BBW Dating in Whiteville, North Carolina

Hi! My name is Yanik. I am never married other african woman without kids from Whiteville, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

My number one passion is to travel. I have been to a few places but there is so much more I would like to explore in this world. I can't get enough of seeing cool things, exploring new cultures and meeting new people.I bleed blue and crap horseshoes (yes sometimes it hurts) I have been the league manager of a fantasy football league for 7 years. I watch A LOT of football.. a lot....I love to laugh. Humor is big in my world. I tend to be sarcastic and a smart ass. If you don't have a picture of you smiling.. it will never work.I love to read.. sometimes I like my books more than I like most people. It is my escape.. I read about 2-3 books a week.I love to dance and tend to do it at any random time and have no problem being stupid and silly with it.Cooking and wine go hand in hand.. I love to cook with wine.. I love to drink wine.. I love to drink wine while cooking with it. I also can crack beers with the best of them...I love music!!! I listen to a wide variety but really can't stand country... at all...***** please read before you message me****** If you are going to just message me Hi.. I will not respond.. you already bore meIf you are going to bash the Colts.. I will not respond.. you are probably a prickIf you can't treat me like a lady.. I will not respond.. you are probably a douchebag.. I will not respond.. I don't need to go down with your sinking ship. This question is stupid.

I enjoy just about anything and very open to new things...life is what we make it. It's to short to be unhappy all the time. God has a plan for me but I'm still trying to figure out what it is . I have 2 kids my daughter is 11 n my son is 10. I work alot, don't have time for games. LNot into your one night stands or booty calls. Beings that I have a daughter I have to set the standards for her. I treat ppl how they treat me. Want respect give respecI'm a full figured woman, if you don't like it don't talk to me!!! I don't have time to act like I'm some skinny chic, especially when I don't want to be or will ever be. Keep it real or keep it movin!!!! If I wanna talk to you I'm message you !!! If you message me and I don't respond there's a good reason why!!!!

The only way to know is to ask. I'm a big beautiful woman. If you can't handle that, leave now :) I have a passion for music, arts, sunsets and nature walks. I'm ready to find someone who wants to share a life with me & my two daughters. They are the reason I wake up and push myself through each day. I am a free thinker. I'm not religious, but I respect everyone's beliefs. I enjoy being happy. I am always the optimist. I will listen to you all day and give you an honest opinion. However, I don't open up easily. I give more than I should. I love Dr. Pepper.I loathe cowboy hats & big buckles. I choose to not date outside my race. I don't like touching extra hairy people. I'm scared of crickets and rotten teeth.I'm friendly with everyone regardless of their appearance. ~love and light

I am a working mom. My children and career have always come first, but I need give myself time too. I am very blunt and honest, but the truth only hurts those who don't want their allusions destroyed so it works well for me. I love to make people laugh and being sarcastic is almost a third language. Past relationships have helped be get to where I am now so I won't make all men bad guys. I am open to questions so please feel free. ;)Tbm hablo español entonces no tengas pena en preguntarme algo. I am really open on this. I think it would depend on the person I am with, we should both enjoy the date. I love to have fun so surprise me, just let me know what to wear!!!!

I'm looking for someone to experience life with, Someone that believes in God and enjoys going to church on occasion, I'm not a Jesus freak but do find that things have fallen into place because of my faith, someone with a good head on their shoulders, someone i can be proud to introduce to my family, someone that will push me to be a better person, Love to travel, so a travel buddy is a must, I want to get my passport and travel internationally but need a travel buddy. I love the beach, lake river, heck even a creek can be fun! That being said, I'm also content staying home and watching movies, grilling out, game night, wii bowling- I dare ya to beat me! Summer is my favorite time of the year, of course football season is second. I've accomplished most of my goals thus far but I'm missing my other half to continue this journey people call "life". Please if you're uptight, stuck in your ways, cheap, which is different than frugal, dont have a retirement plan, don't believe in God,don't have your life together, don't know what you want or simply are looking for a "buddy", then please do not waste either of our time. Disclosure: I'm not perfect by any means but Ive made changes to my life to strive to be better and I have a past but the past is in the past, and prefer it to stay that way. How about a few casual drinks to break the ice, sitting through a long awkward dinner can be nerve racking if we don't click . And if we click then we should do something fun depending on the weather!

I'm not considered your typical female. Maybe that's one of my flaws. Many of the friends I have are male and I tend to get along better with them. I'm into UFC, going to some live shows, art of various types. I'm a variety. I like music of a wide range, anything except country. I'm laid back and easy going. Like to fish and walk at the park. When weather permits, I'd like to go see a car show. Love kids but have none. Have 4 dogs, a bearded dragon and 2 albino frogs. I have 3 tats, and 5 piercings. Want more work done. I want what everyone wants, to be happy. Someone who can be my friend first, then see where things go. This is why I say "other relationship". I want to get to know someone and see if we are compatable enough to take it to another level. Hopefully, they could also become my partner. Someone I can learn from who could possibly also learn from me. If nothing more than a friend is gained, I'm still the richer. I'm tired of being hurt and don't play games. I don't need a man in my life, but want someone who wants to be with me for me and what I am. I want to be able to give the same to them. I'm used to being alone, and do quite well by myself. However, I'd love to find someone to share life with. If you think you might like what you read and see, shoot me a line... UPDATE: Ok guys, I'm NOT LOOKING for an sex or intimate encounters and it says so on my profile. DO NOT add me to your "meet" group cuz we're not lookin for the same things! I love to talk about experiences. Kinda a way to get to know someone on a personal level. You can see if you have some compatibility or just click! Maybe while playin pool or darts (which I suck at but love to play) and maybe go for a walk. Compare tats....That is, if you have any.

