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Carleigh, 48

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About Me

" Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." ~ Dr. SuessHi. :)First and foremost I am the proud and lucky mother of amazingly cool 11 year old twin boys! (I know, I know!!! But MINE really ARE the best!! lol) I would not be on this site if I was not serious about pursuing and having time for a romantic relationship. That being said, things DO come up when you have children, and I would like to meet someone who understands and respects that. Good. Got that out of the way! :))I am very energetic. I am outgoing and love good conversation. Laughing and smiling are a must!! I am NOT a couch potato! Love to work out and run.I take good care of myself and I am always told I do not look my age. Certainly dont act it...kind of silly and goofy I guess. But I know when serious is called for. Definitely like spontaneity and trying new things! I love to go out to dinner locally (somewhere on the water is my favorite! I am just as happy curled up on the couch on a cold rainy night with a glass of wine, some great music, or a movie, and someone special to enjoy it with!! (a fire in the fireplace would be a big bonus!)The beach is probably my favorite place to be. Luckily I live very close.I do love Sunday football...but there is always the DVR (lol) if a better offer arises!I would just like to meet someone who I am attracted to inside and out. Who means what they say, and says what they mean!!Not interested in playing games or just "hooking up". So if you are, Im definitely not for you. If you are not affectionate and do not like kissing much, Im also definitely not for you. Im a very physical person. I like contact! But not a bit clingy...does that make sense?If you are funny, honest ,athletic, playful, adventurous, romantic (now Im pushing it arent I??) and sincere about finding someone to make life just that much better...well then we may just get lucky!!! A casual place for a drink. We will KNOW if we want to stay for dinner, or just part friends. :))

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marleen

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hello and thanks for stopping by. I grew up in and around NYC and love all it has to offer; going to outdoor events, theater, museums and exploring the sights and sounds of various neighborhoods. I am involved in several community and preservation organizations. Outgoing, easygoing and adventurous, I prefer to get out and do things more than just watch. Favorite activities are skiing, hiking, cycling and kayaking. Avid traveler and amateur photographer, I just got a digital SLR and took some great photos on vacation. Still figuring out how to use it. Looking for the right chemistry, someone with whom I can share interests, conversation and laughs. A true partner. An intrepid traveler, I like going to places near and far. Have been to all 7continents, and need to repeat a few :) Looking for someone who is interesting and interested in the journey; to share the worldly and the mundane....could it be you? Meeting at a nice place for coffee or a drink and conversation.

  • Xena

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Seems one out of three guys are looking for a "partner in crime." (I guess the other guys commit their crimes on their own.) If partner in crime suggests a woman who indulges occasional calculated risks for the fun of it, sure, I fit the bill. About me - the string of adjectives approach: confident, upbeat, sporty, active, adventurous, direct, mischievous, extroverted, honest (including internet dating), loyal, intelligent, well-read, passionate, compassionate, sensual, witty, funny - if you like my brand, and sociable.My flaws (a couple!) are that I tend to be late and, like many New Yorkers, I try to do too many things. I am trying not to become too sarcastic, but you should still expect a heavy dose of irony. Trying to become less reactive to that passive-aggressive person on the subway.I am good at clever humor in conversation, but I'm lousy at telling a joke. Sometimes I'm laughing so hard in the telling, I can't get the joke out. This requires in the listener some patience and complete disregard of the truism that humor is about timing. It helps that laughing is contagious.I'm looking to date guys who have the potential for a long-term relationship. I do not have kids, and don't necessarily want them. I am open to adoption, however, as well as dating guys who have kids. I value people who have integrity and care about the state of the world, but who have not lost their sense of humor and playfulness. I am self-aware and reflective, but I try not to get too caught up on the relentless self-improvement trip compelled by contemporary culture. I try not to forget my humanity or that of others, and try to remember our imperfections and flaws can lead to insights, delightful quirks, spiritual growth, compassion, and some damn funny cartoons.I am active and fit, neither slim nor fat. But I will say that, well, "baby got back," in the immortal words of rapper Sir Mix-A-Lot. (Oh, yeah, I love dance music, even with terrible lyrics (are there any other kind!))I love the ocean, in any weather, even winter. Fire Island is heaven on earth. I own a fishing rod, a surf caster. I can tell a blue fish from a striped bass, a fluke from a flounder, not just on my plate. I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan. Just not at the same time. And, oh yeah, sometimes I try to be vegetarian. Wait, where was I going with this . . .I have a spiritual path, but not much of a practice. I aspire to meditate regularly.I enjoy physical activity and much prefer playing sports to being a spectator. But I really enjoy watching tennis - all the grand slam events - and the occasional basebaIl game with a hot dog and beer. I tune in during the basketball playoffs. But if following sports teams (or internet video games/gaming) consumes most of your free time and emotional energy, I'm not interested. I love ballroom dancing, especially because it takes me out of my head and puts me in the present moment in the way that only the intense concentration required to move many different parts of your body, at the same time, through space, to the beat of the music, without looking ridiculous, can do. I don't need you to take dance lessons, although that would be great, but I hope you would be supportive of my dancing with other partners. I am pretty good at tennis. I occasionally jog, cycle, and roller blade. I wish I could kayak and hike more often.- fantastic.)I tend to be attracted to men who are smart (and, usually, well-educated, although one can be the former, but not the latter); physically active (but not the motorized kind); socially/politically aware and engaged; courteous; enjoy flirting; well-mannered; who may not be stylish or metro-sexual, but pay some attention to appearance; and confident. One of my parents is French and the other from the South, so heavy on the manners and those cultures have affected my view of how men and woman relate to each other.While I can write down an "ideal" match on a piece of paper, I've often crumpled it up and tossed it in the waste basket. Before getting to the first date, about the first *** think that any respectful *** what you found interesting in my profile or why we might connect deserves a response, even if I decide I'm not interested. But, even though you are way cute, I won't respond if you want me to play Mrs.e., you are married).None of us should take lack of interest personally out here in cyberspace. That said, I would add that I am favorably impressed by profiles that reflect effort.;The medium is the message." As for the first date, I look like my photos, which were all taken within the last three years. If you do too, we should not have trouble finding each other in a public place. I don't expect an adventure or bolt of lightning, just a coffee or drink some place where I can hear you or a stroll some place pleasant. After the first date, I'm not into heavy *** texting (and I don't do IM/chat) to exchange more information about each other. I'm old fashioned: F2F.

  • Tamera

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a caring loving honest person. Love to cook, bake, camping, the beach, mountains anything outdoors and sports. Going to the gym. Like cuddling, holding hands, can dress up to go out or just put on a pair of jeans n tshirt. Staying home and watching movies is just as good. Family is important to me. I love children if you have them I am open to them. Helping those less fortunate and giving back is me. Laughing is good so make me laugh. My goal is to find that person who accepts me for me the woman I am. Compromise and communication mean alot. Never go to bed mad is my motto. Live Love Laugh life is to short. Open to new adventures and experiences together. I am a romantic. The smallest things me more to me in life. My profile says I am a Taurus and will not let me edit it. Looking for the one who you support each other through thick n thin good n bad.. The man that is my best friend as I am his. NOT INTO the games. Don't lead me on if your not interested. Not looking for a texting buddy or someone just to have sex with. Message me if you are interested, if not good luck in your search. Rather talk on phone.***lllllllll***lllllllll***lllllllll***lllllllllllllllllllll***put this on your profile***lllllllll***if you know someone in***lllllllll***that armed forces or show***lllllllll***that you care and SUPPORT***lllllllll***OUR TROOPS. GOD BLESS THE***lllllllll***USA. Get together to for coffee or a drink maybe something to eat.

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