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Kaliyah
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I am an outgoing, fun, positive, person. Enjoy life, dislike drama, works hard, easy going. I play soccer, I attempt hot yoga, I enjoy family, and some tv shows~My goal is to find a true friend that cares for me just the way I am. I am a bit old to change too many things now. I believe in honesty, being fair and open discussions.
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Aurea
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I am a very honest,respectful, and Sincere Person. I am a Single Mom of 1 daughter. I have raised her on my own since she was 2. She is now 19 years old. I am a very strong individual. I am a person that can get out and get my hands dirty and work hard, and other times, I can slip on a dress and heels and be a lady. I am not a lazy person, and will do what is needed. I have a heart of Gold, willing to help out in anyway. I have to say I am a dare devil, and like to try different things. I am someone who doesn't like playing any games and know where I am going in my life. I am a very mature person that works really hard to get my goals happen in life. I set up challenges for myself to reach. I go to the gym, and I enjoy working out and improving my appearance. I am definitely a family person, and enjoy hanging out with family. I have a positive attitude, Spontaneous, outgoing, and a bouncy personality. I am definitely a lady at all times. I have a daughter that needs a role model, and I am that person for her. I am a very proud person of who my daughter has become in her life.To Me, Someone to be completely honest is the most important aspect in life! I work 1 part time job, and a full time student at Pitt Community College. I am definitely a people person. I wish I had decided to go to school when I got out of high school, but I guess I wasn't too mature back then. LOL I enjoy Oldies, Some rock, and hip hop music. I am someone who has a huge heart for others,and know how to treat people with respect. I am looking for a man that has a great personality, positive attitude, honest, sincere, and someone who is looking for some of the same qualities in life. If you are someone that is only looking for sex, then I am not that person. I am looking for someone who wants to find their soul mate in life. Talking and Spending time getting to know each other. Maybe we could go out to dinner or to a movie. It really doesn't matter, because I am not hard to please at all. The only thing that really matters is knowing if two people have chemistry. No Players Please!!
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Nya
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Crap. How do I sound charming, witty and fascinating? That's an awful lot of work, and I feel fairly certain I could only carry it off for about 23 minutes. I guess I will just be me *** at an interesting place in my life. My husband and I are separating. It's been an ongoing process for a while, but we are legally staying together in order to settle our finances and sell our home. It sucks and is pretty annoying to end a marriage. I wish there was something less painful, like bamboo being shoved under my nails, or being seared with a branding iron. But I never luck out that way.All that aside, from an emotional standpoint, things are changing for us. We are good friends and will always be, but I think our passion and desire for each other have left the building. Nothing says "Hey my marriage is down the toilet" more than being separated and on an online dating site. I'm too young to not have passion in my life, but too old to be an innocent, wide eyed girl who clings on some guys every word. Being single at a time in your life when you weren't really expecting it is like walking along with the sun shining and the birds singing and you step in the cross walk and get ran over by one of those Portlandia Bike enthusiasts. It doesn't kill you, but it hurts like hell. You know you will make it through, but you have to heal.I am established in my career and financially independent. I have a serious job, so in my spare time I really want to cut loose and have fun. I'm kind of sarcastic and quirky ( which is the nice way of saying I'm a smart ass), and I like a wide range of music. I sing with a women's chorus. I am also deeply passionate about animals and serve on the board for a non-profit that advocates for wolves. I have a dry sense of humor and really appreciate intellectual conversations. SMART MEN TURN ME ON. I'm in the process of losing weight, so I am pursuing a healthy lifestyle, eating and exercise wise. I have posted a recent, full length picture. I like to be upfront about my size. I understand that we are all attracted to different things. I'm not a 24 year old model. Never have been one, never will. I hope that at this point in my life the most interesting and memorable thing about me is not how I look. I am shooting for reaching a normal weight as I want to be healthy and active for as long as I can. Right now Im a size ***. Sometimes men don't get sizes...I don't like using cute phrases like "I'm curvy" or "I'm big and beautiful". I'm overweight, not happy about it and trying to change it. If you aren't attracted to larger women, then my pretty face and beautiful lips won't make a difference. And as we are on a "fish" site there are plenty of thinner fish out there if that's what you want!:)In short, I'd like to have fun. I'd like to define "having fun". It doesn't mean having a one night stand or that you should contact me to just hook up. Although I'm not looking for anything really serious...I'm not looking for meaningless sex either. That also does not mean that I want to wait 6 months for you to hold my hand. I like things to happen naturally...there is no specific time or pressure on when that should be. Im not a nun. I like sex, I would like it on a regular basis with the right person. I'm not just wanting to date for the stimulating conversations on world politics!I can't deny that I like to kiss. A lot. So...friendship with tongue? Is that a thing?I love to talk with people, but please note that the only pictures I have or will send are exactly like the ones in my profile! ;)UPDATE: I have been out here for about 6 weeks. I have met some really cool people. I have been contacted by some odd people. I have learned that younger men have either watched American Pie or the Graduate and think that all women over the age of 40 are Cougars. I'm going to be honest. I'm probably not bendy enough or flexible enough to do what you think you want to do with me. Unless you are going to pay for my massage and chiro visits after, its probably not going to happen. Sure, you are super fun to look at, and I would like to touch you. It would be fun. But I doubt we could have the kind of conversations that I like to have. I have a 26 year old daughter...so my gut feeling is the first time you smart mouthed me, I would want to ground you or take away the car keys. But, if you are SUPER smart and realize I am not going to be twisted around like Gumby, go ahead and contact me. ;)UPDATE 2: I have been out here a little over 3 months. There are times that I think meetville stands for "Plenty of Freaks"...but there are just enough, nice normal people that its worthwhile. The thing that I'm most happy with, is that I have been able to make some friends. Not everyone is a love connection, but some people are pretty cool...so cool that you enjoy them for their company and you realize that quality time with someone doesn't have to be a big romance. I think people forget the value of there being no pressure...and just having fun. Im still in the drama of divorce crap...so me finding "the one" probably isn't going to happen for a while. In the mean time, I'd like to meet interesting and fun people. Life is too short to not have fun. So for now, my eyeballs are in tact and I forge ahead... Let's wear berets and smoke those smelly french cigarettes and eat a lot of cheese. OROption 2: Probably a coffee date. Just hanging out, talking and seeing if we are compatible. I'm not that picky about someone's looks, although I do prefer someone who is clean and pulled together. For me, it is all about personality and conversation.