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Abegayle, 46

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About Me

I like to stay fit so I can enjoy all the fun, active things life has to offer like snow skiing, hiking, biking, jogging, quad riding, kick boxing,etc. but my favorite exercise is dancing, that's why I recently became certified to teach ZUMBA. My children are extremely important to me, but have become mostly self sufficient, so this time in my life is a great opportunity for me to focus on exploring my personal interests and happiness. Eventually, I'm expecting that happiness will include a fulfilling, compatible, committed relationship, but I'm ready to have fun during the journey to that destination in the meantime. Being single is fun, but I'm definitely marriage material! I was a committed wife & mother for 20 years, now just a committed Mother. Physical attraction and chemistry are a must, but emotional connection and compatibility are way more important! I know it's such a cliche to say I'm not just looking for an amazing lover, but also my best friend, but it's true and I hope to someday find exactly that. Won't settle for less ever again! One without the other will never work forever, and since "forever" is what I'm looking for, gotta have both!I can relax and enjoy snuggling up to a good movie, but do not want that to be my primary source of entertainment, so I'm definitely not looking for a couch potato! Looking for a more diverse man who tries to stay fit and active, enjoys a variety of activities from working out, sports, movies, traveling, maybe even a little culture like going to see a play?, but a definite requirement for me is someone who wants to take me out to dinner and dancing at least once in a while (hopefully til we're too old to anymore)! Dancing is such a natural high for me and since I've never taken drugs and can barely handle one glass of wine, dancing is my way of getting high and feeling free! It's also like foreplay with the right guy! So seriously, if you don't like going out dancing, don't bother contacting me. Engaging in deep, meaningful conversations will win my heart, which I wear on my sleeve. I'm an open book and not afraid of sharing my feelings and appreciate a man who's not afraid to do the same; so many of you stay guarded and afraid that showing emotion is a sign of weakness, but the opposite is true.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Nichole

