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Otniel, 30
United States, Oregon, Ashland

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I'm an open-minded, generally easy going, spiritual man - I value the intellectual, philosophical side of things, as much as their physical aspect. I tend to be reserved and collected in demeanor, taking things in stride, but will make my limits known well, and express them once they've been passed in one way or another. I've always been an analytical thinker, and apply logic to most of my life, but I know when it's time to stop and enjoy things.I'm a huge music nut, and have an extremely wide variety of artists and genres I enjoy listening to; most of my playlists reflect moods or thoughts, and I can go for hours listening to any one group of songs. Blues would have to be my favorite genre, but I love anything played with passion and soul, especially if it has a good beat and melody.My other major passion in life has to be orchid growing. I've been growing orchids for 20 years now, and currently have a modest, but varied collection in my bedroom, growing under artificial lights. Put me in an orchid greenhouse and I'll geek-out for hours.-known grower in that area. Oddly enough, my green-thumb doesn't seem to extend to many other plants, especially cacti and succulents.I'm also big into computers and PC gaming - specifically MMO's. I'm currently playing FFXIV: ARR, and am enjoying it greatly - I've been a fan of the Final Fantasy series since first playing the original game on NES way back in the day. I've been building my own computers since I was 15, and have a knack for designing systems for most any use, though gaming systems are my strong-suit of course.I'm not looking for a relationship or anything on that level of commitment. More than anything, I'd love to meet like-minded individuals who enjoy the company of others, regardless of whether or not we share common hobbies. The most important thing for me is that you know your own limits, and take responsibility for your life and actions. If you're interested in something along the lines of casual dating, then know that I'm attracted to men who are of slender/skinny or athletic builds - "chasers" if you will. Age doesn't matter nearly as much as maturity, though I'm not looking for a daddy, nor will I be yours.Good luck out there, and have some fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Video Games Drama Ice Hockey To Work Out
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