BBW Dating in Southgate, Michigan

First off let me make myself very clear. I am not here for friends with benefits, a one night stand no strings attached or a casual piece of ass thing. I am not wired that way. I have to have some kind of feeling for the person I am going to sleep with. I have been very single for two years and I am very picky, I know what I want and I am not going to settle for less.....I'm not it. I want a mature man with a good head on his shoulders that knows how to treat a women. A busy guy is okay because I am just as busy in my life with everything going on. I do not want a cheater, a game player, a liar or a con-artist. I do want someone down to earth, with a good personality, a sense of humor and a smile that could melt I am not into playing games or playing the field, I'm getting to old and set in my ways for that shit. The baby mama drama bullshit....is so not my dream and I do not want it in my life.....sorry. I am a mother of three girls that I love to pieces. I love sports. all kinds of music. pool. hunting. shooting bow and guns. spending time with my family. I'm not afraid to get dirty or wet. i don't regret anything in my life and wouldn't take back a second. my past has made me who i am. if u cant take me at my worst... then u do not deserve my best. I would like to find my best friend.....my zing. my favorite quotes are....u r my dream and kiss..kiss ****es. Dinner, dancing, honesty

"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending"

I\'m a very touchy and loving person, who enjoys beauty in everything including relationships. I\'m looking for someone independent, active, and honest to befriend and share life moments with.

Well, I just got back from spending 10 days on Oahu, HI. And absolutely fell in love with the people and the Island. I've been a mellow girl my whole lifPpe, and didn't realize I've always been a Hawaiian girl. Makes me believe in reincarnation... Almost. But now I know where I want to be.I know these are always somewhat lame! How to sell or explain yourself if a paragraph. But I can say, I am a very unique individual.. I know people say that.. but I can only pretend for about an hour to be like everyone else.. I'm a total contradiction! I am 3 or 4 opposing things at once... complicated. But NOT boring! I love to laugh, I'm rather clumsy, I have my blonde moment's where I say the oddest things, but they are always funny! If this was a Friend's episode, I'd be Phoebe. IBut I'm also a bit of a Tomboy - Frog hunting, Paintball and FOOTBALL!! I am not a Seahawks fan, I am a Seahawks Atheletic supporter!! And I like beer - Also a fan of the ka de Vod and some scotch, my Geno and I like Cutty. I think most reality shows are fake, especially The Bachelor and Bachelorette, fake, fake, fake! I have adventures by myself all the time! Just as an example: I went to the gorge ALL by myself! And I met some VERY cool people and had a great time! I am a pirate. 9/19 Talk like a pirate day! I have a flight suit, that I wear for no reason at all! Camping, paintballing, working in the yard, grocery shopping, etc... its really cool! So many pocket's!I love to meet new people and hear their story's. I love music and concert's, (Jason Mraz and Matt Nathanson, maybe Gavin Degraw? Hoping AFI will be back soon!! And I've been kicking meself for missing Tool at the Key Arena a few years back...)and I'm a big fan of the car karaoke!! Course the other driver's probably hate me!I'm super fun! Love to laugh, mostly at myself. People watching for the absurd.. I seem to notice the silliest things that no one else seems to see?? So I could be imagining it??? Unless I am just more magical then everyone else! I'm a really good friend, I try to always bring a gift for the Host or Hostess, and clean up during the party as well as after. I'm amazing at giving advice for everyone else but myself! I can be embarassing.. cause I get a little too enthusiastic.. But I have manner's and know when to be girly too.I'm trying to get into college FB -; So right now, I'm just trying to relax and have no pressure anything.. I got out of a very one sideded relationship, if that's what you could call it? Looking back it was me being way toooo available, for someone I thought the world of. And who was ultimately playing tic-tac-toe, he didn't even call me on my birthday! And even now he has this pull over me.. kind of like an addiction...So I am trying to be healthy and recognize this and cut that cord. I also only date my friend's, (gasp! shudder!), cause I want to be able to talk to any said person's and have them around my other friends and family! And seriously you should only date your friends, cause you know which one of your friends is datable! And which one stays in the "Friend Zone". - Write that down!And if you actually read any of this, I am only looking for a man of faith, I am a proud Christian.And no, I don't want to hang out. Picnic on a Ferry Boat or going to a Seahawks game, Jimmy's on 1st first for breakfast and then after the game a Tatupu dog ( Cheese dog with onions and cream cheese! Kiss's might not be such a good idea though!)Although a picnic at Gasworks park is nice too! At night! And a trip to the Troll!

