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BilliOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Looking for a long term relationship with a man who I can laugh with, play with, share life events with and eventually have my happily ever after with...easy!Not much of a girly girl, not into bling, I consider myself plain, down to earth, athletic, active and definitely not high maintenance.There is no one activity that I am passionate about - I enjoy the variety. The past few years I've gone skiing, hiking/camping, kayaking, cycling, ATV'ing.My radio is mostly tuned to 104.5. Concerts I've attended the past 2- Would love to see Cold Play and Shine Down (regret not getting tickets.)Living life to the fullest is NOT how I would describe myself...by that I mean I don't need to be entertained or need to go out constantly. I enjoy special planned activities and also enjoy my downtime at home too. Weekend get-a-ways are always FUN!I do enoy cooking a few special recipes that my family requests.I'm looking forward to meeting YOU!!! At first a casual meeting - green tea...ice cream...drink. After that...if everything goes well...we can decide!!
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CrissyOffline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I've been pretty immersed in starting and running a business for the past 6 years. I'm happy to say that it is everything I was hoping for and more, but now it's time to do something besides work all the time. I have a very creative mind and my business is the perfect outlet, it keeps my mind and body active. I can't wait to see where it goes, I have lots of aspirations for moving it forward but it would be so nice to have someone in my life to share my successes.Aside from working on my business, I love to golf, hike, cook and go to small venues to find new music...but I enjoy all of that more with someone by my side. I have a healthy sense of humor; both goofy and witty (bordering on sarcastic at times) and look forward to finding someone to laugh with.I love camping and hiking but I'm definitely a city girl at heart. Enjoy my house in the city and all the fun things that urban life has to offer.I have traveled to many different parts of the world, including studying abroad during college. Experiencing new cultures and places is something I'll never grow out of and I look forward to my next big adventure.I'm not looking for someone to "complete me", I'm done already :) Just looking for someone to enjoy life and share the fun. I think the best first date is something low key that allows easy conversation, perhaps coffee or drinks. Nothing too elaborate or time consuming right at the start, just a way to see if there's a mutual attraction or chemistry. I think getting to know someone online is tricky and nothing beats that face to face interaction to see if you "click".
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NyaOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Crap. How do I sound charming, witty and fascinating? That's an awful lot of work, and I feel fairly certain I could only carry it off for about 23 minutes. I guess I will just be me *** at an interesting place in my life. My husband and I are separating. It's been an ongoing process for a while, but we are legally staying together in order to settle our finances and sell our home. It sucks and is pretty annoying to end a marriage. I wish there was something less painful, like bamboo being shoved under my nails, or being seared with a branding iron. But I never luck out that way.All that aside, from an emotional standpoint, things are changing for us. We are good friends and will always be, but I think our passion and desire for each other have left the building. Nothing says "Hey my marriage is down the toilet" more than being separated and on an online dating site. I'm too young to not have passion in my life, but too old to be an innocent, wide eyed girl who clings on some guys every word. Being single at a time in your life when you weren't really expecting it is like walking along with the sun shining and the birds singing and you step in the cross walk and get ran over by one of those Portlandia Bike enthusiasts. It doesn't kill you, but it hurts like hell. You know you will make it through, but you have to heal.I am established in my career and financially independent. I have a serious job, so in my spare time I really want to cut loose and have fun. I'm kind of sarcastic and quirky ( which is the nice way of saying I'm a smart ass), and I like a wide range of music. I sing with a women's chorus. I am also deeply passionate about animals and serve on the board for a non-profit that advocates for wolves. I have a dry sense of humor and really appreciate intellectual conversations. SMART MEN TURN ME ON. I'm in the process of losing weight, so I am pursuing a healthy lifestyle, eating and exercise wise. I have posted a recent, full length picture. I like to be upfront about my size. I understand that we are all attracted to different things. I'm not a 24 year old model. Never have been one, never will. I hope that at this point in my life the most interesting and memorable thing about me is not how I look. I am shooting for reaching a normal weight as I want to be healthy and active for as long as I can. Right now Im a size ***. Sometimes men don't get sizes...I don't like using cute phrases like "I'm curvy" or "I'm big and beautiful". I'm overweight, not happy about it and trying to change it. If you aren't attracted to larger women, then my pretty face and beautiful lips won't make a difference. And as we are on a "fish" site there are plenty of thinner fish out there if that's what you want!:)In short, I'd like to have fun. I'd like to define "having fun". It doesn't mean having a one night stand or that you should contact me to just hook up. Although I'm not looking for anything really serious...I'm not looking for meaningless sex either. That also does not mean that I want to wait 6 months for you to hold my hand. I like things to happen naturally...there is no specific time or pressure on when that should be. Im not a nun. I like sex, I would like it on a regular basis with the right person. I'm not just wanting to date for the stimulating conversations on world politics!I can't deny that I like to kiss. A lot. So...friendship with tongue? Is that a thing?I love to talk with people, but please note that the only pictures I have or will send are exactly like the ones in my profile! ;)UPDATE: I have been out here for about 6 weeks. I have met some really cool people. I have been contacted by some odd people. I have learned that younger men have either watched American Pie or the Graduate and think that all women over the age of 40 are Cougars. I'm going to be honest. I'm probably not bendy enough or flexible enough to do what you think you want to do with me. Unless you are going to pay for my massage and chiro visits after, its probably not going to happen. Sure, you are super fun to look at, and I would like to touch you. It would be fun. But I doubt we could have the kind of conversations that I like to have. I have a 26 year old daughter...so my gut feeling is the first time you smart mouthed me, I would want to ground you or take away the car keys. But, if you are SUPER smart and realize I am not going to be twisted around like Gumby, go ahead and contact me. ;)UPDATE 2: I have been out here a little over 3 months. There are times that I think meetville stands for "Plenty of Freaks"...but there are just enough, nice normal people that its worthwhile. The thing that I'm most happy with, is that I have been able to make some friends. Not everyone is a love connection, but some people are pretty cool...so cool that you enjoy them for their company and you realize that quality time with someone doesn't have to be a big romance. I think people forget the value of there being no pressure...and just having fun. Im still in the drama of divorce crap...so me finding "the one" probably isn't going to happen for a while. In the mean time, I'd like to meet interesting and fun people. Life is too short to not have fun. So for now, my eyeballs are in tact and I forge ahead... Let's wear berets and smoke those smelly french cigarettes and eat a lot of cheese. OROption 2: Probably a coffee date. Just hanging out, talking and seeing if we are compatible. I'm not that picky about someone's looks, although I do prefer someone who is clean and pulled together. For me, it is all about personality and conversation.