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Danika, 47

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About Me

I do have some grief and loss issues, and I'm looking for someone who can really understand me. And of course I would want to understand you too, and always be there for you. However, I believe that both people in a relationship need to retain some of their own personal friends and interests. BTW - have you ever heard the expression: "Joy shared is joy doubled; Misery shared is misery halved"?I need to be with a somewhat emotional guy, who is not "self absorbed". I have had many guys "in love" with me, but their selfishness precluded them from considering my own personal happiness. Will you talk to me about anything and everything - but without being a narcissist? I believe for a relationship to work, each person must put the other person's best interests first - doing things for the other just to see the joy on their face.However, although all of these qualities would make me care for you deeply as a friend - romance is another issue, isn't it? I am attracted to young looking guys with very little body hair, except on their HEADS! Please forgive me - this seems so shallow - but I cannot be attracted to a bald or balding man - OR to black/African American men - Sorry!! As for me: I am 5'7', about ***lbs, and have long light brown hair, with some gray in it. It would be nice to meet someone with approximately the same amount of money / assets as I have, but that is not the most important thing.And BTW, if you're into casual flings, don't bother replying - I'm not interested in that type of person. (The "S" word applies equally to both genders.) HOWEVER, I do have one terrific sense of humor, and don't act my age much of the time. I use humor to handle reality. I would like to exchange several *** phone calls before meeting you - I'd like to get to know your "inner self" first. Hey, I'm striving to be the most decent person I can be, and I hope you are too. Meet for coffee or a drink, decide if we like each other, and go from there...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gail

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi Guys, I am a busy single mom to my very active boys ages 11 and 15. I love watching them play football, baseball and basketball and I am an active volunteer with their teams. They are with me full time and they are my life. But they are old enough now for me to be able to enjoy some guilt-free ME time.I've been single for 8 years, divorced for 4 and am new to this dating thing - especially the online dating thing. It's like feeling my way around in the dark - will you hold the flashlight for me? I don't know the "rules" if there are any, and I probably would not follow them even if I did. Update: if you have dating "rules", I can only respect them (or not) if I know what they are - that requires communication. I am a BIG fan of communication!My friends tell me I don't know when I am being flirted with. I guess it takes a brick to my head. I just don't like assuming things and then looking foolish. Plus, if one wanted to, one could read something suggestive into just about any conversation. That can be fun - as long as we're on the same page! Humiliating if not!I hate playing the guessing game just TELL ME what's on your mind. That said, I do prefer directness. It CAN be done tactfully, kindly, and with openess and honesty - a must for all my relationships.I am an open book - ask me anything and know that my answers will be completely honest. Not everyone is an open book and that's okay, as long as what you DO put out there is truthful.I can play poker with the best of them but much prefer to lay my cards on the table and think it would be a much nicer world if we all did the same.I wear my heart on my sleeve but am not naive; don't underestimate me ;) I practice living a simple, uncluttered life in the here and now. I would much rather DO things than have things - creating precious memories that last a lifetime. I have learned that the key to happiness and contentment is quite simply - gratitude.Things I like doing... Walking the beach Photography Gardening Home improvements Watching NFL (Steelers Fans need not apply;) Jewelry making Mariners Games Road trips to nowhere Cookouts with family and friends Camping Hiking Reading Writing Things I have not done in a long time but would like to do again... Ski River raft Golf Dance Kiss Bucket List: The above list and... Get a tattoo (update - check! As my boys say, "YOLO!"You must have a sense of humor and not take life or yourself too seriously. I don't care about your weight, profession, income, motorcycles, boats or cars, how many times you work out a week, or all the places you have been (although a Harley trip would be fun! lol!) I do care if you are kind, compassionate, loving, responsible, respectful, respected, emotionally well-adjusted and generally fun to be around. And you gotta love long, passionate kisses that stop time.Thanks for reading...PS You guys are so damn cute holding up your little (and Big!) fishies with those proud looks on your faces. Just precious! ;) I'm not picky.