I want to start putting myself outside of my comfort zone. It is time for me to live life and find happiness. The things that I enjoy are real life crimes stories, comedies, reality tv, the paranormal interests me. I love to hang out and just enjoy the basic everyday things. I am a penny pincher and don't believe you have to pay full price to have a good time, even people watching would be a great date. I want someone who will teach me new things and persuade me to do things I never thought I could/would do. I love all types of music but prefer the 80's and Christian music. Basically I am entering a new chapter and want it to be more interesting then the previous ones. :-)

I am unable to describe exactly what it is I want. If I were able to, if I knew what it was, I'd have gone out and gotten it. I do know it's something I don't currently have. I want to have a good time. Words used to describe me:» Honest» Direct» Loyal» Particular» Intelligent» Candid» Sexual» Witty» Intense» Sexy» Driven» Dedicated» Demanding» Supportive» Opinionated I'm somewhat old fashioned in my views. I believe the man should ask for the first date and determine the specifics. I will say I'd love to improve my pool game and I think going to the movies (with the occassional exception) is overpriced. I don't usually drink beer but love a good vodka and soda water with fresh lime.You should message me.

Hey, thanks for stopping by. I am a very warm, sweet, honest, caring, genuine woman who loves to laugh, is a great listener & communicator, and look for those basic qualities in a man. I put myself out there in a relationship, I am real and expect real back. I don't mean to be blunt, but if you are a grown man my age or older who is not real, or is still into playing games or not sure what he wants yet, etc, it will not work out, so lets not waste each others time. With that said... I am looking for a man that is sweet, kind, smart, funny, cuddly/affectionate, positive & happy, easy-going & laughs easily... you know, a good man that's got flaws here n there that make him just right in my eyes. I'm looking for a partner to spend time with, a best friend to go through life's journey with, someone who enjoys my company as much as I enjoy their's, someone to have fun with. The things I enjoy are listed please check them out and there are plenty more. Also looking for someone who knows how to communicate, is more laid-back, calm & relaxed, not looking for an over-active, muscle/fitness/daredevil type. Caucasian only please, age range of about 33-45, in my local area. I'm not a real big sports fan, but its fine if you are, I am supportive! Good luck in your search! :-) Getting to know each other over dinner someplace quiet so we can talk would be ideal and my first reaction. If you have a better idea, I'm up for it!

I'm probably one of the happiest, out-going people you will ever meet. I love my life. I have a great career, an amazing family including two beautiful daughters, and a tremendous zest for life. I enjoy camping, playing bocce ball, watching football, and playing anything competitive. I don't sit still! I also enjoy dancing, karaoke, seeing live music and hanging out with my family and friends. In a partner I'm looking for someone who enjoys life and has a great sense of self. I'm looking for someone who enjoys camping as that is a big part of my life. Someone who has a job and a great work ethic. Most of all I want someone who wants to be in a fun and mature relationship. A must have is a good sense of humor. Are you ready? I think a fun first date could be having a beer and playing trivia at the local pub. I've never played but it seems like a good setting to get to know someone. What topics do they know, what do you have in common, ect. Wanna join me?

Lets see don't know what to really say i am a shy person at first but when I get to know ya I am very outgoing. I like to do all kinds of things. I've had 3 kids and they are my life but I'm looking for some me time and go out and have a good time. I like all kinds of music. I am pretty much open to anything pretty laid back go with the flow kinda chick. I mainly love to just hang out with friends whether it may be at the bar or at home BBQing. Just looking for someone to have fun with maybe more and please guys be mature don't want no immaturity thanks and not looking for booty calls thanks. I love to karaoke and i live to laugh lol. I just like to have a good time life is too short!! Maybe dinner and a walk to get to know each other or just go have drinks.

Hey!I would describe myself is a true friend, caring, honest, affectionate, understanding and easy going. Looking for someone who is the same and shares the same interests. I can be serious when I need to be, but I love to laugh and usually find humor in everything!I live a busy, but balanced life - I have great friends, family and job. I love day trips and weekend getaways.... I love to travel in general, tropical or exploring big cities....- it's such a great city! I love to cook, but it is not as fun cooking for one!As far as what I am looking for - you know how relaxed and fun it is when you are with your best friend? (Mine is amazing!!)....that's what I want....not looking for someone to complete me....I think my life is pretty great, but more to compliment it!