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Hi there. I'm happy, have a good sense of humor, am emotionally stable, outgoing, optimistic, creative, healthy, and active. I have lots of interests and like to try new things. I enjoy art, architecture, live music, theater, movies, wine, and great food. Cooking on a chilly Sunday afternoon can be as blissful as an early morning walk on an empty beach. I'm generally happiest being outdoors, indulging in simple pleasures that include hiking, bike riding, yoga, running, or exploring new places while traveling. I work in NYC, and being here every day energizes me.-- well...maybe more like slowly lift -- my kayak on top of the car and be out on the water in minutes. I'm comfortable in my own skin and don't fit into any sort of stereotype, thanks to my European heritage and American upbringing. My foundation is centered around home, family and friends, but I'm an explorer at heart. I don't have a laundry list of what I'm looking for (although I do like lists). I'm open minded and can usually tell when I meet someone whether we'll hit it off. That being said, we should share some similarities, including a truthfulness about who we are and what we're looking for. And if you have good taste, intelligence, a positive attitude and adventurous spirit, you're probably someone I'd like to meet. I'd like to take things slowly, getting to know you, and building from there. I am NOT interested in a hook up, so if that's what you're after, or you want just a casual fling, I'm not the one. At this stage, we've all had life experiences and hopefully have a good sense of who we are and what we want. And what I want, quite simply, is someone who complements me and with whom I can share some great times and new memories. If you think that could be you, let's talk. Thanks! A good first date is one where we're able to talk and get to know each other. Probably over drinks somewhere quiet, with music in the background. Dim lights. Not too crowded, and a great vibe.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Madalynn

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am truly a happy person and I would love to meet a special man with whom to share my joy. I am looking for a committed relationship, but hope to find someone who understands that relationships and the trust that goes with them take time. I'm willing to make the investment. I am looking for someone who gets that at this stage of life, wisdom accompanies recognition and acceptance of imperfection. Smiles come easy to me and a sense of humor in a man is essential. I have reached a point in my life where my time is free to dedicate on other pursuits after years as a dedicated, single mom. My daughter is fabulous and in college and I see her whenever I can. I create a busy life for myself, but don't be discouraged! I will reorganize to spend time with the right person. I am a passionate person, about many things. I hope you are too! I love to see live music (especially at outdoor venues), venture out to new places, take in festivals of any kind, stay in with friends by the pool or chiminea, travel to the lake, kayak, dance to country, blues, or just about anything. I work out regularly at a gym, sing in a choir, create unique, healthy and delicious meals and sample wine given any opportunity. I enjoy the outdoors, camping and even fishing. Quiet time by the lake or campfire is pure joy. Beaches are my preference. (Not much of a cold weather gal, but I have been known to read by the fire and work out in the gym to hang with the snow bunnies.) I'm a dog (not a cat) person (sorry I'm allergic). I like to travel but admittedly most of my travels have remained domestic. Hoping to expand those horizons.My friendships are extremely important to me and I am committed to maintaining them.I'm a hard worker and have a career that I thoroughly enjoy and in which I take pride. I like to believe that I make a difference in the world. My free time, however, is the most important time to me. I am an extrovert and people person and love engaging in conversation. I believe that communication is essential to any relationship.I am a strong person, probably a factor of many life challenges. I believe in doing the right thing. I am outspoken and direct.I do not debate politics, but if you can't tolerate a liberal mindset, we will not be a good match.I am looking for a true partner in a man, someone I know will have my back and I his. I have learned to open my heart and am excited about the prospect of someone truly touching it again. Mutual respect and support seem hard to come by at this stage of life and I wonder why that is. I'm willing to keep trying until I find him. Some of the qualities I look for in a man: funny, intelligent, self-confident, kind, appreciative and respectful of women. Above all, he should be a good communicator. I hope for a partner with whom the hours will race because there is so much to learn and understand about each other. I'm not one to pretend to please and do not misrepresent who I am inside and am looking for like qualities in a man. I like an accomplished man but run from arrogance and if you get that, bingo! I have a very down to earth nature.Finally, I am most attracted to men who lead a healthy lifestyle (meaning they take care of their minds and their bodies) and who are "gentlemen" in the old fashioned sense. In spite of my strength, I like to be treated like a "lady." Who doesn't like being made to feel special? Yes, I am a romantic. :-) I am also a realist. I love the written word, write poetry and love a beautiful turn of phrase. I am an open book and if you want to learn more, please say hello. Peace and joy and thanks for stopping by! Casual conversation over lunch or a glass of wine until we know if there is mutual interest and chemistry.

