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Elizabeth, 41

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I grew up in small towns, and am attracted to having some *wiggle*-room, but i also appreciate being close to the city, but far enough away so i can go back to my little sanctuary...I like..; nights, a yummy cuppa joe, cooking breakfast together, mornings, yoga & pilates, nutrition, giving and receiving massages, touch, new experiences and learning something fun and exciting like a class working on a degree or personal enrichment. I would love to... I want to go everywhere, but those just came to me. Learn to play the guitar (I have one, just need now to take some lessons). Metal smithing would be cool too. Fly fish more. Learn to kayak. Be mortgage free and self-sufficient.. the dream! I do...Watch my mouth.. there's nothing trashier than to hear a woman swear like a sailor (such a turn off for us, too). I don't have addictions to alcohol, don't spend my time in the bars, and don't take drugs of any kind. So if you drink a lot or take drugs or have any other strange addictions, then we're probably not a good match. I thrive on being sober, love the feeling. And it's not because I'm better than anyone else, but I do have certain expectations of myself and it's what I have chosen not to have in my life. And, I'm looking for the same in my friends and love. Update: Yes, I do drink socially, but you won't find me hanging around the bars. I've been getting into wine-making so maybe we can share a glass or three =) And if you don't drink, that's fine too. I wont pressure you...much ;) I am...Pretty well balanced, and grounded. Logical. But, dreamy at times. I prefer calmness and harmony in my life, try to avoid conflicts and try to look at things from an outward perspective. Everyone has their own story and I value that. It is how we've overcome our failures and past that has made us. I believe you are what you think. I choose happiness =) I try to keep my distance from those who are quick to anger or who are just generally unhappy with their life and situation. Another issue that seems to need attention is the anxiety and baggage out there. If you have your therapist on speed dial, it's likely we won't be a match. I'm not a hater, but only happy, positive people please.Not...Defined by politics. I know some people take them very personally, but honestly they're not for me. Religion and Politics are two things I don't delve deeply into. I'm not religious, and I'm not politcal, meaning they don't define me. I am spiritual... nature is my church, the earth is my temple. I'm content with my views and will share them with you if you're curious :)I don't follow the latest fashion designs, labels, pretty low-key and low maintenance. I'm no drama mama, just fun and good times. Life is too short to be grumpy and jealous.Movies and Music...Anything with a message. Action adventure, comedies are good, not a fan of TV. I have one, but don't have cable-- Just a colossal waste of time in my opinion. But, love going to the movies on date night. My music tastes are off the charts.. it varies. If it's good music, I'll listen to it. If it evokes feeling or emotion, usually listen to that too. Although I listen to some rock, I've been listening to Celtic, Spa & Meditation, trail songs, anything different than the mainstream norm.Also, I see a lot of very general, "i like to hike, bike, climb, ski and i love sports" That's great, I like adventure and activity, too, but what is it that sets you apart from the other person? Do you have a talent or special interest or experience to share? I'll share mine with you. I won't even make you ask :) For 10 years, I operated a retail nursery greenhouse on the western slope, and I like to think I have a pretty green thumb, a business mind and a strong connection with horticulture and the land. I would actually get back into it with the ideal partner, but never alone again. I like the idea of homesteading. Holistic arts and healing impress me more than western medicine. If you also take care of yourself, and have a healthy mind and body, and you think we might have something in common, I would love to hear from you =) Somewhere we can get to know each other, like a festival or hike... then ice cream or something cool and yummy afterward. Or let's try a craft beer at a local microbrewery. Please no coffee dates ---what a lackluster way to meet someone. I am ultimately seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship, not necessarily marriage, but just you and I, to share experiences together, travel, new culinary delights and all things fun in life. So, if you like what you see, and you have passion for life, and desire to know more about other cultures, travel and adventures, chat me up and say hello! At the very least, we'd have a travel partner ;)Good Luck to you =)reclaim your ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Andrea

