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Chelsea, 46
United States, California, Santa Barbara

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About Me

I love the beach! I am a country girl, I was married for 18 years, divorced and in a relationship for 5 years, now single. I am mostly looking for friends right now. I am a happy person and love living life. I love being outdoors, and having fun. I am ultimately looking for my soul mate, but we have to start off as friends. I love the sun ,, be it at the beach or the mountains! I love dancing and going to concerts, sitting on the deck with a fire or just snuggling on the couch. I am a strong willed person, so don't try to tell me what to do or what I can't do. I am a strong woman, yet need to be held at times. I am a very loving person and for the right person, I will give you everything that I have to offer. I love to paint landscapes and I also make quilts and sell them. I am a huge Steelers fan, and love watching football and please don't try to change my mind about my team. They are MY team and no man will make me stop liking them! lol I am not looking for just a fling, or a one night stand, so if that is what you have in mind, don't bother. I am very romantic and what I am looking for is like the song, All your life, "would you walk to the edge of the ocean, just to fill my jar with sand? Just in case I get the notion, to let it run through my hand? I don't want the whole world, the sun and moon and all it's light, and I just want to be the only girl, you love all your life." and my new favorite,,,,You know I'd fall apart without youI don't know how you do what you do'Cause everything that don't make sense about meMakes sense when I'm with youLike everything that's green, girl I need youBut it's more than one and one makes twoPut aside the math and the logic of itYou gotta know you want it too'Cause I wanna wrap you upWanna kiss your lipsI wanna make you feel wantedAnd I wanna call you mineWanna hold your hand foreverNever let you forget itYeah, I wanna make you feel wantedAnyone can tell you you're pretty(Yeah)You get that all the time, I know you doBut your beauty's deeper than the makeupAnd I wanna show you what I see tonightWhen I wrap you upWhen I kiss your lipsI wanna make you feel wantedAnd I wanna call you mineWanna hold your hand foreverNever let you forget it'Cause baby I wanna make you feel wantedAs good as you make me feelI wanna make you feel betterBetter than your fairy talesBetter than your best dreamsYou're more than everything I needYou're all I ever wantedAll I ever wantedAnd the last one,,,,,,,,,,,,,Tryin' to live and loveWith a heart that can't be brokenIs like tryin' to see the lightWith eyes that can't be openedYeah, we both carry baggageWe picked up on our waySo if you love me, do it gentlyAnd I will do the sameWe may shine, we may shatterWe may be pickin' up the pieces here on afterWe are fragile, we are humanWe are shaped by the light we let through usBut we break fast 'cause we are glass'Cause we are glassI'll let you look inside meThrough the stains and through the cracksAnd in the darkness of this momentYou see the good in thatBut try not to judge me'Cause we've walked down different paths[ From : http://www.elyrics.-square-lyrics/glass-lyrics.html ]But it brought us here togetherSo I won't take that backWe may shine, we may shatterWe may be pickin' up the pieces here on afterWe are fragile, we are humanWe are shaped by the light we let through usBut we break fast 'cause we are glassWe might be all in waterThis could be a big mistakeWe might burn like gasoline and fireIt's a chance we'll have to takeWe may shine, we may shatterWe may be pickin' up the pieces here on afterWe are fragile, we are humanAnd we are shaped by the light we let through usBut we break fast 'cause we are glassWe are glass

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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