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Charity, 48
United States, California, Santa Barbara

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 23:41:47

About Me

I am an independent woman who is looking for an independent man. I love to travel...go to the beach...try new things (hey, that is why I'm on here I'm trying new things...lol). I love to cook so I am always trying new recipes...some turn out GREAT and some you wouldn't even feed your dog. I love honest people...even if it hurts. I am honest to a fault and if you can't handle that, don't reply. I am a glass half full kinda girl - you only have one life so live it! Everybody at this age has been through their own crap, leave it at the door. You just have to find a way to move on, life is too short. Btw way I love to fish...ride go carts and just live life one day at a time. I love lazy Sundays...watching movies...ordering take out.. no make up...pony tail and pjs all day. :) I love college football, hanging out, family, friends and always up for a new adventure. Oh, and by the way, please do not IM me and asking me what I'm wearing...REALLY??? I mean come on, I'm sitting in front of a computer...probably not at my best and I do not usually get all dressed up to for that occassion. :)and I'm probably not the girl for you if:1. You have ex issues...consult your therapist.2. You have to have a cooler of beer, just to go to Wal-3. I hate comb overs...just shave it.4. You have to brag about how much money you have (you probably have none).5. You do drugs, don't reply.6. You don't have a job...don't reply. But have no doubt, I can pay MY own way! 7. Your pics are 10 years and 50 lbs ago, again don't reply. 8. You have to be drunk to meet me, again consult your therapist. 9. You're lookin for an intimate encounter....aka...married.....again, don't reply!10. You're under 30...not looking to adopt a kid.And that is ME! There maybe plenty of fish in the sea but not enuff KEEPERS... Coffee, drinks or just meet at the park...all I know is if nothing else I have made a new friend.)Please don't send me hate mail. I'm not bitter...lol. I do have a warped sense of humor though. :) If you spend your time sending people hate mail...how are you ever gonna catch that fish :)~~~

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Skiing Video Games Walking Comedy Drama Mystery
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