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ***IF YOUR PROFILE SAYS NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP OR A COMMITMENT OF ANY KIND, I'M NOT INTERESTED!!!*** Im really into a man with hair on his head...especially eyebrows on his face!!! (What in the hell are you men doing to yourselves???)IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR THESE QUALITIES IN A FEMALE YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACETotal sweatheart with a huge heartA giving and passionate romanticAffectionate and CompassionateAlways says please and thank youHardworking and IndependentHappy person with a Positive attitudeAbility to be objective in every situationSmart and wittyCares about her appearanceClean and organized personFair, Kind and loving natureMature but still loves to be sillyLoves Family and Children as long as they aren't little squeekers! (hate whining!)Dog lover and allergic to catsDomestic Goddess (I cook, bake, sew, clean, give hair cuts gardening and interior design)MIss Fix it (Carpentry, paint, refinish furniture and floors, Upholstery, oil changes, tires changes, some plumbing and electrical)Doesn't **** and complain unless you give me a damn good reason!Hates drama and negativity (gives me anxiety and insomnia)Stays fit and LOVES sports!!!Loyal, honest, caring and genuine as I can be!I love making out and all the pleasures that come from a great relationship.I really hate the fact that good old fashioned dating has been ditched by the internet! Then please by all means...continue to get to know me.I do have a hard time finding someone, not only because Im probably way too selective but what I do for work as well as my work schedule can make it difficult as well.Most men have a preconceived notion that a female in construction is hard or getting hit on constantly (not the case with me!)When I work, I am one of the guys just busting my rear and talking smack and having a few laughs to pass the time as I earn my pay!I would never date or mess with anyone I work with, that's just plain idiotic! I do want someone to come home to...someone I miss all day!My friends also tell me that men are intimidated by me. Wth? I go after what I want! You should too!Ive never been married and have no children but I do want that someday! So....Why is a girl like me, at my age not married??? I have been engaged before but I won't settle for someone who doesn't treat me right or who is disloyal...would you?I am not a fan of looking towards divorce for the answer to "If it doesn't work out!" It's for life with me!I believe that Chemistry is KEY! Talk is cheap! I'm not a girl who cares about the material possessions of man, the car you drive or being a notch on your belt someday (thanks but no thanks).I want romance, the feeling of "I just can't get enough of you!" And his smile turning me inside out!Mostly I want my new best friend, someone I can share everything with and trust in him completely.I want someone (not need) a true gentleman who I can actually connect with on every level, his love feeds my soul type of love!!!Im a VERY down to earth female who is picky when it comes to who I date but am very easy to please.I've also found that if a guy is REALLY interested...he asks questions about a girl, wants to know everything about her! Fire away!Im ready to meet the man that inspires me and makes my sides hurt from laughing and yes...if I find you I want to keep you all to myself! ;)I'm not into having a penpal so if you can't step up to the plate and arrange a time when we can meet one another so that we may see if we have chemistry...I'd rather you not waste my time. Sorry but I have spent weeks talking to someone on here only to find that when we met, no chemistry between us existed. Not good!I'd say a weeks time is enough, should you make the effort to ask all the questions prior to see if a "fit" exists...from there it's about chemistry.My biggest flaw is that I am not a patient person but I am working on it so just wait! lol Maybe a walk by the lake, comedy club or batting cages, driving range or shooting range (something active would be great) or simply Coffee or drinks (which I'm sure most guys would choose because it's SAFE)I'd like to see your personality and imagination on this choice...I'm honestly not attracted to guys who take the easy way out and I'm not opposed to going dutch the first time we meet because after all, it's not really a date yet!(No movies) Watching MY BOYS whip some a$$ on ice!!!Not so into hearing about your ex! If it's not over...go back to her cos I don't want ya!Favorite Quotes: "Remember, tomorrow is promised to no one" Walter Payton"You miss 100% of the shots you never take!";It's easy to fool the eyes, but hard to fool the heart." Al Pacino"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!"

