BBW Dating in Plains, Kansas

kik - hillary_99

Hi! My name is Ibateacher. I am widowed other caucasian woman with kids from Liberal, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

Guys that are just lpoking to play games or just a hook-up can move on to the next woman! A Little about me: I am a fun-loving, confident, independent woman who loves to laugh. I am hard working and take pride in my work! I love children and animals. I love to make people laugh and I know how to laugh at myself and make light of crazy situations. I try to find the positive in all aspects of my world, there is way to much negativity. I have been blessed with so many wonderful friends and family. A Little about my perspective mate: He would have a fabulous smile! He would make me laugh until my stomach hurt. He would be romantic and know how to treat a lady!!!! He would not be a Liar or Cheater! He would have integrity and be authentic. He would be willing to be true to his feelings and willing to take risks ...haven't we all been hurt before?! He would look forward to the future and not make his past be his future! He would love to travel! He would have a good career and is not still searching for what he "wants to be when he grows up"! He would be ready to start a life with me and when it got serious build a life with me! He would know how to form a sentence and use punctuation! (sorry not that it has to be perfect, but please if u have not used any punctuation in ALL your profile you need not apply!!!! Just a pet peave with reading so many of these profiles). Basically please have your life together "somewhat"! I know what I am looking for and will not settle! I am ready to meet my "soulmate" are you ready for me?! Would love to meet for lunch, drink, or a cup of coffee! I'm not into long drawn out first dates if the connection isn't there! I feel you know within the first 1/2 hour whether there is something there! Now if there is a second date now that could be a little more interesting ;) !!

I work 6 days a week so dont get mad if i don't respond right away id like find someone to spend time with who honest .funny n nice,love to have fun n do things with. i dont mind them spending time with the guys n they not care i go out with the girls occasionally i am ornery once u get to know me but got to laugh at life n all the stupid stuff people do n say . enjoy respectful .i am simple women want my man to b there for me, i will stand beside u.. i am not a thin, tiny women so if thats what u like dont. knock..lol o n sorry dont expect any one nite hook ups.. if ur not. wanting a serious relationship please do not contact me .im looking for a best friend n my partner im ready to give my heart to a good guy completely. Need have patients n understanding up for decusion.

Hi I am a full-time student and I work I am also a mother. With this I can still find time for fun. I enjoy doing most things if I am with a fun person. I am looking for someone that I can enjoy going out with and having fun if it leads to more than friendship then all the better. I am a happy person with I think a good personality. Anything fun

Enjoy Life, Family & Friends.....Working Out, Sports, Cooking, Grilling out doors, Traveling !!!I Love the smell of Rain!!! A cup of coffee, walk around town, a few Drinks!!Great conversation !!

I'm all about the simple things, the little moments that remind you what life is all about. I love trying new things, meeting new people, new experiences, learning, traveling, experiencing different cultures, making memories, spending time with family and friends, etc. I'm really into (all kinds of) music, and I try to get to as many live shows as I can. My music tastes range from indie rock to rap to country to classical piano to pop to classic rock and blues. I love being outdoors, off-roading, camping. I'm a soccer mom, as well as a band parent (teen cover band, not school band) and I love it. So, a lot of my evenings and weekends are spent at soccer games or music gigs. I have one teen daughter, and being the best parent I can be is by far the most important role in my life. I would love to meet someone like-minded who is looking for the whole package. I'm not necessarily looking to get married, but I'd like to find someone who is actually open to a serious relationship.I appreciate a gentleman. I am kind of a hopeless romantic in that sense. They come in all shapes and sizes, conservatives to tatted-up bikers. I'm more interested in the person you are inside and how we connect. I don't have a "type", physically.Other qualities I appreciate: respectful, family-oriented, down to earth, open, funny, sincere. Most importantly, someone who is honest and genuine. First dates I like to keep simple. I'm open, as long as there's no pressure.

I am the single parent of 3 wonderful sons...17, 18, and 21. I've raised them by myself for the past 16 years. At my age, I do not want more children, but I will, of course, accept and cherish yours :)About me: I am a fulltime college student double majoring in english and creative writing...on track to graduate summe cum laude next spring. I also work in the writing center as a tutor, and on the school's literary journal as managing editor...*..** I probably have more than just a few extra pounds but would not consider myself a bbw....somewhere in between those two. I prefer a man of average body type...with big arms and a good heart... who is good-looking and likes a woman with some extra weight. Someone who is financially stable, committed, honest, hard-working and loyal. Someone who wants a good woman rather than a trophy. And someone who can communicate and accept me when I am in a bad mood as well as when I'm in a good one. I like all kinds of activities and always willing to try something new, within limits :)If you are married or involved with another woman, just looking to play around, then please do not contact me...I've had enough of that already. I won't share a man with anyone. Start as friends and go from there...No games please, I am looking for a real, honest, genuine man...I'm tired of meeting men who want to play games...Be honest, be real ... if we are friends then be a true friend and don't come at me with the fake bs.All that being said, I am open to developing a mature relationship with a sane and sincere man who will treat me the way I deserve to be treated, as I will him :) we can talk first and then decide together

