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Aliya, 46

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Family and friends would tell you that they consider me to be Intelligent, Fun to be around, Personable, Classy, Devoted, Compassionate, Considerate of others, Romantic, Passionate, and Witty. Whew! That's a pretty extensive and modest list, huh? ;) Well, let's go with it since I do feel that it truly does depict my character. So why still single you may ask? Career development over the past few years probably got the best of me, as well as a wrong turn or 2 along the way. :) Ok now, let's move on.... I'm searching for my best friend and confidant to share great times as well as the inevitable, not-so-great times. I want yours to be the first voice I hear in the morning and the last voice I hear at the end of the day. Someone with as little baggage as possible, (after all, everybody's got some) would be appreciated. I enjoy the finer things that life has to offer, although its the simple things that make me most happy. You'll see that should you get to know me well enough. I don't fit the high maintenence profile! I'm considered easy going and up for anything, as well as doing nothing at all with the right guy! As we all would probably agree, when the company is right, it's all good!!! I'm a very loving and caring girl so if you're able to show affection and appreciation, I promise that you'll receive that much more in return from me! How great is it when you can just look into each other's eyes and know exactly what they're thinking or know someone so intimately well that you can literally complete each other's sentences? The idea of knowing, that on any given day which may seem extremely challenging, your special someone can keep you grounded and make you feel like nothing is insurmountable - there for you always, as you are in return, providing a comforting love that is indescribable! Always making you feel beautiful, inside and out. Experiencing these feelings in a relationship is absolutely priceless!!!!! While I love a self-confident man, I also admire one who is not afraid to expose his weaknesses. Feeling completely comfortable with your partner is key! With that said, I'm somewhat of a realist and know that this doesn't come along everyday. The 8 essential traits I'm looking for in you include being: HONEST, LOYAL, AMBITIOUS, ATTENTIVE, AFFECTIONATE, PASSIONATE, and HUMOROUS. Oh yes, of course being a REAL CUTIE doesn't hurt either! NO PLAYERS NEED APPLY since the man I'm searching for should be looking to form a committed relationship (once we both determine that we are a match) with an intelligent, confident, sweet girl who appreciates the same qualities in a man. Chemistry is necessary to complete the picture. It's either there or its not. You simply can't force it! I believe love should have no boundaries, and that includes geographical, however if we are states apart, it is unlikely that it will work for me. If it's meant to be, we'll know. Now that you know a bit more about me and what I am looking for in a relationship, are you still interested??? If what you've read appeals to you, and you miss being "The Other Half", but also embrace your independence, we might just be a match.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I grew up here and now I feel lucky to be raising my kids here.Ok, enough sentimentality. Hobbies - what are hobbies? I'm a single mother of three little kids. I don't go kayaking or antiquing in my free time. Usually I take a nap if they are all gone, or a walk, or maybe mop and wax my wood floors. If I'm really feeling wild I might take an extra long, hot, shower. Sounds boring...well quiet is wonderful and intoxicating...no, quiet with a bottle of wine is wonderful and intoxicating. I love to cook...but have very unsophisticated, extremely particular palates to please at the moment.....and yes, ketchup counts as a vegetable. I am satisfied with a steady diet of lean cuisines (I want to say "government cheese"It doesn't take a lot to make me happy. I'm down to one parent, and sadly she is battling a late stage cancer. So spending a great afternoon with her is a gift. So is a day without kids fighting. A sunny day on my tractor is a wonderful stress reliever, as is gardening, strumming out a tune on my guitar, or running in to someone at Price Chopper who knew my dad and has something funny or interesting to say about him.I can be intense but don't take much too seriously. I happen to believe the movie "; is one of the great comedic masterpieces of our time. I get chills when I hear bagpipes - definitely identify more with being Irish than my other half which is Italian. Miss going to SPAC, the horse races, skiing, the ocean, and even catching a cool movie at the Spectrum or a show at Proctors, The Egg... love going to church but hardly ever get there...always feel better as I walk out then the hour before when I walked in. Ultimately am seeking someone more like me than different. In my experience opposites attract but don't last. Someone who believes in God is important to me, although beyond that, faith is personal and I don't judge. My free time is not unlimited, and so proximity is important. Probably more that 40 minutes away will be too far. I try to take good care of myself without being self centered, so someone who also has pride in their appearance would matter to me. My lifestyle is largely based around my children and will be for several years to come, so a man who is still in this chapter will be my best fit...and am a good sport about the rest...but I believe finding the right person to be with will allow for the fun stuff that I just don't care to do by myself! And remember...winking is for wimps (oh wait, that's a different site), and I can't respond to a gray silhouette...ok I could, but I won't. First of all, its totally not fair that you have to pay...so something free is preferable, and outside is even better. A walk with coffees or some waters would be a great first date for me. There is something about talking and moving at the same time that kind of authenticates people, and that's the layer I want to see by the end of the walk. After that we should know if dinner and drinks are a good idea.

  • Jayna

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I\'m competitive and overachieve on most everything I do. I would rather know that I tried than not trying at all. Looking for a life partner, who can make our relationships diverse and not boring.

  • Florida

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love exploring the outdoors - camping, hiking, skiing, cycling, running, being at, on or near the lake, road trips, barbecuing and being out with friends. I learned to ski in dry powdery snow with clean air and wide-open country and somehow took all of that for granted. I also enjoy my new perennial garden and am working on being a better cook. I feel blessed to have the friends that I do and my life has been enriched by them. My best friend would say that I am sassy, have spunk and courage to try things "outside the box". I enjoy seeing new places, trying new things and don't hesitate being out of my comfort zone in order to gain new experiences.I have been single for 12 years since divorce, and can finally say that after much research (first dates and a couple longer-term relationships), I have much more clarity about what I want. I also know and can say with some confidence that I make a good partner (a couple of trial runs and a great counselor does wonders). I am ready to share the rest of my life with the man who is hopefully in that same place in life. He is one who will enjoy the debrief with me at night, and will be my best friend and lover. The emotionally available someone who comes to the table ready to be a partner -that is the key piece.My lovely daughters are now grown, and while I miss the little girl sweetness in them, I like that they are older and can relate to me as adults. I have 2 best friends in them. That said, I am not looking to replay those years of my life and would prefer a mate with children who are older, if not grown as well. And if that's the case then we'll have more in common, right? No particular preference.....maybe coffee or a glass of wine.

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