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Shandi, 55

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About Me

Hello! I have a good sense of humor and believe in the power of laughter. I am easy going, good natured, and honest. The most important things to me are the relationships that I have with my family and my friends. I have friends for ***years and those kinds of long lasting friendships are priceless. It's the little things that count the most, those things that form the threads of a strong relationship. I enjoy spending time with those I love whether it's a concert in the park, a movie or play, watching tv, walking the dog or simply hanging out. I love the desert heat, enjoy taking walks or hikes, going to the beach, and when I have the time I would like to travel more and explore new places. I am comfortable hanging out at home but also enjoy museums, concerts, and doing things around town. I like to learn new things, have intellectual conversations, and play the occasional practical joke on my family, friends, or co-workers. Importantly, I value honesty and integrity. I have the good fortune to be close to my children who are now adults. They actually like to be around their mom, and we have a lot of fun together as a family. I am confident enough to go to movies or restaurants by myself without feeling self-conscious and I can easily entertain myself with quilting, antique shopping, going to the beach or attending an outdoor fair. I am looking for my partner in life, my lover, my best friend to share every day life with, and make each day an adventure! I'm not a women who "needs" a man but a woman who "wants" one. I am looking for someone that is independent, has a good sense of humor, who is a gentleman, someone to laugh with, have an intelligent conversation with, and we can enjoy spending time together and do all the things that couples do. Do you want your partner in life as your best friend? I do! I hear coffee places are a common place to first meet, which is good. I like coffee! Using a little bit of creativity, though, maybe a place where little or no money needs to be spent, come up with a place in public to meet where we can have a nice time, talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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  • Kathryn

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Friends of all ethnicity's are welcome however I only date men within mine.I don't want to sound like every other profile you read so I'll tell a few quick things about me and what I'd like to find in a partner. I have "dating" listed as to what I'm interested in because anything further has to begin with dating, I am a believer in the Heavenly Father God so I would not have any interest in someone that isn't. As for what I'm "looking" for,,,its hard to put into words because so far what I thought I was looking for hasn't worked. I don't care for foul language or crassness. I'm pretty much like everyone else I suppose, just wanting to be cared for and someone I can care for.I'm described as a "diva"??? I am expecting my first grand-child in May and my daughter say's I am not going to be called Grand-ma but "Glamma". Need I say more? My therapy is cooking and I'm good! I'm told my eye's and smile are the first thing someone notices about me. I like dressing up but can do a pair of jeans and boots pretty good as well. Always smell good and want my guy to smell good too. UPDATE: Grand-daughter was born May 1st! A man that is kind, gentle yet strong, loves his family and God, has his priorities in order, God, family, then hopefully me. I've had the diamonds, the big house and fancy cars,,,much prefer flowers and attention. All I want is a genuine man to love me as I love him. I love kissing which these days seems to be a lost art! What happened? So,,,,,,I'm waiting to hear from you. Forgive me if I don't respond immediately, I am not on here very much and I like to think before I respond.Thank you!P.S. I am NOT interested in "naughty" chatting,,,I've heard there are plenty of women on here you can get for that, I'm not one of them. First date will be decided after we "meet"!

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