  • Vernell

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is the part where the wonderful description of ourselves goes hmmm? It is a somewhat daunting task to describe oneself. So here it goes, some random things about me: At my best I am spirited, curious, and diverse, at my worst stubborn and I talk too much. I try to be a better me everyday, physically, and mentally. I am very straightforward and take things as they come to me. If you ask me my opinion, I will tell you, tactfully of course, and it will be exactly that, my opinion. Feel free to disagree. I am a self described glass is half full girl. Honesty is of great importance to me. So is laughter. I don't gossip, it's unkind. I keep confidences because it is important to be trustworthy. The best compliment I ever received was that I am compassionate. The best advice ever given to me was "we regret in life more the things we don't do than the things we do". I am a people person. I love kids and old people (I know that sounds hokey, but I do!) They usually have an interesting take on things. I am inspired by nature and the outdoors. I am learning to fish because my children love fishing. Last year I learned to shoot and loved it! I am also rather bookish, reading and writing are my escape. I love movies, music, and theater. I speak fluent German. I like early mornings as much as late nights. My favorite movie is "It's a wonderful life". My current favorite song is "Sometimes I get a feeling" by Flo Rida. I will dance, although it is usually in my kitchen while cleaning. I am not a huge sports buff but will hang around for the occaisional sporting event, I am artistic and inventive and love gardening and have been know to bouts of baking a bit compulsively. Yea, there's more but if you got this far and you're still reading and curious you'll have to ask, otherwise it'd be just as well to simply publish my autobiography in this here small box for your reading pleasure and just skip the whole dating thing. :)Addendum: I am flattered by the many responses I have gotten in my first 2 days here. I don't know if it because I am brand new and it will begin to drop off after a bit, however I do try to respond to most even if I am not interested. Please don't be offended, I have spent time thinking and have a pretty good idea of what I want in someone I will choose to spend time with. Days may be long, but life is short and I see no point in wasting anyone's time. I have a few criteria that are general reasons I will not date someone- If you are closer to my kids age than mine, thank you for stopping by, as a general rule I prefer to date a bit older, next you don't have to be a rocket scientist but you have to know something about something, be able to write an intelligable note (perfection is not necessary) and hold a conversation, one that goes back and forth, don't expect me to do all the work, I am a woman that wants to be wooed, (yes, I am so worth it), I have many interests, hopefully so do you so we will have plenty to talk about and you should like to do something I do or vice versa, SO, if you have nothing to say please go to the library (is that harsh? I hope not it's just that is the appropriate place to be quiet, not on a date ) Next I want to be able to see your face, your stuff is nice, so is your dog and your home is beautiful, I know those pictures are meant to say things about you, but the picture of you should show your face clearly and should be recent, and oh yes you look great in your sunglasses but I want to see your eyes. As a sidenote, smile! You are here to find a date not get a part in the next serious guy movie. PS. Sports are ok, like I said I will watch on occasion, but if you're into sports and only sports I am not you gal either. Sports is what I see as a great excuse for you to have your time and me to have mine but I prefer not to spend a date that way. Lastly I am a 42 year old woman, with a real 42 year old woman's body. I have had 2 children so let's be real. I have curves, some in the right places and some not so much. I will not ask you if I look fat in this outfit, I am generally pretty comfortable in my own skin, but if physical perfection is important to you then you need to hop off the bus gus. Oh yea, and anything too forward or freaky fetish stuff should be saved. Sex is important in relationships, note: in relationships, not in a weird first hi I'm so-n-so note. Thank you for you patience, please carry on4 month Update: I no longer try to respond to most, it's too much to do, I am a busy girl. It gets exhausting to keep explaining things over and over. Convincing someone, no, really you're not my type. Sorry. Not trying to be mean...so If I don't respond you haven't caught my intrest or you don't meet the criteria. It is hard to reject someone, no one wants to do that. So yea, sometimes it is easier to say nothing. Some of you write the nicest things too, which makes it even harder. But that is just how it is, sometimes we just don't feel it. So if I don't respond, thank you for your note, I am always flattered. This is not an easy way to meet someone, feels unnatural and backwards. Also if you ask for my number and I give it to you, call me, don't text me. If the phone conversation goes ok then maybe we can text. Finally, I do this all on my phone so I cannot do the online chat thing, so don't be offended when I don't respond. ;) This first date box is kinda silly, because we all just want to look at a person face to face, see if they are still attractive (do they really look like the picture that attracted you) find out if there is mutual chemistry and does this individual have anything of interest to contribute or is sitting with them a tortuous strained affair. It's anyone's guess folks, this is afterall internet dating...so whatever it takes to relax and be yourself

  • Diann

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Born & raised here. I love the outdoors. I am very active and usually on the go.I love the feel of the ocean, and am impressed by its beauty.… or anywhere the water’s warm, I can get sand between my toes and the beer’s cold!I’ve got a great job, enjoy what I do.( hard to believe I know! LOL)I’m secure, smart, active and prefer a no drama kind of life. My life seems to revolve around activities, family and friends & work. I enjoy taking time to kick back on the couch and watch a few movies from time to time, but prefer to be out living life, not watching it on TV. I like to keep things simple, that's why honesty is the best policy in my book.I love taking my dog out for adventures, whether it’s walking with her along the Yellowstone, or along the Rims, or even packing up and running up to the Beartooths for a day in the woods. —it’s all good to me.I am a very honest, and caring girl that is not into playing games. I am looking for someone who is looking for the same, but can add that spark to my day & a smile to my face. Looking for someone honest & fun to be around, who is looking for a partner. Someone that likes to get out and about and is comfortable doing so. First Date: Drop me a message through meetville and let’s see if there’s a mutual spark. If so, we can figure this out together.Happy fishing.

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