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Shawn, 27
United States, Oregon, Ashland

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About Me

I'm trying this again, I know that sounds cliche but here we go. My hobbies: Im a gamer when it comes to PS3 games, I love racing and first person shooter games. Granted I don't play everyday but when I do I find myself playing for a while. Another one, actually my favorite, is photography. Anytime I'm out and about I take pics of things I find unusually awesome and upload to *** and I'm sometimes addicted to ***, not all the time though :)When I first meet people most think I'm really shy and quiet, which is true. But for the most part it's just I'm evaluating the situation and the people around me to see how they are. I'm always afraid I'm going to do or say something that'll come out wrong and it'll be a open mouth inset foot moment. I'm really easy going and always look for the positive in everyday situations. It's been a rough couple of years so keeping that kinda attitude helps me keep pushing forward to bigger and better tomorrows :) My friends and family are a big part of my life and I wouldn't trade them for anything, well maybe just a few of them lol. Trust, loyalty, honesty and commitment would have to be key players for me in a relationship. I know that's in any relationship but I really hold those to be a good adhesive for two to work. I've had a few in my past that didn't like being in a committed relationship and would go around behind my back while leading me on like everything's ok. That's gotta be my biggest pet peeve, just be honest if you want out or something's bothering you, let me know and we can talk about it like adults. I don't sugar coat anything, I'm a blunt person and sometimes people read it wrong. I know to most this is bad and it's some thing that I've been getting better at, but when I get to know someone and we've been talking for a while I tend to sometimes get attached easily. And to me I see it as just letting you know that I'm still interested and wanting to get to know you better. The one thing I really don't like are flakes, there have been quite a few who get to know me and run when things get remotely serious. As a result it has kinda put a wall around my heart as far as opening up to someone; which I don't want you to see that as a barrier that'll never come down, but with time I'll open up. I'm a masculine guy and most don't even know that I'm gay until I tell them and their shocked. So in turn I'm looking for a masculine guy, feminine guys have always been a turn off to me. No offense. The most important thing is to be yourself, you don't have to try and impress me or be shy about anything. That's actually what I find attractive in a guy is just confident in his own skin. Which I know everyone has something there embarrassed about; if you say you don't more than likely your lying. If your reading to this point and are still interested, just leave me a message :)If I don't message right away it because I can't respond to messages on my phone anymore, not sure what happened but now it won't show the message. It'll show I have one but I can't open it. Ill respond back when I get back from work and can get on my computer. As far as first dates go I like something simple, sitting outside talking and maybe having a few drinks all while watching the sun go down or being under the stars.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Canadian Irish Bowling Dirt Bike Racing Snowboarding
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