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Shandi, 55

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Hello! I have a good sense of humor and believe in the power of laughter. I am easy going, good natured, and honest. The most important things to me are the relationships that I have with my family and my friends. I have friends for ***years and those kinds of long lasting friendships are priceless. It's the little things that count the most, those things that form the threads of a strong relationship. I enjoy spending time with those I love whether it's a concert in the park, a movie or play, watching tv, walking the dog or simply hanging out. I love the desert heat, enjoy taking walks or hikes, going to the beach, and when I have the time I would like to travel more and explore new places. I am comfortable hanging out at home but also enjoy museums, concerts, and doing things around town. I like to learn new things, have intellectual conversations, and play the occasional practical joke on my family, friends, or co-workers. Importantly, I value honesty and integrity. I have the good fortune to be close to my children who are now adults. They actually like to be around their mom, and we have a lot of fun together as a family. I am confident enough to go to movies or restaurants by myself without feeling self-conscious and I can easily entertain myself with quilting, antique shopping, going to the beach or attending an outdoor fair. I am looking for my partner in life, my lover, my best friend to share every day life with, and make each day an adventure! I'm not a women who "needs" a man but a woman who "wants" one. I am looking for someone that is independent, has a good sense of humor, who is a gentleman, someone to laugh with, have an intelligent conversation with, and we can enjoy spending time together and do all the things that couples do. Do you want your partner in life as your best friend? I do! I hear coffee places are a common place to first meet, which is good. I like coffee! Using a little bit of creativity, though, maybe a place where little or no money needs to be spent, come up with a place in public to meet where we can have a nice time, talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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  • Karly

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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  • Darline

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hello, I am an active, 50something, educator and mother. I like to ski, walk/run 5ks, volunteer and hang with my friends and family. I am a single mother of 2 boys looking for a man who is not easily described in words. If you are well rounded, (educated, spiritual and keep yourself in good shape), then I may be the girl for you. No games, life is too short and this is our chance to get it right. Everyone has baggage, it's how you carry it that shows character. And if you have a great sense of humor, then we will get along great. Someone who is not too picky, please. I am loyal friend, hard worker, great mother and not bad to look at.... my friends say I am a great catch. Just looking for an honorable guy. Someone who enjoys life and is happy. First dates for me are in public places. Coffee, a walk, a mall. No need to be too intimate if one is simply seeing if there is CHEMISTRY! If there is, then we can proceed. We will decide together.

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