  • Shandi

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hello! I have a good sense of humor and believe in the power of laughter. I am easy going, good natured, and honest. The most important things to me are the relationships that I have with my family and my friends. I have friends for ***years and those kinds of long lasting friendships are priceless. It's the little things that count the most, those things that form the threads of a strong relationship. I enjoy spending time with those I love whether it's a concert in the park, a movie or play, watching tv, walking the dog or simply hanging out. I love the desert heat, enjoy taking walks or hikes, going to the beach, and when I have the time I would like to travel more and explore new places. I am comfortable hanging out at home but also enjoy museums, concerts, and doing things around town. I like to learn new things, have intellectual conversations, and play the occasional practical joke on my family, friends, or co-workers. Importantly, I value honesty and integrity. I have the good fortune to be close to my children who are now adults. They actually like to be around their mom, and we have a lot of fun together as a family. I am confident enough to go to movies or restaurants by myself without feeling self-conscious and I can easily entertain myself with quilting, antique shopping, going to the beach or attending an outdoor fair. I am looking for my partner in life, my lover, my best friend to share every day life with, and make each day an adventure! I'm not a women who "needs" a man but a woman who "wants" one. I am looking for someone that is independent, has a good sense of humor, who is a gentleman, someone to laugh with, have an intelligent conversation with, and we can enjoy spending time together and do all the things that couples do. Do you want your partner in life as your best friend? I do! I hear coffee places are a common place to first meet, which is good. I like coffee! Using a little bit of creativity, though, maybe a place where little or no money needs to be spent, come up with a place in public to meet where we can have a nice time, talk.

  • Tiera

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a single mom with two grown children and another who is close to leaving for college. After years of being a mom and devoting my time to my kids, I am rediscovering myself. I am an accomplished career woman, but maintain a healthy balance between work and free time. I have a high energy level and am at my best when I'm on the go. I love to cook, decorate, shop (what woman doesn't) and enjoy going to the movie, theatre, concerts. I love to travel both domestic and abroad. I work out at the gym ***times a week; running; body pump; tennis. As far as a relationship, I am looking for someone who accepts me for who I am and is not looking to try and change or improve me. Not saying there's room for some minor adjustments. I need a man that can accept the life I have built for myself and my family and not be threatened by a strong, independent, accomplished woman.I will not compromise my standards of what I'm attracted to in a man, however superficial that might sound. I prefer TALL men. I am 5'10" flat footed, and I do like to wear heels. If you don't have a job, don't add me as your favorite. I refuse to financially support anyone other than myself. And around my age please. I have kids of my own and not looking to date someone their age. I have an aging parent and prefer not to date that either. In return you will receive an honest, loyal, hard working, devoted, classy, accomplished woman who enjoys having fun in all aspects of life. The "ideal" first date would include ME not having to plan it! I'm pretty open to doing just about anything. It doesn't have to be extravagant. It's more about doing something that we both enjoy. If we enjoy each others company then where we are or what we are doing isn't the issue. It's about spending time together. That being said, I do like to be spoiled on occasion. A nice dinner, movie, theatre always scores bonus points. Bottom line, I like to have fun! No time for drama. And, no hurt feelings if there is no connection . Sometimes the chemistry is just not there.

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