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JamieArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-40
Hi! My name is Jamie. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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SarahbearArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 18-28
Hi! My name is Sarahbear. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Arkansas City, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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SamiyaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-41
I LOVE FOOTBALL... HUGE GIANTS FAN.. IM REALLY INTO MUSIC..ALTERNATIVE AND ROCK ARE MY FAVORITES,BUT I CAN PRETTY MUCH BOP AROUND AND SING TO ANYTHING...IM A HARD WORKER..I ENJOY DOWN TIME AND RELAXING I LOVE ACTIVITIES... IM A HUGE OUTDOOR PERSON.IM BIG ON DOING THINGS. LIKE AMUSEMENT PARKS, CONCERTS, GOING OUT TO EAT, KARAOKE,DANCING, SHOOTING POOL,BOWLING,SHOOTING RANGE, HAUNTED HOUSES, GOING TO GAMES... YOU GET THE POINT...I HAVE THE MOST AMAZING 15 YEAR OLD SON IN THE WORLD.. HES THE WHOLE REASON I WAS BORN. MY FRIENDS ARE THE MOST INCREDIBLE FRIENDS ANYONE CAN ASK FOR THEY MAKE MY LIFE MORE THAN FANTASTIC...I LOVE LAUGHING AND HAVING FUN,TATTOOS AND MOTORCYCLES... IM PRETTY LAID BACK... IM HONEST AND LOYAL AND I HATE LIARS.ON A GUY I LOVE JEANS, TEE SHIRTS,(NOT THE KIND THAT SPARKLE) AND A FRESH PAIR OF AIR MAXS. AND THE FITTED HAT OF COURSE.... HMMMM THAT PRETTY MUCH SUMS IT UP.. WANNA KNOW ANYTHING ELSE JUST ASK :)
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WinonaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I make mistakes, I'm not perfect, I'm out of control, sometimes a lil crazy, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.As with material possessions or professional achievements, relationships give our ego a method by which to identify who we are to the outside world. The problem is that we attach so much of our identity to the external appearance of our relationships that we lose touch with the parts of ourselves that are wise and conscious. The attachment to this false identity leads to a feeling of desperation rather than fulfillment. After all, without the relationship, or the job, or whichever other false identity we have chosen, who would we be? Besides the ego identification, it's easy to develop a dependency on companionship. That independent person that we once were starts to evaporate. Our mind becomes fogged and as our self-identification begins to attach itself to the other person, unconsciously or consciously, we become afraid to lose that person. We become dependent on that person and fearful of loneliness. Out of our emotional insecurities, we start to become needy and to seek out validation from our partner. So, *** focusing on the celebration of love and partnership, it becomes a game of how to protect ourselves from loss. Out of a desire to avoid appearing needy and out of a fear of losing our partner, we start to filter what we say. In doing so, we do not communicate our needs clearly, openly or bravely. We somehow become convinced that our partner will magically know what to do to fulfill our needs. When our needs are not met, we secretly blame the other person and begin to resent them. When we are unhappy, our partner will pick up on the clues, and in turn, secretly resent us, thus starting a vicious cycle in the silent destruction of a romantic partnership. So much of what needed to be said was not said, and bad feelings are bottled up and start to accumulate for both parties. Have you ever had a friend come to you and complain about all of the things they are unhappy about with their partner? Those are the kinds of things they should be telling their partner, if they actually want a change. Worse yet is when one partner openly communicates their needs only to find that the other party is simply not listening, or does not fully acknowledge what was said, or makes them feel guilty for having those needs. Deep down, we are all really good people. But this doesn't mean that any combination of two good people will make a good partnership. There is such thing as a bad fit, and it is okay to admit it. The best fits are ones where the most important values for both people are met. They must have life goals that align with one another and have a mutual attraction, understanding, and level of respect for each other. Both people must be committed to making the partnership their top priority. Sometimes, even when we realize that our relationship isn't a good fit, we justify staying in it with what seem like logical reasons. We may feel that we won't find another person who accepts and loves us as much as the current partner. Or we may be afraid to be alone, so we simply settle by default. Each time we are reminded of the bad fit, we brush it under the rug and distract ourselves with some other thought. We may feel that we are doing a service to the other person by staying in the relationship, but in reality, we are hurting them by not being honest with them and ourselves. And we are accumulating bad feelings and bad energy in our inner space. The problem comes when we find ourselves in a relationship and we are constantly comparing our partners with this conjured-up "perfect" person. When that happens, we stop appreciating our partner for all the beautiful qualities they do possess. The truth is this perfect person does not exist. More importantly, we may not actually need all of these qualities in a partner to be extraordinarily happy. What we need is to identify the most important qualities that we must have in order to feel satisfied and fulfilled . By not having identified the must-have qualities in our chosen life partner, we end up settling, and since the person cannot give us the things we truly need, we start to resent them. This will snowball into larger issues. In life, we will get random results if we have not specified what we want. Identifying and understanding what it is that we need in a relationship, allows us to set clear intentions, and in doing so, moves us closer to realizing our intended desires. I'm up for anything fun.........
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BreanaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-35
I'm 28 years old. I'm sophisticated and classy. I love to have fun and be out doors. I have a Bachelors degree. I'm working two jobs. Love going to crossfit. I love anything outdoors, going to the movies, bowling, dinners, concerts and etc!
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ShulammiteArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 23-33
I will update this more later but I want it known I am here to look around. My intensions are to find some one and have a serious relationship that could hopefully turn into something more. I have a son and I work a lot so please know if I don't respond to ur message right away it's due to free time being limited. I really made this account to see who is out there, I live in a small town and need to branch out. I'm looking for the right guy and I know he Is out there somewhere looking for me too.. I would prefer a taller guy due to me being 5'3" also I'm a curvy girl so if ur looking for a stick you won't find that here.
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ChayaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
See what all the fuss is about and get to know new people well this should be fun !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Plz dont write to me if ya have no picture up. Few drinks to break the ice !!!!!!!!!!!!! :-D!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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AureliaArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-35
Recent college graduate... Working at Starbucks, continuing education next spring. If i'm not sleeping, at school, or making an ass out of myself, i'm at work. I love tattoos and body art, I love all kinds of music and going out with friends. I take pride in the fact I carry a little extra. I'm a plus size girl who loves to cook and learn new skills with food and how it applies to health (hence why I am a nutrition major, get it?) But that does not in any way, shape or form imply that I am desperate and will take anything I can get. I'm a catch, and I know damn well what I like and don't like. I am looking for people who are Fun-loving, open and funny... who are just down to have a good time, whether it be relaxing having coffee or out at a party. Intelligence and character are essential. I can't stand boring people nor can I stand someone who is rude. Anyone that can hold a decent conversation is highly appreciated =) I'm very laid back and open minded. I love everyone unless you give me a reason not to. I consider myself a free spirit and I usually surround myself with the same type of people. I'm a party girl when work and school isn't consuming my life so if you think you can keep up, say hello =) I'm not really a dinner and movie type girl. How am I going to get to know you if we're watching a movie? A nice coffee or lunch date would be awesome. Or grab a beer at a pub/bar.
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InellArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 24-34
Hey everyone =) I am just on here to meet a good guy! I only seem to attract the creepy ones. So I am a good woman to know. I can have fun doing absolutely anything! I have a full time job at a non-profit organization, which I love. I have a car to drive and a place to live! I have never been married and I have no children =) so send me a message and lets talk!
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LouisArkansas City
- Kansas
- United States
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
Lonely! Yes I used to have an account on here I had deleted it. Got fed up with all the fake bs. But again I am lonely trying to find someone to occupy my free time. I prefer black men, white men feel free to contact me just don't get upset if I'm not attracted to you. If you don't have at least one photo with your face visible don't message me. I'd like to eat , first just spend some time getting acquainted. Then maybe bowling or playing pool?
