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Aries · Looking for: Man, 43–53
***SORRY, WE ARE TEMPORARILY OUT OF STOCK OF THIS BLONDE*** Please check back in six months to see if her new relationship worked out...**************************************************************************************I want what you want, what we all want - that comfortable, secure, companionship with that extra oomphy spark that makes your heart beat faster when the phone call/text message/email/knock on the door is That Person. I want that ease of being with someone whose energy is so well synchronized to my own that we don't even need to speak at times and yet we're communicating. I want someone worth fighting through the tough times for, and for whom I'll reprioritize my "to do" list, to move them up on it. I want someone to be outrageous with, to be cuddly with, to be passionate with, and to be quiet with. I've learned, through trial and error, that I do best with a confident, assertive and decisive man with a quick sense of humor, to match mine. I'm an extrovert, a confident woman, and an optimist. I had a solid, "normal" upbringing in a large family of expressive, loving parents and siblings, and we share strong bonds no matter where we are. I don't think I bring a lot of drama and don't consider myself to be "high maintenance" but I'm not maintenance-free. I expect my lover to put equitable effort into the relationship. I'm a constant reader, with at least a book and a magazine going on somewhere, and I enjoy the various offerings of arts and culture, including live theater and live music. I like a variety of music types, especially live blues and R&B, and love to dance to it (I'll dance to anything with a good rhythm - swing, salsa, reggae, etc.). I think sometimes dive bars are more fun because they're more "honest." I also like playing pool there - I'm not good at it, but I still like it! And I know how to present myself in any situation - from the symphony to the biker bar. I enjoy getting dolled up in all the girly ways, but can as easily grub down and work hard at, say, a Habitat for Humanity build site. I aspire to be the classic dame with a heart of gold, ya know? I love old movies, sci fi and action flicks, and good independent movies that make you think. I can't stand chick flicks (they're predictable, trite, and corny) and I'll never make you sit through one. I like to go to movies THEN go to dinner - it gives you something to talk about over the meal and you don't have to wolf down the food to get to the show on time. I do enjoy being in the outdoors, doing activities and hikes that don't involve supplemental oxygen or the potential for airlift rescues. I don't fish but I really like going with people who do fish, being on the water, and I know how to keep my mouth shut and not cast a shadow on the water. I'll bring the beer. I don't downhill ski (never learned, and now my knees just laugh at the thought of me learning how at this point), but I do have cross-country skis and snowshoes waiting for winter in the back of my closet. I love to travel and wish I had more time to do so. I like to stop at the funky roadside attractions and points of interest because life is not about the destination, it's about pondering the giant ball of string that rolls uphill. I'm up for spontaneous adventures and exploring new things. One of the best vacations I ever had was a week- If any of this appeals to you, please send me an email. I will respond, even if it's only to thank you for the interest. Interest without action gets us nowhere, right? A good first date is simple - after all, we both know it's a test of chemistry, right? We may look good on paper, but if there's not that zing, it's not going anywhere. So I'd be happy with a simple meeting over coffee, or tea, or whatever, and just chatting. If we look up and it's two hours later and we're both hungry, then let's keep going over food.
