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Velma, 50
United States, Georgia, Toccoa

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About Me

I've been accused of being picky, maybe too picky. I've "settled" in the past. Learned as I've matured that it is no way to live. In order to be truly happy, you must take care of yourself first and let everything else fall into place. Don't leave your happiness in someone else's hands. With that said........ I'm an all-American sweetheart who wears her heart on her sleeve. Mom of 3 girls (26, 24, & ***divorced for 8 years now. I have a super soft spot for babies and animals (and baby animals!) I am currently enrolled in school part time to enhance my education as a nurse (working on my Bachelor's degree). It is such an amazing feeling when you know you've made a difference in someone's life, and I get that nearly every day in my profession. Although I'm very laid back and easy going, I'm on the go much of the time. I live by my golden rule to not sweat the small stuff. In the scheme of things, it's all small stuff!So if you've gotten through thus far (and actually read profiles, not just look at pictures lol), I will say that it isn't often that I will initiate contact here. Something to do with the male species needing to do the hunting and not being the hunted! So if you see that I've viewed you, but didn't ***, it might just be that I am interested, but waiting for you to take the lead. Then again, I just might not be interested. ;-pAs far as my interests and hobbies are concerned, I love music. I favor rock (Alternative and Classic), but known to enjoy Jazz, Blues, Classical - no Rap and no Country. Enjoy being outdoors; Fairs and festivals, antique shopping, wine tastings, amusement parks, live music in small venues, and playing golf are all activities I have fun doing. Perhaps you can introduce me to some of your favorite ways to have fun?Some of my preferences......white collar over blue collar; dark hair over light hair;; tall over short; broad shoulders over thin/slight build. None of these are set in stone, but a great smile is a must!If you are going to contact me, please have something more to say than "Hi. How are you?". More likely than not you will not ellicit a response with that type of introduction ***'ll have to put in a bit more thought and effort. First date or first meeting? First meeting must be short, sweet, and simple....make sure the pics don't lie! Let's see if there is chemistry and attraction. Without either, there's just no sense in continuing. Don't you agree?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Chinese French South American
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  • Jordynn from Toccoa | Woman | 49 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    can I do this later?I guess it's time to write something.Every beauty needs a beast.What's up with men who say they are 5'10" but they more like 5'8"?I'm 5'5" and I like to wear heels so I really don't want to be looking down on your head especially if it's bald.I prefer closer to 6 feet.I work hard at staying fit so if you have a beer belly please don't bother messaging me.I don't mean to be rude but physical attraction is Important in a relationship.Besides living fit I love live music, rock blues....I enjoy riding my motorcycle. I'm honest hard-working, value my friends and family. If we do exchange numbers please don't ask me for pics of myself or try sending me pictures of your private parts. I value myself and the relationship I hope to have some day. I wouldn't call it a date, more like a casual meet for coffee.

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  • Suzann from Toccoa | Woman | 47 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    If I could live aywhere it would be in a cabin located just deep enough in the woods so that only the ones I want to find me could.The things I'm most grateful to have in my life are my children, I have three. Two that are grown, one y8r old wonderful suprise & a beautiful grandchild.The keys to a lasting relationship in my opinion are honesty, trust & love. I believe you need these in any relationship....Family, Friend or Love. You need to know that person is there for you through thick & thin, And that person needs to feel that from you as well. I think you also need to be able to give each other space...Not too much !LOL Just enough that when you do see each other it's exciting & magical.I was married to my husband for almost 15 yrs. (He's deceased) We did alot of things together, but we also did our own thing(nothing bad). Don't get me wrong definetly not a perfect marriage. "That would be boring!" Also we never left mad at each other, Always agreed that we disagreed & told one another "I Love You."(That's the last thing we said to each other) Just a word of advice... When you do find that special someone always let them know how you feel! Good Luck on your journey of life, love & friendship****************************************************************************************************************************UPDATE : ***My profile has actually been hidden cause I had met someone and yes it was on here...We became best friends, then actually met in person fell in love & got engaged .....I still used the same values that I had ....He called me his (Angel) I told him he completed me....and he did, but God must have other plans ......for Dwayne was called to Heaven...He witnessed a wreck, stopped to see if he could help anyone....made it to the 1st car they were ok .so went to check on other vehicle..a pickup hydroplaned & hit him....They called him a" Good Samaritan "......To be honest he was a great man in every way .......I guess I wanted to share this with everyone on here to say "love" can happen again .......and yes the last thing we had said to each other was.... "I love you!" Again when u find that special one make sure u let them know how much u care.....Be safe & good luck!

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  • Aveline from Toccoa | Woman | 50 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am looking for the man who likes to do things with me.........all these things and more. I want to experience life with my best friend. I want to do nice things for you simply because I want to and I want to continue to enjoy life together with my best friend and partner. I am about as honest and open a person as you will ever meet. You will never wonder how I feel or what I think because you will know without words even. I guess I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm ok with that. I'm casual and comfortable in my own skin. I'm open to all types of people as long as they are respectful. I think we all can learn from dissenting opinions. Differences are nice and often enlightening. I am intelligent and value that in others.There is not one absolute set of characteristics my ideal partner would have but I do respect and admire the following: Row your own boat Laugh at yourself and the world..it's all funny Respect yourself Have opinions and express them Challenge yourself and others to be better. Love and let yourself be lovedI'm a mucher better conversationalist than author.Please note, if you have no profile pic, plan to send one through meetville. Really could be anything fun. What do you wanna do?Maybe go get a Reuben? They are my favorite.

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