BBW Dating in Palo Alto, California

My profile is a novel, yes, I know...I won't be offended if you message me without reading it first. I just figured I'd really give viewers a good idea of what I'm about and where Im coming from! Ahh, so you've decided to take the plunge! Hey there, thanks for taking interest in reading my profile! I truly hope everyone on here finds what they're looking for. Everyone should be in love, it would make the world a better place! *Disclaimer IF YOU ARE BELOW 28 OR OVER 40, don't take offense to it, but Im not into the age difference so please DONT message me. And if you don't have any pictures on your profile, I will not respond to your messages so please don't waste your time. If your pics are all shots of you with your shirt off in front of your bathroom mirror...you'll probably always be in love with yourself more than you are with me so we're probably not a match. I respect the time and dedication it takes to look that way, really, I do. But your muscles won't do me any good when we're 70 ;) But I am a hair person, I'd REALLY prefer a guy with a nice head of hair, not one who shaves it because he's lazy. Hair loss is a different story, that can't be prevented. With all that said...I've been on this site before, met a few cool people and came across a lot of scary creepers as well. Though I didn't find my one true love, I've made a friend or two...so I see that as a positive. Let's see...how to give the run down of who I am without writing a book...What I want in a relationship is pretty simple. It's imperative that what is called "the honeymoon season" that two people experience when they first get started, lasts for more than just the first few months. Even though a couple becomes comfortable and settled in the relationship, they shouldn't lose that passion and excitement they had in the beginning. I'm some one who will require that kind of passion for the rest of my life for the relationship to last...or I'll lose interest. I'm extremely loyal, one of my downsides is that I tend to put others before myself (I say downfall not because doing so is a bad thing, but because in most cases when I've done this I've been sh*t on). The most important factors to me in a relationship are loyalty, trust, communication, humor, passion and dedication. I don't forgive or get over things easily, so if you do anything to lose my trust...we may as well walk in different directions after that. Those who know me well would tell you I'm really sarcastic. If you can't handle it, then we're definitely not a match. I tell it like it is and I won't say anything behind your back that I won't say to your face. I like to play around a lot, mess with you in hopes your wit is quick enough to give it back to me. I understand life isn't all fun and games, I can be serious too...it's pretty dead on lol.Music is a huge part of my life, ideally, I'd love to end up with someone who has the same love for music that I do. I sing with a few different bands, but my main focus is an acoustic trio I'm currently in. I also cut hair on the side, as well as other artistic side jobs that come my way. I'm a mother of two beautiful little girls so if you're not into kids, I'm not into you. NEXT!Oh...and I have NO baby daddy drama what so ever, he's not at all in the picture and we're just fine that way...I'm looking for a partner, not someone to fill the daddy void. Music-..country music is lame. Movies-..anything horror. TV-- "Gangster" talk. Speak English, we're adults now. Guys that are WAY into their appearance.Guys sporting the bird in their pics (real mature)Excessive cursing.A guy without transportation A guy with a criminal record. *I guess I should explain why I chose non-religious as my Religion...I believe there is God, a god who created me, and gave me the gift of this beautiful world. I pray to this God and appreciate each and every day I wake up and get to be alive. I do not care about one religions' fabrication of how the world came about or who bit into what apple. I refuse to live my life based on what some book says about the way I should live it. Especially when I truly believe it's BS. So you believe in your God how you want and I will do the same. First dates give me anxiety...especially meeting up with someone you've met online. Take me anywhere on the water with a live band and I'll be happy! Somewhere we can have a drink or two and get to know each other and take it from there.

My dad was a chief in The US Navy and I was born in Japan.I am currently a Surgical tech at an eye surgery center as well as a Ophthalmic tech at an Ophthalmologists' office. I have 2 amazing and sweet, well behaved kids(ages 14 & 7).i love to to move forward in life with positive changes. Ive often been referred to as a free spirit, sweet, caring, funny, and a fun person to be around. I love to dance, travel, try new things, and discover all this world has to offer.Some of my favorites: Favorite movies are The Notebook(i know rt), The Goonies, The Wedding Crashers, and I really loved the movie Friends With Benefits(hysterical). My favorite show used to be Nip Tuck(off air), now its Sons of Anarchy, The Challenge(on MTv), and Wheel of Fortune. I love all kinds of music...50s & 60s, 70s, 80s, rock, ska, blues, techno, country, r&b, and pop. My favorite food has to be seafood, love sushi, and one of my favorite all time places to eat is Sweet Tomatoes!I currently work 2 different jobs for the same company, I am a Surgical Tech in the OR and an Ophthalmic Tech at an Ophthalmologist(Eye doctor).Im obtaining my license to become a COA and continuing to grow in my career...possibly an RN in the near future??? Loving it!!! :) My ideal 1st date would be a nice gentleman meeting me at a bar,pool haul, commmunity event, or coffee shop, I guess. Anywhere that we could try and establish our compatability, once that has been accomplished, then Id love to play things by ear. Theres defitnitely fantasies I have about where Id like to go and what Id like to do but thats something to consider when I feel its necessary.I LOVE to laugh and smile....sooo cheesy. I am a free spirit, happy, fun, funny, and spontaneous at times. Lets go where the nt leads us.....and that could very well be alone. Lets be honest, we are ALL unique and special in our own way, but we are NOT all compatible.

