BBW Dating in Arthur, Illinois

NIm a mom a sister a friend an aunt... The thing that im not is a wife~girlfriend. Its something Ooooo that i do want. Im not willing to put up with someones lies and selfish ways to be that. I would like to find someone who really wants a relationship. Someone who enjoys being in love. I put my all into a relationship. Sick of the losers which seems to be what i get. I enjoy life and the simple things that it has to offer. I work hard have my own place and car blah blah blah. Just looking for someone real. Dont lie to me and tell me about the man u want to be. Be truthful and tell me about the man that u really are!Ok so I have to add something in. if your looking for someone to date and have no interest in commitment please dont bother. Im not looking for a hook up or a casual date. I want a man who wants to be in love. I dont want to to play dating games. Im not looking for a fwb. Read profiles and contact women who are looking for the same thing as you! Hope that wasnt to ****y.

Hi there...so this is where I lay it all on the line :) OK, I'm still technically married, but no, my ex does not live with me. I have two children, a son and a daughter, 5 years and 2 years, who live with me full time. I'm a nursing director for a home health agency, so I have a very good job that does keep me very busy along with raising my two kids.But I need some fun! I'm a very easy going person...I would love to find the same. I guess I'm not really in a position to get into a serious relationship right away, but I would like to actually find someone that wants to go out to dinner, movie, concerts, etc. I would love to find a guy that wants something above the "casual" level. I want to actually know and care for the person that I'm with. Let's meet and see where things go! Dinner/drinks/sporting events/concert...anywhere where we can chat and just see what happens!

I officially became a Texan 6/18/12.I'm a single mom and my child is my pride and joy. Divorced since the beginning of 2012 after being married for 9.5 yrs and in that relationship for 12yrs. I work a lot, but also like to enjoy my free time...My Motto is Work Hard, Play Hard! I'm in search of someone to talk with, laugh with and spend time with.My daughter is bi-racial and since I have found this can be an issue with some I am putting it out upfront. I Do Not see color and do not limit myself to dating one ethnicity/race over another...I date someone because of who they are and how they make me feel when we are together.I like men who are confident and have a good sense of humor. IF you can make me laugh until my sides hurt that is a HUGE Plus! I am also known to have a sarcastic or smart-ass side (I prefer the term sarcastic!) so beware.I'm looking for an individual who doesn't "need" me (if that makes sense)...one who can financially support themselves, isn't overly possessive/needy and has their own friends. I'm also NOT looking for a long-distance relationship.In a relationship I am looking for someone where we are strong individually, but are even better when we are together...someone who challenges me and makes me want to be a better person, mother and partner!I'm not always good at reaching out to others first (BUT am trying to make a conscious effort to be better at it) so if something in my profile strikes you the right way please don't hesitate to send me a message. Also, if you have any questions please ask. PS ~ IF you're Married or in a Relationship already then PLEASE don't contact me...I Don't Like To Share when it comes to that! Thanks!

Hi there..thanks for checking out my profile. Here are some of the basics about me...I think I have a pretty good sense of humor (life is too short not to spend most of your time laughing) and consider myself an easy going person with most things.I enjoy having friends over and will never pass up the opportunity to cook and entertain (I always get requests for my meatballs). I'm close with my family and have 2 nieces that I adore. In my spare time I like going to the movies (or curling up on the couch with latest Netflix delivery) and checking out all that this city has to offer – museums, restaurants, festivals, etc. As far as going out is concerned, it's all about the people you're with. It totally depends on my mood. It would be nice to meet someone who has a great sense of humor, who knows how to have fun but also knows when it's time to be serious. Someone who tends to be an optimistic person, but is at the same time a realist. It would be nice if he was close with his family. He should have a good head on his shoulders and be an all around nice guy. And please, please be able to have a conversation.PS -- I'm always looking for movie recommendations -- what movie should I have Netflix deliver next?

**I am sorry but I am not into black men just my dating preference**Your imagination is limited by your experience...You want a FWB go find you a woman with zero class because this woman right here has class...thanks:)I am a kind and caring person who is loyal and honest to anyone in my life. I am respectful. I am pretty down to earth. I am genuine and understanding. I am kinda the old fashioned type and I do have values. I have 6 tattoos so if that is a problem im sorry but they're kinda stuck on me lol. I am not here looking for a friend with benefits nor a fling. I want something 100% REAL...I'm hoping to find a good man..someone I can laugh with..and for him to be my best friend..I am a real woman and it takes a real woman to know how to treat a man..I am a plus sized woman (curvy) but it does not make me ugly. I think I am cute :) I am a good woman, a true sweetheart and I am really tired of the games and lies that seem to be out there.I don't tell a man what he wants to hear, I speak from my heart..I am definitely worth getting to know:) Remember this men: a woman loves a million men but a REAL woman loves one man in a million ways..I just want to connect with someone on a real level... I do love nature...fishing...sunsets...sunrises...star gazing...and bonfires....Good luck and thanks for reading my profile.

I have a child which comes first. I don\'t have time for games - life is too short and precious. I like all kinds of music. A good listener and put a smile on my face. Someone to become my lifelong partner and lover.

Im a single mother and I love to spend time with my son, he is my life, even though he is almost grown!!! I am a tall redhead that loves to laugh and kick it with my friends!!! Alot of people are full of it these days and to have a true friend it takes alot and to keep a true friend it takes even more!! Been through alot these last 6 months and now im ready to just chill and find that special man. I love to cook.....I love a clean house.....I believe a woman should take care of herself for her man....toes done, hands manicured....hair whipped....skin so, so soft....smell good, look good...im very independent...dont need a man to take care of me just to be there for me. SO TIRED OF HEARING , I NEED A GOOD WOMAN.........KEEP IT REAL OR KEEP IT MOVING....

I am a social butterfly. I like to hang out with family & friends but at the same time love to stay home and relax. I like going camping. I take as many vacations as I can. (Vegas is one of my favorites). I am looking for someone who is serious and no games.

I love to take long walks in the fall. I like to hear rain falling on a tin roof. I like taking drives without directions! I'm short and a full figured lady, if that's not your thing please don't waste your or mine time. I have 3 wonderful children. I like country and classic rock. I love to read when I have time. I'm looking for a long term relationship. No one night stands. And please don't judge this book by the cover you might miss out on a diamond! I only date white men sorry please don't be offended. A nice place kind of low key where we can talk and get to know each other without other people hearing our conversation. Then maybe a walk!

Can we really get to know each other by reading a little box of 3000 words or less? Today I could write ths profile section and tommorow wonder why I didn't add this aspect or the other. I am sure most people would agrre with me that they hate writing about themselves. So let's talk. I will say this about me...I am loving and happy, faithful and honest, God-fearing. I am looking for someone who can keep me laughing, someone I can share all of my love with. I have one son and he is the center of my world. I am a very family oriented person. I love being outside, watching movies, reading, fishing, spending time with family and friends, and learning new things. Just recently added a dog to our family. Love taking her and my son on walks. Spening time at the park. Just enjoying all the blessing in my life. Surprise me with your creativity!