  • Antonina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    No pic, No Chat... Fair is Fair... *those who cant post their pics public can hide n send in a message, just that easy*... Please dont be adding me to your favs list if you have no intention of communicating with me . I will just end up deleting your add,. .Looking for a Gentlemen, one who knows how to treat a lady like a lady..someone who knows how to be romantic Beauty is not written on your skin, it's written on your heart. I know there are men out there who love a full figured woman,where are you hiding?.lol Ive talked to and met some nice guys, some not so nice, even had the pleasure of telling some where to go and where to get off.I dont put up with BS,games or liars. I have a heart of gold and when I give it ,I give it all in a relationship.I put out what i expect to get back which is.. Love, Respect, honesty, caring , romance and trust.I am looking for someone who returns these and is looking for the same thing.- I like men with meat on their bones,- someone to hug and cuddle with.-Someone who makes my heart flutter and my stomach have butterfles when I look into their eyes.-A romantic-A gentlemen-A non smoker (if possiable)-And no drug users.-So this is me, -I am a young looking 45 yr old -with a great smile,dimples -and blue eyes , -am very outgoing -and have a great sence of humor.-I have a Full time job, -my own car, and love to drive, -I hate spiders,liars and dishonest people,im a lover not a fighter.. .I have travelled some not a whole lot, I was to phillipines in ***was quite the experience.People were very friendly and it was so hot there. i spent 6 weeks ~~first date~~~~, wouldnt call it that , .. maybe coffee(tea) or wine, a drive somewhere to talk and to get to know each other.PS::: I feel the way to know someone is by talking and getting to know the real them on the inside.I'm not one to judge people on looks therefore I dont like it when people judge me on mine.Yes I am a BBW a big beautiful woman.(LOL), Im still a human and have feelings and deserve the right to be loved just like anyone else!!!!!!!

  • Jeanetta

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi there! Thanks for stopping by!) I'm hoping to find a friend, and if I'm really lucky (or you are) more. I'm a one man woman and am looking for a one woman man. I want to take the time to get to know someone and create a true friendship which hopefully leads to a LOT more! I'm not the type of woman who is going to give you a hard time when you want to play poker with your friends. (Actually, can I play too - I'm pretty good!) I'm looking for a lover, a confidant, and a true partner. It's not who you spend Saturday night with, it's who you want to spend Sunday mornings with. Just so you know, I'm not going to marry you so you can stay in the U.S and I'm not going to cash a check for you or send you money because you were robbed in Nigeria and can't get to the US embassy. But, if you'd like to send ME a casier's check or wire money to me well then... ;-) If you're still reading, I'm fun, fun loving, easy going, caring, honest, and sexy. I'm an intelligent, witty, sarcastic woman who loves life, adventures, laughing, and trying new things. There is nothing better than being able to laugh! Life is too short to be unhappy. Oh, and please be gainfully employed! I'm not interested in a man who doesn't have a job, or can barely pay his bills. I won't pay your bills and don't expect you to pay mine. I'm a voracious reader, love my dogs, my daughter, anything that has to do with boats, the water, and outside (except when it's too scorching out there.) I love the mountains, fishing, horseback riding - it's been years since I've done anything in the mountains, or rode a horse, or even fished, but I'd like to do all of that again - at once! Even if it's to say, thanks but no... My feeling is it takes a lot to put yourself out there, the least one can do is respond. I treat people the way I would like to be treated! PLEASE NOTE: No picture - no response - you can see me... it's only fair. No druggies, liars, cheats, players, perpetual children, freaks, WoW fanatics, or men wanting booty calls!!! I guess "no booty calls" isn't clear enough... I HAVE NO INTEREST IN HAVING A "FRIEND WITH BENEFITS." I'm not going to travel for a date.Thanks for reading! Good luck! A first date can be special and wonderful no matter what you do or what happens. It's the 2 of us that count.

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