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Charlotte, 43
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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About Me

I am a 43 year old woman with 2 boys that are the best things I've done in my life! I am more a winter girl than a summer one, so I guess I live in the right province. I have playedsports all my life, up until recently I was still playing softball, but then 40 came and I stopped beingable to play at the level I wanted, so I packed up the bag and retired haha. At this stage of my life I am donewith the game playing of my younger years. I no longer have the will or desire for any of that. I am looking for someonewho is in the same stage of life as me. Once you hit 40, something changed. All of my priorities changed and I started to realize that life really is short, and you need to really live in the moment, and stop putting things off untiltomorrow, because you just never know if there will be a tomorrow. I have so much love to give, I am looking for someone to share it allwith. Loyalty, respect, love, kindness, patients, and love for my boys are on the top of my list, and I will not tolerate anyone who is a game player, or is not willing to put in the effort to make a relationship work. I don't expectanyone to do anything that I am not willing to do myself. I know that I sound a bit ridged, and harsh, but the truth is " I am just a girl looking for a boy " someone to love meand share the good and the bad that life throws our way as well as have a whole lot of fun along the way. I would leave the decision of the first date to the man, but I would love in the summer going out for dinner on a beautiful patio sipping margaritas quietly getting to know each other. After dinner go for a walk along the beachtalking and watching the sunset. If the time is right stealing that first kiss.If it is fall or winter time long walk in the fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other possibly if the time is right holding hands. Later, sitting by the fire, possibly having drinks, or sipping hot chocolate. Hopefully feeling the connection and wanting to see each other again.There are so many things to do, but really until you get to know each other's likes and dislikes, a nice dinner and goodconversation would be wonderful.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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