I love to camp, swim, boat....anything that you do in the summer! Love being with family and friends. I have a 15 yo daughter and a 1 year old son! They are my life. I listen to all kinds of music. I am looking for a friend at first and maybe something will come of that!

If I viewed you, I most likely thought you were attractive enough to take a deeper look, but sometimes I dont have the time to send a not lame message lol So, make sure I don't forget to message you by messaging me ;-)I'm an intelligent, strong, fun, witty, family oriented, animal loving, music loving, drama avoiding woman. There are surely more adjectives, but my thesaurus is down at the moment :-)I have a job, I own a car, I own my own home, and I can take care of myself. I don't need a man, but I want one. I don't want a man to treat me like a princess or a queen, I truly want someone who can treat me as a partner and live by the golden rule.I enjoy singing, watching and playing sports (I have 2 fantasy football leagues and complete brackets for March Madness), and anything done outdoors. That even includes yard work :-D I began going to the gym just for me in March and for the first time in my life, I'm enjoying it!! I find it almost soothing and meditative to put my ear buds and do my thing for an hour or so. As the weather gets nicer, more of my physical activity has come from working in the yard and walking my dog, but just keeping myself moving has been quite enjoyable!! I'm looking for a guy that's fun, down to earth, smart, caring, and with minimal drama. Physically, I usually go for guys that are my size or bigger, but I keep an open mind :) it's a face (eyes and smile mainly) that snags my interest and the personality that reels me in. I've been told I'm not your average woman and I take that as a good thing. If you think what you read is intriguing, drop me a note, I would love to hear from you :-) I leave the first date up to the guy. I will plan later dates if you like, but I like the first date to be the guys domain :-)

Okay, I'm re-writing this for the umpteenth time. I have a really hard time trying to describe myself in something like this to a random and anonymous audience.Short version for profile skimmers: 34, 2 kids (6 and 3 years old), in school, tattoos, funky hair colors, sarcastic sense of humor, fiercely loyal, bad cook.For those that want something more than a few statistics: I don't know why, but I feel like I have to say something about drama. All I see in profiles is "no drama", "NO DRAMA", "hate drama!" Maybe I'm out-of-touch, but I have no earthly idea what this means and it could very well be just some trend everyone's putting in. Who knows? I'll say this: I haven't been dealt a great hand in life. I've had things happen that were bad or downright terrible. I'm not going to blow things up into super emotion fests and cry "POOR ME" all the time because bad things happened. What's the point in that? But I do think we need these bad experiences to appreciate the good ones all the more, and that is what I try to do. I may not be the most positive person in the world, but I do tend to be hopelessly optimistic within reason.Now that I got that weird crap out of the way, I ought to say more about myself, I guess. I love to laugh, I really and truly do. Unless I'm being tickled. In that case, you will never see me move faster or wrestle harder. (LOL) Movies have always been a big thing for me, though I don't like "torture porn" at all. You know, those horror movies that are all about dismemberment. Crime dramas (NCIS, Law&Order, 48 Hours, Bones) are fun. Music is pretty varied for me. I don't enjoy country or screaming metal at all... I think that's it. (I'm a child of the 90's, sue me.)When I do happen to get free time, I'm either writing stories with others, building jewelry out of anything I can find, sketching, or hanging out with my brother and his friends. I don't go out a lot, really just due to finances. (By the way, I am NOT looking for someone to support me. I have way too much pride.) I'm not perfect. I could be healthier and I've been working on it. It's a slow-going process but I'll get there eventually. (There's a wedding I've been invited to and I am determined to look fabulous for it.) I don't really know what else to say. If I tell y'all any more about myself, there'll be nothing to talk about! So, guys, slap on those smiles and shoot me a message if you so wish. This is a mere glimpse. More shall be revealed through coveted conversation!*PS: I use the meetville app on my phone or tablet exclusively. As such, I have no "chat" feature, but I get messages. I will always respond and I will always be honest, whether the interest is there, could be there, or isn't.*PSS: I tend to date within my race. You can call me racist if you want, but you'd be wrong. I have my reasons, not the least of which is that I know what I am and am not attracted to. If you want to make a stink about it, start with the people that date only the wealthy, skinny, or beautiful, then you can punch me. 'Kay?* I'm also terrified of the water and guns. Just a heads-up to all you dashing outdoorsmen. First dates are like interviews (unfortunately) and I feel they should go without "masks" to make ourselves seem appealing. We're supposed to learn more about each other, the real person. I would be up for most ideas for a first date, so long as it's safe until we know each other. (Aka: no driving to the woods where a body can be hidden! Lol)