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Sagittarius · Looking for: Man, 27–37
Hi there! I am a single mother first and foremost, was married for years and still have a close friendship with my ex husband and his sweet girlfriend, for the sake of our kids, that needs to be known right off. I am just now staring externship and am beginning a new career and chapter in my life and would like to share it with the right man. I like all kinds of music, but mostly listen to country. I like to ride quads and am damn good at it.. my next feat will be to ride a motorcycle.. not a street bike but a sexy Harley :) not to brag but usually everything I set out to do I do very well. I can operate heavy machinery and out four wheel most men. I am extremely respectful of everyone and still say sir and ma'am and the country girl in me says y'all all the time. I am not a girlie girl, I don't wear heals and short skirts. I wear jeans and t shirts and like to be comfortable. I am done having children, 2 is enough for me, but I adore kids and would like to meet someone who has kids also, or if not, understands that my children are my priority over all else and appreciates that. I love to laugh and anyone who can make me laugh is an instant friend!! I am not a judgmental woman and I know that everyone has a story and background, but, I will not date anyone who does drugs, is around them, has an extensive criminal history or has been to prison. I wont subject my children or myself to that period. I also only date white men, that does not mean im a racist, it is my preference. I like men that act like men, not sissy boys. I want to know that I am safe when I am with you even though I can and have been able to handle my own, I think a man should always be the protector. I am traditional thinking in a lot of ways but I refuse to be the stay at home mom and housewife again, been there done that and its not for me. I want to contribute to a relationship and honestly, life is waaaaay better when there are two working adults in a household with kids. I want to get married again eventually but want to make sure it's right and not rush into anything. I believe in equality in a relationship and that everything should be a mutual decision. I always give 100% of my feelings and loyalty but I have got my heart broke because of it. Who knows, maybe if I find the right one he'll go with me :) I won't go into too much more because I want there to be things to talk about later :) Here's some of my thoughts about things:A man with good teeth is a handsome man to meYou must have a job and vehicle, I have both.My kids have a dad and he is greatI am not looking for a man to take care of me financiallyYou have to be mature and secure enough to be able to meet my ex if necessary if things get serious.I like all types of men, but if you are way toooo big to even last 5 minutes in bed without having a heart attack.....sorry youre not for me^^that being said, i am a bigger girl but stamina is not a weak point..!! Video games are fun sometimes but they are mostly for children I thinkA strong work ethic and drive for always improving is a great traitOgling other women while out with me is so disrespectfulArrogance is such a turn off, or acting like you are better than othersBasically I'm looking for the same thing that most of us on here are, friendship first and then let's see how it goes.. HAPPY FISHING :) I think a first date should be somewhere open and casual. Somewhere we can have a drink or coffee and talk a bit. I always said that first dates are more like interviews anyway and its somewhat true. Its a nervous situation so I always try to make people feel as comfortable as possible.
