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Seems one out of three guys are looking for a "partner in crime." (I guess the other guys commit their crimes on their own.) If partner in crime suggests a woman who indulges occasional calculated risks for the fun of it, sure, I fit the bill. About me - the string of adjectives approach: confident, upbeat, sporty, active, adventurous, direct, mischievous, extroverted, honest (including internet dating), loyal, intelligent, well-read, passionate, compassionate, sensual, witty, funny - if you like my brand, and sociable.My flaws (a couple!) are that I tend to be late and, like many New Yorkers, I try to do too many things. I am trying not to become too sarcastic, but you should still expect a heavy dose of irony. Trying to become less reactive to that passive-aggressive person on the subway.I am good at clever humor in conversation, but I'm lousy at telling a joke. Sometimes I'm laughing so hard in the telling, I can't get the joke out. This requires in the listener some patience and complete disregard of the truism that humor is about timing. It helps that laughing is contagious.I'm looking to date guys who have the potential for a long-term relationship. I do not have kids, and don't necessarily want them. I am open to adoption, however, as well as dating guys who have kids. I value people who have integrity and care about the state of the world, but who have not lost their sense of humor and playfulness. I am self-aware and reflective, but I try not to get too caught up on the relentless self-improvement trip compelled by contemporary culture. I try not to forget my humanity or that of others, and try to remember our imperfections and flaws can lead to insights, delightful quirks, spiritual growth, compassion, and some damn funny cartoons.I am active and fit, neither slim nor fat. But I will say that, well, "baby got back," in the immortal words of rapper Sir Mix-A-Lot. (Oh, yeah, I love dance music, even with terrible lyrics (are there any other kind!))I love the ocean, in any weather, even winter. Fire Island is heaven on earth. I own a fishing rod, a surf caster. I can tell a blue fish from a striped bass, a fluke from a flounder, not just on my plate. I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan. Just not at the same time. And, oh yeah, sometimes I try to be vegetarian. Wait, where was I going with this . . .I have a spiritual path, but not much of a practice. I aspire to meditate regularly.I enjoy physical activity and much prefer playing sports to being a spectator. But I really enjoy watching tennis - all the grand slam events - and the occasional basebaIl game with a hot dog and beer. I tune in during the basketball playoffs. But if following sports teams (or internet video games/gaming) consumes most of your free time and emotional energy, I'm not interested. I love ballroom dancing, especially because it takes me out of my head and puts me in the present moment in the way that only the intense concentration required to move many different parts of your body, at the same time, through space, to the beat of the music, without looking ridiculous, can do. I don't need you to take dance lessons, although that would be great, but I hope you would be supportive of my dancing with other partners. I am pretty good at tennis. I occasionally jog, cycle, and roller blade. I wish I could kayak and hike more often.- fantastic.)I tend to be attracted to men who are smart (and, usually, well-educated, although one can be the former, but not the latter); physically active (but not the motorized kind); socially/politically aware and engaged; courteous; enjoy flirting; well-mannered; who may not be stylish or metro-sexual, but pay some attention to appearance; and confident. One of my parents is French and the other from the South, so heavy on the manners and those cultures have affected my view of how men and woman relate to each other.While I can write down an "ideal" match on a piece of paper, I've often crumpled it up and tossed it in the waste basket. Before getting to the first date, about the first *** think that any respectful *** what you found interesting in my profile or why we might connect deserves a response, even if I decide I'm not interested. But, even though you are way cute, I won't respond if you want me to play Mrs.e., you are married).None of us should take lack of interest personally out here in cyberspace. That said, I would add that I am favorably impressed by profiles that reflect effort.;The medium is the message." As for the first date, I look like my photos, which were all taken within the last three years. If you do too, we should not have trouble finding each other in a public place. I don't expect an adventure or bolt of lightning, just a coffee or drink some place where I can hear you or a stroll some place pleasant. After the first date, I'm not into heavy *** texting (and I don't do IM/chat) to exchange more information about each other. I'm old fashioned: F2F.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Watching TV Dirt Bike Racing Sailing
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