Total users: 56,790,340 Online users: 204,717
Shantay, 49
United States, Georgia, Tifton

Online

About Me

The Resume:My hobbies: home improvement, writing fiction, animals (dog lover, but without pets at the moment), reading, walking, going to movies, live theatre(my degree is in set design for film and TV), concerts and listening to music at home. New technology (it’s part of my job, but it can be fun), science, computers, my iPhone, Starbucks, dark chocolate (the good kind).My goals/aspirations: writing a book, researching my family history, travel-(I do like cats too, and horses) Finish some projects on my house and make it my sanctuary. Update: new floors are in the bedroom, I did some of it myself and all the painting. Not sure if I wouldn’t step on any toes, but I would like to try ballroom or couples dancing. What makes me unique: I'm sure my friends have their own opinions, but I am outgoing and confident and shy. I like being around friends and family, I am also comfortable being by myself. In my job I work with a lot of guys, techs and engineers and I am comfortable in that environment, but I also like the theatre, art, literature, I can use power tools and grew up with snakes and lizards. Music is very personal to me and taps into my emotional and fun loving side. Yeah for iTunes!!!Turn offs:Use of profanity when it isn't needed, Profiles without pictures, pictures taken in the mirror, pictures wearing only sunglasses (I have a thing for eyes) and lastly pictures that contain dead animals/fish. The Novel (in progress):Since being divorced I have decided not to settle on finding just someone, I want THE ONE. While I am a hopeless romantic, I am a realist and I understand relationships take effort. That doesn’t mean I can't write my own ending, I want someone who I can look at across a crowded room and smile knowing there is some amazing secret between us. Intimacy should start with the spoken word, an innocent touch and see where it leads from there. As I mentioned above, I work with a lot of guys, techs and engineers and I am comfortable in that environment, but I believe my salvation is my creative and intro-reflective side that has flourished over the last few years since the passing of my mother and the end of my marriage. I see the world in a completely new light and intend to make the most of this new found motivation. I can’t change my past, but I am in complete control of my destiny, conscious of the journey along the way. I would like to find someone who shares some of my interests, and even if there are some he is not avid about part taking in, he decides it makes him happy because I am happy. At the same time, I would like that special someone to expect the same of me. Letting someone 'in' to my life and I into theirs is hugely important and needs to be achieved without fear of judgment. This includes embracing each other's family as their own, socializing with mutual friends and being open to new ones. I like being around friends and family, but I'm not afraid to be alone. I am not opposed to a man who will open doors for me or who will offer their hand when I get out of a car (in fact I like that a lot), but I can take care of myself, I am far from helpless. But that doesn't mean I don't need a strong shoulder to cry on occasionally. I don’t consider myself a dare-devil or sports junky, but I don’t keep myself locked indoors all the time either. (Unless I’m writing then I can’t help it). I do know enough about sports to follow along and have ventured out to see a hockey or baseball game. You move a little more, there’s a bounce in your step and a smile on your face. Music becomes the sound track to the life you want to lead. It can reveal a few secrets without saying anything. (Are you mysterious, fun, multi-dimensional, flirty, romantic, sensual, vulnerable, a closet rock star, assertive, poetic, young at heart, emotionally available, rebellious, all of the above.) If you can relate to any or all these concepts then introduce yourself. I know the difference between a flat head and Philips screw driver, I’ve cut more than a few sheets of dry wall, have power tools of my own and don’t check the mirror every five minutes to see if I need lipstick. I’ll let you decide, I know who I am and *the one* needs to know who they are while being open to change, because everything changes. ~~~~~"One person can make a difference, and everyone should try." - JFK.'“Whatever you do (in life) will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it.” Mahatma Gandhi First Date What would I like to do on my first date: It would probably depend on what transpired leading up to the first date. I think the best activity would be something fun with the opportunity to get to know my first date better, some place that also allow us the opportunity to talk, ask questions and listen to what each other may have to say. And please have a picture on your profile, my main profile picture is current ***.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Cooking Playing Cards Chinese Mexican Middle Eastern
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Cruz from Tifton | Woman | 47 years old | Cancer
    Cruz

    Online

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm the mom of two adult boys and am now enjoying my free time. Love to explore new places, new restaurants and would love to travel more. Meet over coffee

    Chat
  • Georgianne from Tifton | Woman | 49 years old | Gemini
    Georgianne

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi, I am divorced with one child still home. She is 17 and very independent. I love animals. I have two dogs. I am an educator. I enjoy the outdoors, play in the yard and have a garden. I used to play a lot of softball but not much any more. I am working on getting healthy, would love to find someone who would work along side me in my efforts to exercise more and getting healthy. Country music is what I listen to most, but I enjoy a variety of music. I love to dance, but hardly ever do that any more. I love a good wine, enjoy running around wine tasting. I love a good book. Doing some kind of activity for a first date would be nice. I would rather being doing something together, fun, learning about each other than sitting in a crowd, trying to talk over the music or others. Going to a DBack game or Cardinals would be good.

    Chat
  • Lauren from Tifton | Woman | 49 years old | Libra
    Lauren

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Been on this site for going on 2 years and maybe I'm just to picky! I have grown to enjoy my own company and talking to my Dog....on the other hand I am so tired of being alone. I am looking for someone I can share my deepest darkest secrets with and not be judged.....someone that knows I have baggage and is willing to help me unpack!!!! My hobbies lately have been my Grandsons. I'm a very giving person and love to hold hands and have a nice fire with a glass of wine. I love to camp and fish but haven't had anyone to put the worm on the hook for me in a long time. I'm not looking for a one night stand I'm looking for forever. Maybe that's not the right thing to say but I don't play games and am not into drama If I sound like someone you may like to get to know send me a msg and I will respond.... Coffee, lunch, or meet for drinks and have some conversation to see if we would be compatible.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: