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MelaniaGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Over the last several years I've learned, for the most part, you can not take yourself or much of life too seriously. I work hard and am passionately committed to my faith, my son and my small circle of friends/family. Life is meant to live and enjoy embracing the joy of life, even amidst the "chaos".Based on some of the messages I've received on here, I feel the need to make a couple points of clarification so nobody, including me, wastes their time. I typically don't answer messages without images. It has nothing to do with judging a book by its cover, rather it feels like I'm communicating with somebody who's hiding part of themselves and that's uncomfortable and unattractive to me. In addition, I have no interest in random hook ups or sexting. No disrespect to anyone utilizing this site for such, it's just not who I am and those messages are uncomfortable. Ok...clarifications made! I look forward to meeting new friends and wish anyone reading this much luck and success! First dates are kind of awkward by nature. In my opinion, an ideal first date is something that enables enough interaction to get a good sense of the person I'm spending my time with and potential chemistry. I'm not looking to be impressed with venue, I prefer the opportunity to speak to and get to know the person I'm meeting, to a flashy venue.
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LanieGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Well to start iI like to go camping love the beach I am looking for someone that is not into playing games who likes to have fun I have 3 grandkids that are everything to me so I love being with them but nee to have some fun sometimes Im not looking for a one night thing if your lookin to just get laid Im not the one for you if your lookig for someone who will be there for the good and the bad who wants a friend first Surprises are always the best way to go.
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JaquelynGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I never get bored.Life is what you make it. We can do anything we set our minds to do... and I do every time :)I love to see people pursue their passions and follow their dreams. I totally support the dreams and interests of the people I love.I admire a man who goes for it! And it's a turn on when a man does anything he's passionate about.I'm very affectionate and playful and look for the same in a man. I can play like a girl and I know when to be a woman and how to be a lady.As much as I enjoy quality time together in a relationship, I do enjoy and know how important individual time is as well – whether it's alone time or time spent with friends, family, passions, hobbies, other interests, to decompress, recharge, etc.I love to watch a man cook who enjoys cooking. I find it sexy. Just something about it that I can't explain.And I like a little food fight, feeding each other, etc :)Anything musical, artistic, original, unique, handmade/handbuilt, or anything creative - especially by a man's hands and/or creative mind - will get me every time :)I tend to be very spontaneous and I love surprises - giving and receiving - and the simpler the better. The little things go over big with me :)One of my favorite things to do is learn something new and try new things, places, foods, etc. Show me something new :)Been an entrepreneur for most of my adult life, and helped other start ups, of both for-profit & non-profit projects - it's one of my passions.Until I moved here in Jan. ***, I did creative counseling and my "Dream Chaser" workshops in community centers where I used to live - mostly working with teens & adults - encouraging and helping them pursue their passions, their unique gifts/talents, and follow their dreams. I absolutely loved it! I'm working on a similar project here.Candid photography is another passion of mine. I capture candid spontaneous shots of real life as it happens. Others photograph people "posing" but I love to capture people living, loving, playing, having good times!Life here has been amazing! I love my life and I'd love to share it with someone. But I’m in no rush. And I won’t settle for less than what we both want :)I'm not looking for perfection. Perfection is boring. I want passion... passion for each other and passion for life and in the things we do.While I definitely have an appreciation for all that life offers, one of the most important things I've learned in life is that money and *meaningless* material things are not what make me happy. Of course, I do live right across the street from the beach. I love it! My place fits perfectly in my life right now. A big house just doesn't appeal to me at this time, being single, with no kids at home. And a "house" doesn't feel like a "home" to me unless shared with people I love.NOTE: If you message me and I don't respond, it could just simply be bad timing. I may be getting to know someone at the moment and want to see how things go. Or it could be no attraction - and it's not any easier to send than it is to receive such a reply. I'm sure you understand and agree we have no control over who we're attracted to. Right? :) I've found that it's best to meet in person soon to see if there's a mutual chemistry, first, then go from there.I can have fun doing anything with the right person. The place or activity isn't as important as the person I'm sharing it with :)
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JuanGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Looking for a real guy that isn't into all this computer nonsense but when they find someone they are interested in they are looking to meet not just talk on the computer. I am a real girl 44 loves sports works full time owns her own home and has a dog. I would like to meet a guy that has kids or not but I am not looking to have my own. There is just too much to type about myself, lets talk and hopefully we can meet I don't have much to say on this. I can only ask that we do something we are both interested in and hopefully chemistry takes over
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IssyGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Hi!Thanks for stopping by. : )Please let me start by saying that if you are taking the time to look at my pictures, you need to have some of your own posted or available before you contact me. I am excited for the next chapter of my life......Thank God for second chances. : )It's a bit unfair that meetville wants you to describe your personality in one word.....I chose Animal Lover, but Hopeless Romantic, Foodie, and Adventurer also describe me well.I am a good person with a huge heart and I am not afraid to open it again. I am someone you would be proud to take home to meet your family. I am a huge dog lover, so if you don't like dogs it would be best for you to stop here.I had a much longer profile, but I think I would prefer to share more about me in person. A coffee or drink in a quiet place would be a great place to start!Again, I will not respond unless you have pictures posted/available to send. Best of luck on your search! Definitely casual......Meet for coffee or drinks and possibly a walk on the beach and some good conversation.
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VernellGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
This is the part where the wonderful description of ourselves goes hmmm? It is a somewhat daunting task to describe oneself. So here it goes, some random things about me: At my best I am spirited, curious, and diverse, at my worst stubborn and I talk too much. I try to be a better me everyday, physically, and mentally. I am very straightforward and take things as they come to me. If you ask me my opinion, I will tell you, tactfully of course, and it will be exactly that, my opinion. Feel free to disagree. I am a self described glass is half full girl. Honesty is of great importance to me. So is laughter. I don't gossip, it's unkind. I keep confidences because it is important to be trustworthy. The best compliment I ever received was that I am compassionate. The best advice ever given to me was "we regret in life more the things we don't do than the things we do". I am a people person. I love kids and old people (I know that sounds hokey, but I do!) They usually have an interesting take on things. I am inspired by nature and the outdoors. I am learning to fish because my children love fishing. Last year I learned to shoot and loved it! I am also rather bookish, reading and writing are my escape. I love movies, music, and theater. I speak fluent German. I like early mornings as much as late nights. My favorite movie is "It's a wonderful life". My current favorite song is "Sometimes I get a feeling" by Flo Rida. I will dance, although it is usually in my kitchen while cleaning. I am not a huge sports buff but will hang around for the occaisional sporting event, I am artistic and inventive and love gardening and have been know to bouts of baking a bit compulsively. Yea, there's more but if you got this far and you're still reading and curious you'll have to ask, otherwise it'd be just as well to simply publish my autobiography in this here small box for your reading pleasure and just skip the whole dating thing. :)Addendum: I am flattered by the many responses I have gotten in my first 2 days here. I don't know if it because I am brand new and it will begin to drop off after a bit, however I do try to respond to most even if I am not interested. Please don't be offended, I have spent time thinking and have a pretty good idea of what I want in someone I will choose to spend time with. Days may be long, but life is short and I see no point in wasting anyone's time. I have a few criteria that are general reasons I will not date someone- If you are closer to my kids age than mine, thank you for stopping by, as a general rule I prefer to date a bit older, next you don't have to be a rocket scientist but you have to know something about something, be able to write an intelligable note (perfection is not necessary) and hold a conversation, one that goes back and forth, don't expect me to do all the work, I am a woman that wants to be wooed, (yes, I am so worth it), I have many interests, hopefully so do you so we will have plenty to talk about and you should like to do something I do or vice versa, SO, if you have nothing to say please go to the library (is that harsh? I hope not it's just that is the appropriate place to be quiet, not on a date ) Next I want to be able to see your face, your stuff is nice, so is your dog and your home is beautiful, I know those pictures are meant to say things about you, but the picture of you should show your face clearly and should be recent, and oh yes you look great in your sunglasses but I want to see your eyes. As a sidenote, smile! You are here to find a date not get a part in the next serious guy movie. PS. Sports are ok, like I said I will watch on occasion, but if you're into sports and only sports I am not you gal either. Sports is what I see as a great excuse for you to have your time and me to have mine but I prefer not to spend a date that way. Lastly I am a 42 year old woman, with a real 42 year old woman's body. I have had 2 children so let's be real. I have curves, some in the right places and some not so much. I will not ask you if I look fat in this outfit, I am generally pretty comfortable in my own skin, but if physical perfection is important to you then you need to hop off the bus gus. Oh yea, and anything too forward or freaky fetish stuff should be saved. Sex is important in relationships, note: in relationships, not in a weird first hi I'm so-n-so note. Thank you for you patience, please carry on4 month Update: I no longer try to respond to most, it's too much to do, I am a busy girl. It gets exhausting to keep explaining things over and over. Convincing someone, no, really you're not my type. Sorry. Not trying to be mean...so If I don't respond you haven't caught my intrest or you don't meet the criteria. It is hard to reject someone, no one wants to do that. So yea, sometimes it is easier to say nothing. Some of you write the nicest things too, which makes it even harder. But that is just how it is, sometimes we just don't feel it. So if I don't respond, thank you for your note, I am always flattered. This is not an easy way to meet someone, feels unnatural and backwards. Also if you ask for my number and I give it to you, call me, don't text me. If the phone conversation goes ok then maybe we can text. Finally, I do this all on my phone so I cannot do the online chat thing, so don't be offended when I don't respond. ;) This first date box is kinda silly, because we all just want to look at a person face to face, see if they are still attractive (do they really look like the picture that attracted you) find out if there is mutual chemistry and does this individual have anything of interest to contribute or is sitting with them a tortuous strained affair. It's anyone's guess folks, this is afterall internet dating...so whatever it takes to relax and be yourself
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MyrtleGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I'm not exactly sure how or where to start...so if I ramble I promise at some point it gets interesting ...ok here goes...I'm short blonde spunky and I'm told feisty ...I stand up for what I believe in and I always back those that I love...I'm very passionate about my family and when it comes to my kids tread lightly because I am very protective...I have 3 AMAZING kids that I raised on my own ...and now 3 equally amazing grandsons...my only son is full time army and I couldn't be more proud... HOOOAHHH... I also have ***legged sons...I love my boys... ok now as far as me...well...I like to go camping and fishin and boating and 4-wheelin and diggin...and all that stuff...I'm so not afraid to get dirty...therapy sessions for me involve me in my Jeep with no top ...no doors...find a nice big mud puddle n tear that chit up...I wear my mud proudly!!! A great day for me might start off heading out to play in the mud...maybe do some exploring ...dig up some pretty geodes from the geode beds...head home get cleaned up n do dinner and a movie...ballet...theater...art show...or cuddling on the couch... I'm very versatile ...I also love to travel...im definitely a beach girl...ANY BEACH ANY WHERE as long as its a REAL BEACH ...i want to find someone who completes me...and not competes with me...I want to find someone I can actually have interesting conversation with...about politics religion or just the weather and not feel like I'm talking to a cracker Jack box...you don't need a college degree ...just more than 2 brain cells to rub together ...oh and sense of humor is a must!!! okay as I have been on here for a little while ...met a COUPLE nice guys (we just didnt make a real connection)I've mostly met sucker fish and bottom feeders...therefore I feel the need to add to this...as sad as this sounds...i say this only from experience on here... if you don't shower regularly that's a problem... I am very attracted to a smile... nice smiles...I love to laugh and I love to laugh with somebody and I love to be able to look at them when they laugh and think how cute they look im not shallow...I just know what I am attracted to and honestly I'm pretty soft hearted and I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings so with that being said a good smile is very important to me .....if you dont feel a connection during the date then by all means shake my hand and we part ways...don't feel this need to tell me a bunch of BS trying to lead me on and then not call me ever again because chances are I felt the same way I'm just too nice to say anything...now im done ****ing ...i hope to have some better luck now... be creative and think outside the box do something that WoWs me...
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DiGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I'm a single female who stands 5'4" and in pretty good shape. I love watching movies, listening to music (country, dance, classic rock & retro 80's) going camping & fishing, reading, spending time with my friends and family. Go for drinks or coffee
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SalomeGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am a very outgoing gal who is full of energy and likes to be on the go. I enjoy listening to all kinds of music,gardening and going site seeing. I also like to scrap book with friends and spend time with my son and my nephews when I am not working. I also like to go for walks on the beach. I love to cuddle up and watch a movie along with being affectionate. There is so much more to know about me so if you want to know more feel free to contact me. Meeting somewhere for coffee, walk on the beach,
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MelicentGreencastle
- Indiana
- United States
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Good grief....attempting to do this once again...I'm gonna just muddle out and say first off...a few xtra pounds meaning 10 to 15 pounds over weight not 40 and above...we all got to have a limit...I like to drink wine and go out and laugh and have fun. I like 4:20 a few times a week, I stay up late and sleep late... I work four days on 3 off Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday. On that note I would love to be entertained and amused....and in return Ill keep you entertained and amused...music...not big on new country, X out Pantera, and Pink Floyd is a nix...all else totally open and willing to learn):)...that's about all that comes to mind at the moment... Leaving this in open continuos updating...new update...through this site I must say I should specify I would like to meet a fine man(ha) that has the same interest as myself..who doesn't mind stating out till 2 in the am on occasional nights, anyone in service industry can totally know what I'm talking about..I am not a 9 to 5 girl and honestly will never be:) too brash? Just really lookin for someone on same page as me also that doesn't always have a wondering eye...:) A smart man once said...The key to a women's heart is an unexpected gift *** a unexpected time....Just Sayin to all you homies Wine, chillin, outside in the evening, walking on Frenchman, taking street car about, getting lost...
