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Charlotte, 43

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About Me

I am a 43 year old woman with 2 boys that are the best things I've done in my life! I am more a winter girl than a summer one, so I guess I live in the right province. I have playedsports all my life, up until recently I was still playing softball, but then 40 came and I stopped beingable to play at the level I wanted, so I packed up the bag and retired haha. At this stage of my life I am donewith the game playing of my younger years. I no longer have the will or desire for any of that. I am looking for someonewho is in the same stage of life as me. Once you hit 40, something changed. All of my priorities changed and I started to realize that life really is short, and you need to really live in the moment, and stop putting things off untiltomorrow, because you just never know if there will be a tomorrow. I have so much love to give, I am looking for someone to share it allwith. Loyalty, respect, love, kindness, patients, and love for my boys are on the top of my list, and I will not tolerate anyone who is a game player, or is not willing to put in the effort to make a relationship work. I don't expectanyone to do anything that I am not willing to do myself. I know that I sound a bit ridged, and harsh, but the truth is " I am just a girl looking for a boy " someone to love meand share the good and the bad that life throws our way as well as have a whole lot of fun along the way. I would leave the decision of the first date to the man, but I would love in the summer going out for dinner on a beautiful patio sipping margaritas quietly getting to know each other. After dinner go for a walk along the beachtalking and watching the sunset. If the time is right stealing that first kiss.If it is fall or winter time long walk in the fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other possibly if the time is right holding hands. Later, sitting by the fire, possibly having drinks, or sipping hot chocolate. Hopefully feeling the connection and wanting to see each other again.There are so many things to do, but really until you get to know each other's likes and dislikes, a nice dinner and goodconversation would be wonderful.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Annis

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    About me:Hmmm, well, I have been single for almost 2 years now. I am not actively seeking a relationship, in my experience relationships happen when you least expect, so I am not going to limit myself by saying I am not interested in having a relationship, because that could eliminate the possibility before it even happens. Let's just say that I am open to anything that may or may not transpire. Don't get me wrong, I love the feeling of being in love, it's a great feeling to know that you are special and important to someone, and to feel needed.I chuckle at the men on here that claim to have athletic bodies, when clearly this is not the case. I guess athletic describes my body type best, as I don't really fit in to any of the categories offered. I do get plenty of exercise, but I am not rock hard, I am slender and petite.A friend once said to me, "Life is about choices, and I think if people just thought about things a little harder, then it could reduce the chance of regret later on." Life is way too short to live with regret as I am beginning to learn. I am still a work in progress, I am great at giving advice, but like a lot of people, I have a hard time practicing what I preach. My philosophy is to keep it simple, and not sweat the small stuff.I absolutely love music, without it I think the world would be a pretty dismal place. I listen to a lot of different types, I am a rocker at heart, but lately I have been listening to folk/rock music, but Tool is one of my favorite bands. I like to sing and I also like to dance, I was in a dance company in my youth, I mostly did contemporary, some modern, and a little ballet as well as 6 years of competitive gymnastics. I love to travel, I have been to a few countries so far, and plan on exploring as many as possible in the rest of my time here.I am friendly, pretty outgoing, and no dummy, I know a little about a lot of things, and sometimes I surprise myself when I play jeopardy. My mind is full of a lot of random information and facts that can come in handy from time to time. I like a man who holds the door open for me, chivalry is not dead in my world. You don't have to have impeccable manners, but if every second word that comes out of your mouth is f*ck this and f*uck that, then it's not going to happen. That's a major turn off to me. Not saying I never swear, I most certainly do from time to time.So if any of what I have said here intrigues you, then feel free to say hello. You don't have to write a novella or anything. If I like what you say, find you attractive and I like your profile, then maybe we can establish a rapport and see where it leads.Please post a picture of yourself if you want to talk to me, otherwise I will not respond.Good luck out there, and cheers! Let's chat for a while, and see if we connect. If we do, then we can meet somewhere for a couple of drinks perhaps?

  • Elane

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a divorced working mom of 1. My daughter (8 years old) lives with me, and we have a very active life. We have a dog and a kitty. I am looking for someone who has their own past, and wants to build a friendship and then a future. My friends would say that I am loyal, generous, thoughtful and organized! My daughter makes me smile everyday, she is my world! I am looking for someone who is a family man, loves to camp and go hiking but also likes to go out for a good meal on occasion. Someone who is funny and keeps me on my toes and wants to spend time with me and my daughter. I am a family person, my siblings and I do a lot of camping, boating and weekends away.I am looking for a BFF! Someone I can grow old with! Does that sound cheesy? A sexy accent would be a bonus! My biggest accomplishment is my daughter and second would be the company that I own. I love country music! And enjoy working out! It's good for my mind, soul and body!

  • Cindra

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I wanted a new environment for my boys, one filled with nature and culture. I love this town and the kind people in it. I'm continuing on with my volunteer work and I feel this town is filled with a giving and sweet spirit.I have been single now for 4 years and have enjoyed that time, raising my boys on my own and getting back to work. I hope to meet someone who is fun, enjoys the outdoors, likes kids, is responsible and honest....as those are all qualities I like in myself. It's just me and my boys....and a ridiculous looking dog right now. It would be fun to meet someone emotionally and financially secure. Someone who is easy going, intelligent, well read and well versed in the ways of our world. I am a huge animal lover so hunting is not something I would ever take part of. And smokers and heavy drinkers.....no thanks.Music has been and is a huge part of my life.I work from home, doing editing and translation and also give French lessons to kids around town. I love to travel, I've been to many cities and countries to list. Those are next on my list. And I would absolutely love to spend a month or two cruising around in an RV. I love living here....the sense of calm and quiet. The water and the trees and the fact that I can go barefoot most of the time. It would be nice to share this life with someone now. I finally feel the energy and positive attitude is back after spending some time hidden. Good luck out there, guys. It's tough meeting someone you click with. And I prefer to think that it just "happens". Love is pretty cool !! It's been a long time since I dated. I think I would most enjoy a nice dinner in a restaurant, sharing stories and getting to know one another. Anything outdoors too, would be a great time. I could never live in a big city again. I need fresh air, clean water, green spaces. So anything related to that would be a great date for me.

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