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Penn, 68
United States, California, Santa Barbara

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About Me

I'm very much in transition with my life and currently deciding a second career? Job? I'm back in Santa Barbara after about a years absence but I'm in L.A. a lot . My background is in the Arts, I used to paint. I like sports too much, I played soccer in college and I coached youth soccer for a long time-but now I do Birkram yoga which I hate but I think might save my life. Ironically I golf. I have two grown daughters-one in Montana finishing school for something in environmental biology. My other Daughter is in L.A. she's an artist. I know a lot about wine. I prefer Italian red, Spanish white and French Champagne. I've lived in Santa Barbara for thirty years and I've seen at least ***dolphins and i never get tired of it. Sometimes I standup paddle board but I get sea sick so I have to take bonine? If I could have lunch with any celebrity of my choosing it would be Christopher Walken. He's smart, funny, mysterious and he knows how to dance.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Political views

    Liberal

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Disco Electronic Hip-Hop House Jazz Latin Pop R&B Salsa Cooking Music Watching Movies English French German Greek Italian Japanese Mexican Middle Eastern South American Thai Vietnamese Action Comedy Documentary Drama Mystery Romance Golf Soccer / Football Outdoor Hobbies Watching Sports
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