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi, I give advice on Ballet/Yoga, WeightTraining, GeneralFitness&Nutrition. Anyone interested in my Fitness10minutesFAST&Furious-read the BOTTOM, its really EASY, you dont need a Gym, just a corner in your bedroom! YOU can be stretchy too, just by doing 2min stretch before SHOWER, at least Every Other day, Easy!! Its the SAME STRETCH for Ballet Yoga Gymnast Kickboxer Karate---I'm here answering fun fitness & work questions as much as possible. Everyone deserves a longterm soulmate. Hopefully I will find one too.-divorce, til my youngest graduates my highschool in NJ June***...then moving bk to CA for the warm weather permanently! Born/Raised in mid--trees/lake pretty!...but lived in RedondoBeach & CA ***. I miss & love SoCal sun & visit CA every summer vacation for now..CaliforniaJerseyGirlForever! Looking for NICE FRIENDS who know how to laugh, Chill-lax & RELAX & have BRAINS--hopefully someone who can be a friend first & then longterm. I'm a caring person with a huge heart who loves to laugh & always goes with the flow :)Born/Raised in mid***with my sister, traveled everywhere with my Airline Benefits. I was married 16yrs & know how to be supportive, even in hard times. Came bk to NJ post-divorce, for my 16yr daughters highschool, but my 6ft1in-21yrSon is in Airforce at TravisAFB,CA & 6ft5in- Taking a break from LA LA Land for now, a bit too materialistic for my daughter. But we both miss the sun!-nice!I go with the flow-optomistic & roll with the punches. I like to meet Sports &/or Music Appreciators & like all types of music-ClassicRock, Modern, Oldies, R&..music brings joy & happiness & motivates a person! I played FrenchHorn & Mellophone in a winning competition Marching Band. Also twirled baton, camped with girlscouts, & 13years Tap,Jazz,&Ballet dancing--I did the kick lines like NYC Rockettes. I was a singer & dancer in 4yrs Highschool plays. Also sang Church Choir. I was a newspaper girl 100papers in highschool-got babysitting jobs from newspaper deliveries-- used the money to pay for 10thGrade Trip to Germany! Also I was raised on FOOTBALL & BASEBALL & love watching the playoffs! I love the Outdoors & the Ocean.Sorry for the novel, YES I majored in English Lit! Guess I'm just a Jack-Of-All-Trades. I can pick up most tasks easily & be very professional about it. My airline pilot/mechanic EX kept me moving around due to 3 AIRLINE MERGERS & 4 CROSS-COUNTRY MOVES & with all my Airline Ground Ops various jobs-;YANKEE" from the Civil War, WHAT?? Lol Duh, that was over 4 Wars ago-Get Over It! Besides someday we will all be floating out in SPACE! We are all HUMANS from the planet EARTH & should treat eachother equally & respectfully-core values I also gave my teens! I LOVE good movies, but too hard to talk there. So just a casual coffee, lunch or dessert date. I'm a no frills, low maint girl--Wash&Wear like a guy Lol. Just want to Chill-lax & RELAX with someone.FOR THE FITNESS QUESTIONS***I exercise 10min everyday, or at least 3x a week MonWedFri. Try my EASY quick Ballet/Yoga training invention, DONT need a gym! Fitness10minFAST&Furious***&4&2minute Fast&Hard workouts at HOME or on your FLOOR! Its 4min100ArmCurls&LegWeightsOnBedCorner, 4min200SimutaneousAbsOnFloor, & finish with 2minStretchSplits&ToeTouch ToCoolDown&Loosen! QuickShowerWash&Wear. Poof--All Stretchy&Strong! Exercise should be Quick & EASY & makes a person feel SO much better & releases stress. Do Fast&Furious b4 your morning shower, then you're METABOLISM is burning all day! Or at least do 2min stretch b4 shower, every other day to your FAVORITE CD. Start slow on the FLOOR infront of the TV & REACH for your toes to STRETCH the hamstrings. Then you will be rubberband stretchy & ELASTIC too!NUTRITION***STARTS in the grocery store, READ the Lables. CHOOSE LOWFAT first, LowSugar/LowSodium/HighProtein. If you DONT have FAT food in the house, you CANT eat it! Give your body HARD CRUNCH foods to kep your INSIDES exercising & BURNING metabolism all day, like apples/pears/carrots/celery-HARD/HighFiberFruits/Veggies & LOWFAT snacks like pretzels & cereal to snack on *** high FAT chips! STARVING yourself SLOWS the metabolism & DEFEATS the purpose of FITNESS. Dont deprive yourself completely. Light grazing all day is better. Everything in Moderation.LASTLY***MOST people make their workout routine TOO hard, or pay for a gym & then NEVER do it & never go. The days turn into weeks & months & then suddenly you are all out of shape. If you cant do 10min before AM shower everyday, then try at least Mon Wed Fri! Doing it before work has the metabolism BURNING ALL DAY! Also run up STAIRS at work & DONT use elevators, use the 3RD FLOOR restroom, etc,-FREE exercise, seriously! Make it EASY at home & work, start simple! Then U will be 4ever FIT!

  • Lorayne

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am looking for someone who is done with the club scene. I like to go dancing every once in a while but it doesnt take long getting bumped around and drinks spilled down my leg for me to get my fill. I like shootin pool at dive bars and bowling but im horrible at both. Im really easy going and will try almost anything once, unless it involves heights. Im scared of heights! Oh and Sharks....will NOT dive with sharks so don't ask . :) Would love to find someone who hits the gym or stays fit somehow. I go at least 4 times a week but I do enjoy a day snuggling on the couch eating the wrong things and watchin movies. Its important to have balance. I am down for about anything. Although I like to keep first dates short. A drink or a coffee. We allllll know how the first dates can go. Im just hoping for a first date that I DONT want to end.

  • Marilee

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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