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Velma, 50

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About Me

I've been accused of being picky, maybe too picky. I've "settled" in the past. Learned as I've matured that it is no way to live. In order to be truly happy, you must take care of yourself first and let everything else fall into place. Don't leave your happiness in someone else's hands. With that said........ I'm an all-American sweetheart who wears her heart on her sleeve. Mom of 3 girls (26, 24, & ***divorced for 8 years now. I have a super soft spot for babies and animals (and baby animals!) I am currently enrolled in school part time to enhance my education as a nurse (working on my Bachelor's degree). It is such an amazing feeling when you know you've made a difference in someone's life, and I get that nearly every day in my profession. Although I'm very laid back and easy going, I'm on the go much of the time. I live by my golden rule to not sweat the small stuff. In the scheme of things, it's all small stuff!So if you've gotten through thus far (and actually read profiles, not just look at pictures lol), I will say that it isn't often that I will initiate contact here. Something to do with the male species needing to do the hunting and not being the hunted! So if you see that I've viewed you, but didn't ***, it might just be that I am interested, but waiting for you to take the lead. Then again, I just might not be interested. ;-pAs far as my interests and hobbies are concerned, I love music. I favor rock (Alternative and Classic), but known to enjoy Jazz, Blues, Classical - no Rap and no Country. Enjoy being outdoors; Fairs and festivals, antique shopping, wine tastings, amusement parks, live music in small venues, and playing golf are all activities I have fun doing. Perhaps you can introduce me to some of your favorite ways to have fun?Some of my preferences......white collar over blue collar; dark hair over light hair;; tall over short; broad shoulders over thin/slight build. None of these are set in stone, but a great smile is a must!If you are going to contact me, please have something more to say than "Hi. How are you?". More likely than not you will not ellicit a response with that type of introduction ***'ll have to put in a bit more thought and effort. First date or first meeting? First meeting must be short, sweet, and simple....make sure the pics don't lie! Let's see if there is chemistry and attraction. Without either, there's just no sense in continuing. Don't you agree?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Timothy

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Seeking someone I can connect with on a spiritual, emotional, and intellectual level. I gravitate towards those who are humorous and witty, as I also enjoy participating in. I would prefer to meet someone who has strong convictions, interests, and passions about life, politics, faith, ect. as I do. I enjoy learning about various subjects such as health, nutrition, finances, and our world economy. One of my desires is to travel to different countries and cultures. I have much compassion for animals, children, and the elderly. I would love to adopt an older rescue dog and participate in some capacity in the lives of unfortunate children, whether here in the U.S. or abroad.I'm NOT interested in bars/clubs, rock bands, camping and winter sports. I'm not a tv person but do like going to the movies. I enjoy musicals, plays, adventure, zip lining, jet skiing, roller coasters, and good food with wine. I love, love, love water and beaches, especially the turquious waters in the Carribbean. I appreciate the beauty of our earth, mountains, ect.In less than five years I will be retired and will move to my property down south. There are a lot of good men on this site. But I'm seeking specifically someone who shares my same values and who would be a good fit. Physical attraction and chemistry are important, but it's only one part of the equation. God bless you in your search. Coffee

  • Romona

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi, thank you for stopping by. I am friendly and funny, and love to laugh.. but who doesn't? lolI treat people the way I like to be treated. I am not into games. I don't smoke, and prefer that you don't either. I love to read. I like all kinds of music except for rap. I also love board games, though don't play them as much as I would like to.I love being with friends and family, but also enjoy time alone with the one I am with. Always up for good bar-b-q now that the warmer weather is here .. well almost here ...I would love to meet someone kind, caring, unselfish and down to earth. You must also have strong family values. Single parent, have full custody, but my child is older now, and doesn't need Mom all the time anymore .. I would like to meet a good guy who is honest and sincere, who likes to laugh and joke around.Thank you for reading my profile, and good luck in your journeys to finding your other half. I feel that on a first date meeting for a bite to eat or a glass of wine would be great.Would love to sit and talk for a while and hopefully there will be some chemistry while just getting to know each other.

  • Eglantine

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a caring, fun-loving, outgoing, ambitious. Honesty, communication are 2 important things ...would like to find a fun loving man to spend time with in the journey of life ......Outdoors I prefer a meet and greet and if all goes well then a date and so on .....

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