I am a single mother of 4 children. I love kids and animals. I work hard and always do my best morally. I'm independent and fun loving.

I've been on this site for a while now. I've meet some great people and formed a few relationships but to whatever the reasons did not turn into permanency. I don't want to be here. Honestly who does? This isn't my kind of dating but when you know someone, who knows someone that would be great for you hardly ever bennifits you right? I also do not go out alot and have a life and responsibilities I tend to first so this serves as a way to meet new people.I've been single for majority of the past 10 years or so and learned how to be content on my own. I've found happiness within myself, my children and my life. Still missing that piece. I'm passed all the games of dateing. If I'm interested in someone and they are interested in me and want the same outcome then whats the point in games? I want something mature and real. I tend to date people with children. I believe having children in common is important so we understand the same things when it comes to children. I have three myself. My oldest son is 14 and my two youngest are 10 year old twin boys. They are my life. I'm very selective on the type of people I introduce to them and also myself. I like to have fun as much as I like to be laid back. I've got southern roots but also enjoy the city so I'm usually up for anything. I know how to dress up or dress down. With my job I have to dress buisness but in my own time im a blue jeans kinda girl. I'm half girlie, half tomboy. I'm ambitious and goal driven. I enjoy music and listen to everything from dubstep to Hank. I'm strong willed most days. I want to travel and see new places as I get older. I've come a long way in my life and intend to continue to move forward. I've been through some things in my life that make me appreciate the good things and good times. I've had my fair share of heartbreak and pain and also been on the giving side of it. We've all made mistakes and we all have a past. If you dont then you have not lived much. I certainly have learned and evolved from mine. I work full time and also attend college so I stay pretty busy. My free time means alot to me. What I'm looking for is simple. A man with some decency about himself who respects others and himself. A kind heart and a great sense of humor. Country boys are ok as longas the fine line of redneck hasn't been crossed. I have plenty of those in my family already lol. If your not a country boy that's ok too as long as your not a thug. Someone who believes in god. Someone who can make me laugh. Someone who likes to cuddle and show their effection. Someone who doesnt run when things get tough. Someone who is able to open up and grow in a relationship. Someone who knows when to be serious. Someone who I can trust. Someone that can make me feel like there with me even when they are gone. Its nice to always think of someone. Someone who can bring out the best in me, I think we all deserve that. A good honest friendship, a strong relationship that grows into a solid marriage. If your not looking for that kind of resolution to this dateing thing then were already on different pages. I'm tired of short lived moments and letting go easily after the new has worn off and life starts to settle in. Relationships take work to be successful and respect for each other. What I'm NOT looking for is your six pack pics. Sure it's nice to look at and it's always good to take care of yourself but to display it on a dateing sight seems a bit conceided. There are plenty of women that will be greatly impressed by it and want you from your pics. Sex is easy to achieve love is Not. Your going to get old and loose the thigs that make you physically attractive. Better hae someone by your side that loves you for you! I don't get along with arrogant people. They bring out the worse in me. If you do drugs, are a drunk or are a dead beat father your not the kind of person I would be interested in. I like normal happy laid back people. Down to earth with a side of the good kind of crazy. :o)If your interested send me a message. I don't use the meet me options and I don't approach people first. I'm just shy like that. I also believe in emailing to get to know someone and taking things slow. If the conversation is honest and were still interested after meeting then we can see where it goes from there.Hope you all find your happiness. Meet and greet. Then see if we really want to make it a real date.

I like to laugh and make people laugh. love watching movies...specially comedies. I have three beautiful children that I spend most of my time with. Oldest is 14 middle 11 and the baby is 15 months. I recently moved to tn and would like to meet some good people....less drama the better.

Hi! My name is Byrd. I am never married other african woman without kids from Palo Alto, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Trying this online thing since this seems to be the best way to meet people now. I'm more of a go to work and come home type of person. I don't go out much. I would rather stay in. I've pretty much got my sh*ttogether and I would like to meet someone who does too or is actively working on it.

My hobbies are going out with my friends and coworkers to eat, fixing things and renovating furniture or anything. I\'m searching for a good friend that could possibly lead to something long lasting.

I am looking for companionship, if it leads to longterm then so be it. My hobby is Vintage dirt track racing, but I like all kinds of racing. I love going to car shows and I am definetly a chevy girl.. I have a 56 Chevy that I race. I enjoy the outdoors, hanging with my friends and family.I also enjoy quite night's snuggled up on the couch watching a movie or reading a good book. I love to cook and bake. Camping and going to the lake are good times as well...I have to say that I am a pretty simple girl...whose not afraid to get her hands dirty and still likes to dress up for a night out.. I think that the first date should be about getting to know one another. So it could be something as simple as, a walk in the park or drinks by the lake.

Just a fun outgoing girl. I want someone that wants to date and see where it may lead. Maybe go out to dinner, shoot some pool, ride go carts, go to the casino, just sit back and laugh at life. I'm not here to be just your friend, I am at a point in life that the only thing missing is that special someone. If you don't know how to treat a lady, keep looking. I am looking for a gentleman! If you are into games move on. I enjoy hanging out with friends, singing karaoke(not great but do enjoy), i love to laugh and am always up for an adventure. I listen to all types of music. As long as i can relate to it I will listen to it. I'm not a shallow person and believe that beauty is more than skin deep. If you want to know more just ask. Who knows! Something fun I hope!