Wow this has been an overwhelming experience these past few weeks. I have a much better understanding what the Bachelorette/Bachelor go through on reality TV, except they get to see 25 men/women in person and then they can weed them out. On, meetville, here there are thousands of women/men very small percentage for the right reason but the majority for the wrong. Sorry I am going to make myself quite clear.What I am NOT looking for is the following:- A man who wants to date several women at the same time- A man who wants to sleep with any woman to boost there ego or put another notch in their belt- A man who wants a one night stand (I have very high standards and morals) Do you?- A man who is abusive (Emotionally, mentally, physically or financially) and controlling- A man who at their age does not have their own set of wheels (though I will hear your story on why you don't)- A man who thinks drinking until they are drunk is fun ( I out grew that in my early 20's)- A man who does not have a jobSo if you meet any the above criteria please move on to a woman who might like these type of characteristics as this woman doesn't want these characteristics. As some lyrics from one of my favorite artists sums up these characteristic quite nicely ....... I will do what I please anything that I want I will breathe I will breathe I won't worry at all you'll pay for your sin you will be sorry my dear all lies all the whys will be crystal clear.What I am looking for is the following:- A man who is kind hearted happy and content with themselves and willing to have a woman share their life together- A man who has or doesn't have kids and looking for a woman who will help function as a family unit. I get sometimes there is drama when families get mixed but willing to work on it as all kids deserve a Mom and Dad even when they are not together- A man who can make me laugh, be there for me and hear me out before judging me-- A man who is proud of what he has become and his accomplishments in life so far- A man who is just as comfortable in shorts and T-shirt as getting dressed for the occassion- A man who is a postive role model to my daughter and I- A man who accept my daughter and I as we come as a pkg dealI want to be the woman when I walk into the room that I make you smile and your eyes sparkle and that you are the man who wants to come home to me every night. I just want you to be you and me to be me and see if we are compatible. One of my favorite says is this one must give a little and take a little. If you don't understand the meaning you should ask me in person.So if I haven't scared you off and you think you fit the critera I set out please message me and we can chat for a few mintues and determine if we want to meet one another to see where things might go. I have still hold some "old fashioned values". It has been proven over and over that the man must pursue the woman. A woman should let a man know that she is interested and see how the man reacts.I wish you all the best on your future endeavors if I am not what you are looking for. Happy fishingStay tuned for update on my profile If it was winter a horse drawn sleigh ride in the country or good snowball fight. Since it's summer something simple as coffee or tea or drink to see where things might go. You would really impress me if we went and got a pedicure together. If I was asking you on the first date I would do everything in my power to find as much as I could about you and figure out the first best date and to make the best first impression that will last in your mind and heart forever.

Simple person, material things are nothing, the things that matter are family, friends, and the one you are with... Just not a material person things are things but feelings are more and life is too short just need to live it and love it. The biggest part of my life are my 2 girls, they mean the world to me and as much as I want to be happy they need tobe just as happy. I spend most of my time being mom who makes things, fixes things that need to be fixed, and of course the nursing mom and mom who is taxi driver, but in all reality that is life and I am ok with it as long as we are all happy... But I do wish to share my fun moments with someone who wants to be apart of our life, and the other big thing is I will never live in the city again after living up here a year now no way city life is just for driving through or just checking out the mall, but no way will I live I the city again or even a large town not for me. Both my parents had 4 words they raised us by family, honor, integrity, and accountability. And that is how I raised my 2 girls also.Well here I am and well I just want to say that yes I am family, and yes I am very independent woman as I was raised to be independent and be your own person as nothing is given to you for nothing, I am very strong willed, I can take a lot but I don't need that kind of drama, or even attitude that I am here for family.I will do what I have to for family no matter what. That is why I don't want to be judged. What I also would like is to have what my parents had together, they loved each as best friends, soul mates, lover, husband and wife, that is what I really want someday. At this point just someone to talk to have a good time with, someone who isn't judgmental, someone who will honor me as a person. I want what everyone else wants is a happily ever after story. But life doesn't always end up like a fairy tail story. But that is ok I hope for happiness no matter what.Remember judging isn't going to get the questions you have answered. If you have a question just ask. Make it simple as having ice cream at your favorite ice cream place and a walk. Anything that we decide to do... Just not a bar or movie... Would rather go to a park and walk around or lake....