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Aliya
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Family and friends would tell you that they consider me to be Intelligent, Fun to be around, Personable, Classy, Devoted, Compassionate, Considerate of others, Romantic, Passionate, and Witty. Whew! That's a pretty extensive and modest list, huh? ;) Well, let's go with it since I do feel that it truly does depict my character. So why still single you may ask? Career development over the past few years probably got the best of me, as well as a wrong turn or 2 along the way. :) Ok now, let's move on.... I'm searching for my best friend and confidant to share great times as well as the inevitable, not-so-great times. I want yours to be the first voice I hear in the morning and the last voice I hear at the end of the day. Someone with as little baggage as possible, (after all, everybody's got some) would be appreciated. I enjoy the finer things that life has to offer, although its the simple things that make me most happy. You'll see that should you get to know me well enough. I don't fit the high maintenence profile! I'm considered easy going and up for anything, as well as doing nothing at all with the right guy! As we all would probably agree, when the company is right, it's all good!!! I'm a very loving and caring girl so if you're able to show affection and appreciation, I promise that you'll receive that much more in return from me! How great is it when you can just look into each other's eyes and know exactly what they're thinking or know someone so intimately well that you can literally complete each other's sentences? The idea of knowing, that on any given day which may seem extremely challenging, your special someone can keep you grounded and make you feel like nothing is insurmountable - there for you always, as you are in return, providing a comforting love that is indescribable! Always making you feel beautiful, inside and out. Experiencing these feelings in a relationship is absolutely priceless!!!!! While I love a self-confident man, I also admire one who is not afraid to expose his weaknesses. Feeling completely comfortable with your partner is key! With that said, I'm somewhat of a realist and know that this doesn't come along everyday. The 8 essential traits I'm looking for in you include being: HONEST, LOYAL, AMBITIOUS, ATTENTIVE, AFFECTIONATE, PASSIONATE, and HUMOROUS. Oh yes, of course being a REAL CUTIE doesn't hurt either! NO PLAYERS NEED APPLY since the man I'm searching for should be looking to form a committed relationship (once we both determine that we are a match) with an intelligent, confident, sweet girl who appreciates the same qualities in a man. Chemistry is necessary to complete the picture. It's either there or its not. You simply can't force it! I believe love should have no boundaries, and that includes geographical, however if we are states apart, it is unlikely that it will work for me. If it's meant to be, we'll know. Now that you know a bit more about me and what I am looking for in a relationship, are you still interested??? If what you've read appeals to you, and you miss being "The Other Half", but also embrace your independence, we might just be a match.
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Cressida
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Time to get some popcorn or M&Ms, and a bottle of wine! And, FYI: It'll get more than a "Hello, You're Cute" OR "How was your weekend?" to get my attention. And, I'm not into long distance relationships; nor interested if you have a significant gut on you. I"m looking for healthy and attractive, amongst all this. YOU: I'm hoping to find someone that is compassionate about the world around him....someone honest (okay, mostly...but, always when it's important), positive (or tries hard to be; I know, this is a tough life, eh?), sensitive (you know, has a heart, cares about the little things too), intelligent (used wisely and kindly), a good communicator (doesn't go into his man-cave every day; but, I will respect his need for down-time), healthy and fit (normal BMI: body mass index - So, what is yours? Mine is 19.9; If yours is over 25, we are not likely a match), respectful of others' opinions and beliefs, trusting, balanced, has no compulsive behaviors (such as gambling, alcoholism, lying, stealing, smoking anything including weed, or any other drug seeking activity, etc) ...Did I just lose the rest of you? Oh, and has no STDs, including cold sores. I know, STDs is a sore subject. I'm so sorry, But, it's just something I don't want, thank you. We don't talk about it; but, we should! This would include HPV (Warts), HIV/AIDS or HSV (Herpes). The incurables. The rest are mostly curable, so not too worried about the rest. Got all that? If not, there's Google...lol. He would be confident, but not arrogant; a hard worker, but not too much of a workaholic; loving, but not smothering; serious, but has a great sense of humor. Someone trustworthy (you know, does what he says he will do, have my back if I need). Someone that will exude a magical feeling when I hear his voice, or feel his touch, or just think about him. He will be outside the box on occasion, not an average man, nor an average build. He will be in incredible shape for his age, and magnificently adorable to me. His smile will make me melt. His eyes will penetrate to my soul. I want to feel one with him. His personality will sweep