Single Men in Highland, New York State

- Weakness. OK, so the pic is so-so. Although 'some say' I am decent looking guy I take horrible pictures and can't get the right one to save my life! I'm interested in long term rather than short term relationship and prefer to be around women of independent thought and state of mind. I truly appreciate people that are happy, whole and looking to live, love and enjoy life rather than bemoan it. Starting out as friends is fine....I'm tired of serial dating and have been 'off market' for awhile because I'm tired of investing in people with drama and waaay too much baggage. I tend to leave relationships that are over in the past, where they belong, not relive them in ensuing situations. I've seen way to many people base how they behave in current relationships on how they were treated by others in the past. It was always a waste of time and I feel sorry for people that can only keep reacting to the past, not to whom they're with today. I'm definitely not out to play a numbers game and see how many women I can date. I'm a good guy or so women I've dated tell me. I'm definitely not an average Joe and have a wicked sense of humor and enjoy making people laugh and have fun together. Although my humorous side doesn't really come out until I'm comfortable with others. I'm not an angry person or have undercurrents of dissatisfaction running through my life and mind as I see in other guys. And reading these ads by women, it seems honesty is a big issue for other men while I take great pleasure in the simplicity honesty with myself and others brings to my life. I do feel strongly that when I'm in a committed relationship, no one else is involved and energy is focused on us, not out seeking surreptitious situations with other women. Nor am I a small- Not out looking for my long lost mother or one for creating drama - I maintain a drama free zone in my home. I am really very easy going and philosophical about life in general and relationships as well as gentle and masculine at the same time. Even when faced with dilemma, I find humor and reasons to smile. The other option is untenable, really. I really do believe that when two people come together, it's really about being there for the other person and making life better, enjoyable, fun and interesting together and in those situations, I tend to be emotionally generous and think of the pother person's needs and happiness before my own even though I'm a bit hawkish about people that bring strife and conflict into my life unnecessarily. In a world where it seems that people are focused on me, me, me, I tend to look more at how I fit with another and look to their needs rather than just mine.Others describe me in terms I don't necessarily agree with: intellectual and smart about life, bookish and thinking in overly complex ways (OK, they got me on that one). I also know I'm more intuitively intelligent rather than intellectual but no one listens to me! I'm also a bit contrarian, socially and politically aware and until recently I could usually discuss politics with people opposite my leanings (independent, liberal minded) but with politics what it is today, I demur. I am a self-made man, I worked my way up from poverty, against many odds to earn college degrees (3 computer science) and become a senior manager in IT companies. I'm proud of it but I'm not saying it to impress. I also have my own company but I haven't quite connected with the right folks (you know, the ones that want to spend money on me). Of late, I've been working more at the strategic technology area of companies and the Fed. You could say I'm a Zen man.456.7. I seek peace and serenity in my life an shun things contrary to that. I am a calm, laid back and mellow but energetic and believe in constantly achieving goals in life. VERY laid back at home but VERY type A professionally. I've always taken the alternative in life; if there's a well worn path, I'm usually off somewhere else looking for the path few take or blazing my own trail. There are some things ill-defined in who I seek. I'm not into 'types' of women but like all men, appreciate attractive women.-minded women who've not led a sheltered life. I'm definitely NOT your average guy and love to be with women who seek not the normal, kinda boring, Mr. Average. I'm especially appreciative of people that take good care of themselves and are smart, sexy and appreciate sensuality. That said, I never seek perfection or the ultra fit; we all have our faults, inconsistencies and things we wish were different about ourselves and I have a few extra pounds myself but I'm still in pretty good shape and exercise regularly. I am not perfect and I don't seek perfection in others. I don't really look for someone like me; I really like to meet people unlike me, the whole opposites attracting thing. I already know what I think so I'd rather hears other perspectives. Coffee, lunch, a walk

I am an open minded person, have only had a few relationships in my life. It seems to me that you need to go out on dates first, see if you like each other, then decide if you are going to have a relationship. Sometimes even that doesn't work out. But you have to date first. Maybe it works, maybe it doesn't, but you aren't going to figure it out on here. I definitely am going to want to settle down again. Doubt if it will be next week or next month. Maybe its just me because I am not a player, but both my previous marriages started with simply would you like to go out? Having no idea what the future would hold.Wasn't that what made it exciting? I want someone to feel as non awkward as possible. Meet where they want, when they want. I am not in a hurry for anything at this point, if the spark happens, it happens.

-56 chest and 38 waist this is through hard work not eating to much ok.I have true values I dont like F in and blinding as there is no need for it and I like holding hands where ever I am and I will open a door for anyone ,I just wished they would say thank you afterwards LOL. And I use please and thank you everywhere I go.I like holidays in the sun, love Alanya Turkey and one day hope to do europe in my motorhome.What makes me a little bit different than others is my long blonde hair its all my own not a wig in the sun it goes blonder I have it tied back and dont mind it tied back but more at home lose if I am doing the Quo. I have a dog milly who is getting old now but have very good friends who look after her if I on holiday or away for the weekend so not really tied down I live on my own my children are married and have children of their own and their own houses I have 5 grand children.I Dont ask for much out of live but I would just love to be loved for who I am, I dont have much money but I am a kind hearted man and owe nobody nothing everything I own is mine not the banks I have no ties I am divorced and everything is over done sorted and finished with years ago, I have a good live doing what I do and enjoy what I do, I enjoy a drink I dont smoke and have holidays in the sun, I would like to try the Ice hotel in Iceland. so much for holidays in the sun lol.I have done route 66 on a Harley 1200 Duce and one day I hope to go across America on a Harley hair blowing free lol. I just want a special person to share it with me so if you have the sparkle and want to be loved as I do please get in touch with me thank you Alan I think the first date should be in a public place where both people feel easy with each other, may be just out for a drink or out for a meal your the lady you choose where and when,

I think I am a reasonably intelligent genuine guy, no major hang up's or baggage. I try to enjoy life and am interested in many things, music, particulary live blues, reading, arts, travel, walking on the beach, socialising. I enjoy the company of similar people, conversation, laughs etc. I have been separated for around 5 years. Would like to meet like minded females who are looking for dates/social occasions, possibly leading to a relationship. I do not need a mother/cook/nurse or domestic, just a sincere woman who is honest, genuine and fun to be with. What ever my date feels comfortable doing.

Hi! My name is Hlittvz. I am divorced catholic caucasian man with kids from Highland, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

i just want 2 find the right person to be happy with.i am trustworthy honest and caring .like all sorts of music .i hate writing about myself much prefer to meet and have a good old chat go for nice quiet drink somewhere we can talk and get 2 know each other

I like to be active, but maybe I'm not as much as I think I am. Like to play squash or badminton when I get the chance.! ;-) ) and I have a bit of fun playing that. I do like going out, visiting new places and I enjoy people watching, we all seem to be chasing around somewhere.Can't believe how the years have been rolling by and really feel pretty much the same as when I was 30... just a few more aches & pains here and there, especially after beating my son at squash (and he's supposed to be so fit!!).I want to explore the next 50 years (am an optimist) with someone special.... to discuss, debate and to share some future great memories.I live everyday positively, although can have the odd off-day occasionally, usually try to focus on solutions than problems... love loads of music, except not really into Jazz (perhaps that may be a lack of culture!...and lots of others) For an initial date: somewhere relaxing, not too noisy, over a coffee or a drink having a good chat and too see if there is any of that thing called 'chemistry' between us... failing that, then it will have been nice to have met someone new, even if 'a fleeting crossing of paths'.

Hi! My name is Jon. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian man without kids from Highland, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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