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Eileen, 35
United States, California, Palo Alto

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I've been on this site for a while now. I've meet some great people and formed a few relationships but to whatever the reasons did not turn into permanency. I don't want to be here. Honestly who does? This isn't my kind of dating but when you know someone, who knows someone that would be great for you hardly ever bennifits you right? I also do not go out alot and have a life and responsibilities I tend to first so this serves as a way to meet new people.I've been single for majority of the past 10 years or so and learned how to be content on my own. I've found happiness within myself, my children and my life. Still missing that piece. I'm passed all the games of dateing. If I'm interested in someone and they are interested in me and want the same outcome then whats the point in games? I want something mature and real. I tend to date people with children. I believe having children in common is important so we understand the same things when it comes to children. I have three myself. My oldest son is 14 and my two youngest are 10 year old twin boys. They are my life. I'm very selective on the type of people I introduce to them and also myself. I like to have fun as much as I like to be laid back. I've got southern roots but also enjoy the city so I'm usually up for anything. I know how to dress up or dress down. With my job I have to dress buisness but in my own time im a blue jeans kinda girl. I'm half girlie, half tomboy. I'm ambitious and goal driven. I enjoy music and listen to everything from dubstep to Hank. I'm strong willed most days. I want to travel and see new places as I get older. I've come a long way in my life and intend to continue to move forward. I've been through some things in my life that make me appreciate the good things and good times. I've had my fair share of heartbreak and pain and also been on the giving side of it. We've all made mistakes and we all have a past. If you dont then you have not lived much. I certainly have learned and evolved from mine. I work full time and also attend college so I stay pretty busy. My free time means alot to me. What I'm looking for is simple. A man with some decency about himself who respects others and himself. A kind heart and a great sense of humor. Country boys are ok as longas the fine line of redneck hasn't been crossed. I have plenty of those in my family already lol. If your not a country boy that's ok too as long as your not a thug. Someone who believes in god. Someone who can make me laugh. Someone who likes to cuddle and show their effection. Someone who doesnt run when things get tough. Someone who is able to open up and grow in a relationship. Someone who knows when to be serious. Someone who I can trust. Someone that can make me feel like there with me even when they are gone. Its nice to always think of someone. Someone who can bring out the best in me, I think we all deserve that. A good honest friendship, a strong relationship that grows into a solid marriage. If your not looking for that kind of resolution to this dateing thing then were already on different pages. I'm tired of short lived moments and letting go easily after the new has worn off and life starts to settle in. Relationships take work to be successful and respect for each other. What I'm NOT looking for is your six pack pics. Sure it's nice to look at and it's always good to take care of yourself but to display it on a dateing sight seems a bit conceided. There are plenty of women that will be greatly impressed by it and want you from your pics. Sex is easy to achieve love is Not. Your going to get old and loose the thigs that make you physically attractive. Better hae someone by your side that loves you for you! I don't get along with arrogant people. They bring out the worse in me. If you do drugs, are a drunk or are a dead beat father your not the kind of person I would be interested in. I like normal happy laid back people. Down to earth with a side of the good kind of crazy. :o)If your interested send me a message. I don't use the meet me options and I don't approach people first. I'm just shy like that. I also believe in *** get to know someone and taking things slow. If the conversation is honest and were still interested after meeting then we can see where it goes from there.Hope you all find your happiness. Meet and greet. Then see if we really want to make it a real date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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