two kids, a daughter, 14 and a son, 17. They live with me, but I can date. And they're with their father every other weekend. However, whomever I would potentially date would have to understand my schedule with them, (their activities) as well as the time I spend with them. I am not one of those mothers who goes out every weekend leaving my kids on their own, despite the fact that they are teenagers, or put whomever I'm dating before them, spending every weekend with him and *** kids. I like to be around for them, as I said, even though they're teens and may have other plans. So I mostly go out when they're with their dad, with an exception for something planned once in awhile, or during the week occasionally, depending on their schedules. I have brown hair, brown eyes, and am petite. I've been described as cute with a 'bubbly' personality, pretty, sexy. Don't know about those things, I'd let the guy be the judge of that. I am confident, but not conceited, and am perfectly aware that there are plenty of beautiful, sexy women out there that I can't compete with. However, as I said, I am confident, and feel good about myself and how I look and feel, being over 40. More importantly, I'm very friendly and outgoing, fun, funny, and in a relationship I am loving, sweet and affectionate, flirtatious, playful, open and honest, and say what I want and how I feel. What I don't want in a guy is someone who won't talk, or communicate, game playing, particularly messing with my head, lying, cheating, or telling me what they think I want to hear for their own selfish reasons. I want someone who makes me feel GOOD about myself, not who makes me feel unwanted and bad about myself, and hurts me or plays with my emotions. Yes, I am emotional, not a nutcase, just show my feelings and say what's on my mind. I want someone who treats me with the respect I deserve, respects my feelings, not takes advantage of them or me, and in return, they would get the same from me and much more. I am just not into getting hurt anymore. I am NOT bitter or hating men, on the contrary, I love men. :) I've just learned that I give too much sometimes to people who refuse to give back and take advantage of that, then disappear. So I'm just a bit more cautious now, simple. :) I also would like someone funny who makes me laugh and who likes to go out and have FUN, not sit around doing nothing but watching TV all the time. However, I do enjoy staying home and watching a movie sometimes too, just like everyone else. Sorry if I sound harsh, just want to be honest about where I am right now. If you're not interested, that's fine too. **There also must be a spark right away~I believe in chemistry. Having said all of that above, I certainly don't expect to jump immediately into a relationship with someone I may meet here. I don't even want that right away, frankly. I need to go slow and work towards a relationship if that happens. If I meet someone I really like, and we hang out for awhile and like eachother, and a relationship develops, that's cool too, I just don't want to dive straight into it.I like going to see bands, like just about any type of music, eating out, (like trying new places) going to fests in the summer, concerts, hanging with friends and family, sporting events, (Cubs games or Blackhawks games first two on the list) and anything else interesting and fun. I can pretty much have fun doing anything, and am not difficult to please.*If I do not answer a message, I am not interested. Not trying to be rude, it's just easier than wasting time going back and forth with explanations. I get non answers too, and I don't get offended, I move on. Thanks.A song about love that I looooove~ *** Whatever, talk and decide together
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Diann
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I need fun, closeness and humor! I am at the point in my life were I have had some major accomplishments...enough to know the precious things are often right in front us not what we chase thinking it will make us happy. I am the type of person that isnt afraid of a challenge and am the first to help out when others need it. Giving feels better then taking. I believe in God and would like to share that belief with my mate. I have many lasting relationships/friendships are precious . I am blessed to have a close family and believe it or not ..I have raised an incredible young man on my own. He has his own house and I am ready to do all the fun things freedom can allow !! LOL.. I would like to travel more, get out and live and explore life with someone who shares my zest for life. Going to great places and seeing great things arent that great if you dont have someone to share it with. I love the outdoors and getting out and living *** watching TV. I love the beach and the country, sporting events and theater..bring it on.I think anger is a waste of time, learning from every situation is power. Changing when you should.. standing your ground when you shouldnt. ..I am looking for a partner who respects individuality yet desires a partner..But that takes time as each person is different. I am willing to wait as that kind of connection is priceless. I am looking for a solid man who has a quiet confidence, a open heart and spirit. Respects others and is looking for a solid honest relationship with a woman that will challenge him to be the best he can be. He is funny, loving and takes charge when he needs to. He makes me feel protected when he is around, is my best friend who I can share my life with. He uses both his mind and his hands . Big plus if you can fix things thats hot.. Probably coffee or something low key where we can relax and get to know one another
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Sandie
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Hello! :) This is new for me, I have never been on a dating network. Yes, I am a little hesitant knowing I am about to actually put myself out there for once in a long time. But, I am a single mother of two girls, my oldest is in college, and my youngest is in high school. My entire life has been devoted to raising my girls. But, this tis ***, a new year and a new me! :) I'm ready to start enjoying time for me. I enjoy any activity and intelligent conversation. I want to find a man who desires a good woman. I have bi-racial children and normally vibe better with black men.(and that is due to my love for music). My schedule is hectic and I have very few free times to date but am willing to make time for me this year. I'm looking forward to meeting a man who simply enjoys making a woman smile :)) I am a good hearted, loving lady that has been single many many years, but I would love to meet Mr Right and start a new journey in life. I really don't have any expectations of how a first date should be. It has been awhile since I have dated. I would appreciate the effort a man puts into planning the date. Though the first date should be planned around being able to conversate and get to know each other to see if there is truely a connection. I am an easy-going gal who simply enjoys positive energy.
