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Bluebell, 49

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About Me

I love to go hiking with my dog and being outdoors any chance I get but I also love rainy days on the couch or at the movies. What's in my CD player? I love to travel and road trip, but it's been within the states for the past few years since I had my daughter. Life can be so serious, so I love to laugh. But the best part of my day is always the time I have with my 10 year old. I would love to find a gentleman with a good heart and soul who can share in the simpler things in life. I'm a jeans and Keens kind of girl who looks good in heels and would love a guy who appreciates that dichotomy.Looking ahead my goal is to get my Masters in Social Work and catch up on my reading! The perfect first date would be very casual and low-key. Meeting at a coffee house would be ideal. As for a 2nd date? Let's find out!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I've been told that I am perhaps a bit unusual....I'm not looking to be financially supported, fixed or completed by another person and I seek the same in my partner. I would like to meet someone who is capable of standing comfortably on their own in this same way, but who is also looking for that special someone to share the journey with. I like to maintain balance in all areas of my life....I am extremely active though and would like to find a partner who might enjoy sharing some of these activities: skiing, snow shoeing, cycling, hiking, kayaking, dancing, yoga and daily walks. I prefer to play my exercise and enjoy the outdoors, I don't enjoy working out in a gym. I love to dress up on occasion, perhaps the city for dinner and a show, but more often prefer to keep it simple....an interesting movie, or dancing to some good local music. I prefer evenings at home cooking a nice meal together a glass of wine and listening to some music, I don't watch television, or spend much time online… I also like to indulge in many creative pursuits; I love the change of seasons and I equally enjoy the cold of winter and the softer warmth in spring and summer, I love the mountains and the ocean equally.I know many people talk about not having any baggage from the past, and although this sounds good on paper I have found it just isn't possible to leave the past behind entirely, it is woven into the fabric of our lives and a part of who we are. Hopefully we have all learned from our past adventures and this is what now moves us forward into the future. I also feel that truth is most important, and having said this I want to also say that I don't believe in chronological age (this being the date of ones birth) the number I have included in my profile is based on my psychological age and my bio-markers.I'm not looking for a pen pal or a cyber-relationship and I would prefer to meet early on to see if anything "clicks" I haven't met the person I want to share the rest of the journey with yet, but I have met and maintained some wonderful friendships in the process. I also have come to realize that at this stage of the game, meeting and getting to know each other is very different from what it was ***years ago, I think most of us have different expectations now. I still believe it is necessary to first fall in love with our eyes and our minds, and then with our hearts...and only when this is in alignment can body and soul join in the dance.HINT: I often hear men lament; "what do women want"?????? A single rose at the grocery store costs $1.99, this could net the greatest ROI you've ever experienced!! The first date might be a cup of coffee, a glass of wine or a walk/hike....perhaps plan to spend an hour or two together in a comfortable and casual environment and see what might want to happen from there.

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm a pessimist because of intelligence, but an optimist because of will I'm not always sure I WANT a relationship. And sometimes I KNOW I do. I like my life. I like where I live.Sometimes I think the best kind of relationship would be that he has his house and I have mine.EXCEPTI miss intimacyYes, sexbut also that face to face ntimacy that comes with lovers who love each other-that, "this was my day" review that makes you both feel better about it-that ridiculous, childish laugh you both share about something silly and completely unexplainable-the ember of desire when you catch a whiff of his scent, -and the flame that lets you lose yourself into itProbably too darn candid for a "successful dating site profile," but I'm too old to play games, and too niave and young-hearted to lie.I work hard, too hard. I'm a poet and an artist (if that makes you want to say, "gag me with a spoon," please move on)I'm Spiritual. Don't assume.I'm pretty many say (eyesight fades as we age, isn't that a grand illusion!) P.S. I'm older than my profile says. It won't allow me to fix it.I'm not thin, but if you think I'm fat, go away. I'm a woman, it's called an hour-glass shape;there's just a little more sand through the middle now.Is THAT what's meant by "shifting sand!?"I laugh a lot, smile more.I cry easily (if you don't like that please look for "men seeking men") I cry for saddness, happiness, beauty and wonder. Don't fear the tear.Having said that, I have friends of every race, gender and belief system. I'm blatently socially liberal, and yet weirdly personally conservative. I'm a bit quirky, but not in ways that would shame you. I've been called "delightfully disorganized."I am a woman of honour; I seek a man who is honourable.I love dogs. I have three. One by choice, one by rescue, one by default.I'm smart, but not haughty. I don't like haughty. What's the point? There's something to learn from everyone.If you think you might be the Yin to my Yang (or yang to my yin?) message me. Who knows. Being somewhere where we could talk and learn about each otherWalking dogs together (must love dogs, yup... I said that!)

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