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Otniel, 30
United States, Oregon, Ashland

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About Me

I'm an open-minded, generally easy going, spiritual man - I value the intellectual, philosophical side of things, as much as their physical aspect. I tend to be reserved and collected in demeanor, taking things in stride, but will make my limits known well, and express them once they've been passed in one way or another. I've always been an analytical thinker, and apply logic to most of my life, but I know when it's time to stop and enjoy things.I'm a huge music nut, and have an extremely wide variety of artists and genres I enjoy listening to; most of my playlists reflect moods or thoughts, and I can go for hours listening to any one group of songs. Blues would have to be my favorite genre, but I love anything played with passion and soul, especially if it has a good beat and melody.My other major passion in life has to be orchid growing. I've been growing orchids for 20 years now, and currently have a modest, but varied collection in my bedroom, growing under artificial lights. Put me in an orchid greenhouse and I'll geek-out for hours.-known grower in that area. Oddly enough, my green-thumb doesn't seem to extend to many other plants, especially cacti and succulents.I'm also big into computers and PC gaming - specifically MMO's. I'm currently playing FFXIV: ARR, and am enjoying it greatly - I've been a fan of the Final Fantasy series since first playing the original game on NES way back in the day. I've been building my own computers since I was 15, and have a knack for designing systems for most any use, though gaming systems are my strong-suit of course.I'm not looking for a relationship or anything on that level of commitment. More than anything, I'd love to meet like-minded individuals who enjoy the company of others, regardless of whether or not we share common hobbies. The most important thing for me is that you know your own limits, and take responsibility for your life and actions. If you're interested in something along the lines of casual dating, then know that I'm attracted to men who are of slender/skinny or athletic builds - "chasers" if you will. Age doesn't matter nearly as much as maturity, though I'm not looking for a daddy, nor will I be yours.Good luck out there, and have some fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Video Games Drama Ice Hockey To Work Out
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  • Shawn from Ashland | Man | 27 years old | Libra
    Shawn

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    Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I'm trying this again, I know that sounds cliche but here we go. My hobbies: Im a gamer when it comes to PS3 games, I love racing and first person shooter games. Granted I don't play everyday but when I do I find myself playing for a while. Another one, actually my favorite, is photography. Anytime I'm out and about I take pics of things I find unusually awesome and upload to *** and I'm sometimes addicted to ***, not all the time though :)When I first meet people most think I'm really shy and quiet, which is true. But for the most part it's just I'm evaluating the situation and the people around me to see how they are. I'm always afraid I'm going to do or say something that'll come out wrong and it'll be a open mouth inset foot moment. I'm really easy going and always look for the positive in everyday situations. It's been a rough couple of years so keeping that kinda attitude helps me keep pushing forward to bigger and better tomorrows :) My friends and family are a big part of my life and I wouldn't trade them for anything, well maybe just a few of them lol. Trust, loyalty, honesty and commitment would have to be key players for me in a relationship. I know that's in any relationship but I really hold those to be a good adhesive for two to work. I've had a few in my past that didn't like being in a committed relationship and would go around behind my back while leading me on like everything's ok. That's gotta be my biggest pet peeve, just be honest if you want out or something's bothering you, let me know and we can talk about it like adults. I don't sugar coat anything, I'm a blunt person and sometimes people read it wrong. I know to most this is bad and it's some thing that I've been getting better at, but when I get to know someone and we've been talking for a while I tend to sometimes get attached easily. And to me I see it as just letting you know that I'm still interested and wanting to get to know you better. The one thing I really don't like are flakes, there have been quite a few who get to know me and run when things get remotely serious. As a result it has kinda put a wall around my heart as far as opening up to someone; which I don't want you to see that as a barrier that'll never come down, but with time I'll open up. I'm a masculine guy and most don't even know that I'm gay until I tell them and their shocked. So in turn I'm looking for a masculine guy, feminine guys have always been a turn off to me. No offense. The most important thing is to be yourself, you don't have to try and impress me or be shy about anything. That's actually what I find attractive in a guy is just confident in his own skin. Which I know everyone has something there embarrassed about; if you say you don't more than likely your lying. If your reading to this point and are still interested, just leave me a message :)If I don't message right away it because I can't respond to messages on my phone anymore, not sure what happened but now it won't show the message. It'll show I have one but I can't open it. Ill respond back when I get back from work and can get on my computer. As far as first dates go I like something simple, sitting outside talking and maybe having a few drinks all while watching the sun go down or being under the stars.

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  • Bethuel from Ashland | Man | 26 years old | Aries
    Bethuel

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    Man. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    Not interested in quick ****s anymore. I want something more stabled and structured. I'm looking for my soul mate granted I'm probably not going to find him on here. I'm a computer guy and BestBuy is my version of what heaven should be like :P I like video games Wow, Final Fantasy 14 beta tester here also. I speak English and Russian. I smoke cigarettes and pot. I also enjoy a good drink every now and then. I'm a horror movie junkie. HIV negative as of ***and yes I have paperwork to prove it :D

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  • Valentino from Ashland | Man | 27 years old | Aquarius
    Valentino

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    Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I love music, like poetry, the sounds of nature, and all animals. I'm a photographer (sometimes). I love my family. Bunch of good natured and friendly people which is exactly what I like. I like going to get pizza and ice cream. Like parties more than bars. Concerts of all types and sizes. I'm shy at first and don't talk a lot but like being with people, which is backwards sometimes. I work for a magazine which helps, when I'm working I'm a lot more social, I also get along better with college kids and old ladies better than people my own age. Old ladies are awesome though!I'm friendly, hit me up.

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