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Annalise
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
TBD
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Lora
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I love music and dancing around in my kitchen as I cook and clean. My boys keep me young. I try to stay active ( Looking for the same) I love life and see positivity in all situations, I prefer a book or music to watching tv, family and friends are very important to me.If there is anything else just drop me a line. Cheers :) Something we can both choose and agree on!
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Sharon
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Im trying the site again.....Im not into REAL SERIOUSNESS YET, but I want to meet a man who is not a LIAR, CHEATER and HAS THINGS HE HIDES!!!!...i want a true relation w a man who wants the same: FUN, LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, ACTIVE, LOVE THE OUTDOORS and the BEACH, Loves GOD,Loves family outings and of course one on one companionship together!!! i would LOVE to belong again and get married eventually and shre my life w my mans life!!! I love all types of music,but ROCK is my favorite!!..love to barbq, cook, swim, road trips, love the beach, occasional outings w a few beers and i love to be home too! Im simple, laid back and true! ONLY SERIOUS APPLY PLEASE Basic hang out at a restaurant/Bar & Grill type atmosphere for a couple of drinks and go from there......
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Haidee
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am a single/divorced woman who is looking for a relationship. I am an honest, loving, caring and loyal individual who is looking for my other half. I know that you are out there somewhere! PROFILE UPDATE: I DO NOT engage in discussing sex, getting YOU off, doing you a favor, etc. I am sick and tired of so called men on here trying to get me to get them off. I WILL report you. Do us both a favor and pass me by. I am waiting on a class act AND have no problem waiting on the right man. The right man would not bring up and pursue a subject that the woman has made aware to him that it is uncomfortable. I think that a first date/ meet and greet should be short and sweet. Coffee at Starbucks, lunch, or perhaps having a daquiri would be some easy and casual situations to first meet a new person and see if there is a connection.
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Lilly
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Just to get right down to it, I am interested having in a long-term relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage and family with, to quote Marc Cohen, a "true companion". That's the serious side of things. But I am far from believing that a relationship should be serious and/or boring. I'm not just looking for a life partner, but also a tango partner, a travel companion, a hiking buddy, a game/mini-golf/wii competitor, etc. While I love a great movie as much as the next person, I think it's worst thing for a first date. Having coffee is a great first meeting, but a first date should incorporate an enviroment that promotes good conversation along with doing something fun and different. And yes, this is me throwing down the gauntlet...the rest is up to you;)
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Mead
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
****I dont mean to sound harsh but after doing this online dating thing for awhile, i figured it would be better to be blunt.****I'm a list maker so here is a short list of my likes and dislikes...in no particular order:1. Family comes first...love me, love my family 2. My kids are in their late teens...I like little kids but I'm not looking for anyone with small children. Sorry but I'm looking forward to being able to travel etc now that my kids are grown.3. Must love dogs because mine will be in your lap4. I'm a very easy going person...I believe everything happens for a reason and I don't get upset easily5. That being said, I am not looking to be used or play games. I'm old enough to know better6. I love my job7. Please have a job8.9. If you are more than an hour away from me, please don't *** you are ok with the distance10. Non smokers pls...I am an ex smoker and I cannot be around it due to that, Ty11. Be honest12. Men with tempers need not apply...been there, done that13. If you've been to jail and think you were framed, please don't *** you want love, you'll find it here15. I do not wear heels and even if I did I won't walk on you in them naked16. Be faithful17. Be smart18. I like geeks...if you like Star Trek or Star Wars, please *** funny...I love to laugh20. If you've made it this far and want to know more, then please ***? Drink? Sorry, I adore the ocean but I'm not walking in the sand on a first date...I'll look like a beached walrus or something lol
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Marilee
Summerville
- Georgia
- United States
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51
Well I'm a passionate person that loves to love.I'm looking for the same. I'm not into butch women... I like my woman to be fem.. Just sayn .. Lol well just ask an I'll tell you what you want to no.. Dinner maybe ... Drinks ...