me off my feet, make me laugh, make me miss him when I'm gone. So, if you don't show some of your personality in your profile, it'll be hard for anyone to get excited about you....you'd blend in with the rest. He won't be deathly afraid of commitment; and commitment is something that he seeks with the right gal...but, yes, slow is good. He should not be afraid to fall in love or to say "I love you". He would not love his dogs more than me. Better if he has no dogs, lol. (I do love dogs...but, when they are competition, hmm.) Aaaaand, we would not live more than 1 hour away from each other. ** Intermission/potty break!ME: Overall, I am much of what I ask for in a man. I have no STDs, and am generally healthy and fit (can always improve, yes), with no psychiatric disorders (not bipolar, etc). I'm mostly bubbly, with a good sense of humor (usually people laughing at me), but serious about life in general. I'm a giver; but, hope to balance that out better. I am honest and loyal. I'm not a fighter; I'm a pleaser. Due to this, I've had short relationships in the past, being attracted to the wrong men...me being a codependent. But, I hope that I've passed that phase...though still working on it. I have lots of compassion, and integrity. I hope to explore more of who I am through my partner. I hope for more peace in this world, and in our relationships with others. I am pretty clean cut, but, at home, I'm willing to be your naughty girl. I have no kids or pets at home, or anywhere else. Activities: You can check out my starter list above; open to new ones...as long as my life is not in serious jeopardy. But, beneath all this, I'm simply wanting to share a life together, harmoniously, with good positive energy, and to be in love, and love life, having the trust, compassion, respect and loyalty between us. We have a short life left...Let's make the best of it.YOUR PROFILE: If your profile is lacking of who you really are, i.e. goals, your personality, recent quality pics of you smiling, then I'm not likely to respond. Pics of you, that you took, while in the bathroom? Ummmm...I think you can do better than that! And, then, if you just say "How's it going?" after a bare profile, "YIKES" is all I can say. If you respond to some of my profile, i.e. state how you are or are not a match, or say something of substance, then I know you are more serious, and thus more likely to evoke a response. Yep, I'm looking for a needle in a haystack...but, it's my life, right? Also, it would be nice if you could date your posted pics. And, for those that say it's hard to describe yourself, there is no one that knows you better than you, right? And, really, I'm much more lighthearted than this profile makes me sound. So, now that you likely drank 1.5 glasses of wine paired with your m&ms while reading my profile, I bid you Adieu, and Best Wishes. Something casual, calming, and gentle on the senses....something short and sweet.
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Velma
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I've been accused of being picky, maybe too picky. I've "settled" in the past. Learned as I've matured that it is no way to live. In order to be truly happy, you must take care of yourself first and let everything else fall into place. Don't leave your happiness in someone else's hands. With that said........ I'm an all-American sweetheart who wears her heart on her sleeve. Mom of 3 girls (26, 24, & ***divorced for 8 years now. I have a super soft spot for babies and animals (and baby animals!) I am currently enrolled in school part time to enhance my education as a nurse (working on my Bachelor's degree). It is such an amazing feeling when you know you've made a difference in someone's life, and I get that nearly every day in my profession. Although I'm very laid back and easy going, I'm on the go much of the time. I live by my golden rule to not sweat the small stuff. In the scheme of things, it's all small stuff!So if you've gotten through thus far (and actually read profiles, not just look at pictures lol), I will say that it isn't often that I will initiate contact here. Something to do with the male species needing to do the hunting and not being the hunted! So if you see that I've viewed you, but didn't ***, it might just be that I am interested, but waiting for you to take the lead. Then again, I just might not be interested. ;-pAs far as my interests and hobbies are concerned, I love music. I favor rock (Alternative and Classic), but known to enjoy Jazz, Blues, Classical - no Rap and no Country. Enjoy being outdoors; Fairs and festivals, antique shopping, wine tastings, amusement parks, live music in small venues, and playing golf are all activities I have fun doing. Perhaps you can introduce me to some of your favorite ways to have fun?Some of my preferences......white collar over blue collar; dark hair over light hair;; tall over short; broad shoulders over thin/slight build. None of these are set in stone, but a great smile is a must!If you are going to contact me, please have something more to say than "Hi. How are you?". More likely than not you will not ellicit a response with that type of introduction ***'ll have to put in a bit more thought and effort. First date or first meeting? First meeting must be short, sweet, and simple....make sure the pics don't lie! Let's see if there is chemistry and attraction. Without either, there's just no sense in continuing. Don't you agree?