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Charlotte, 43

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About Me

I am a 43 year old woman with 2 boys that are the best things I've done in my life! I am more a winter girl than a summer one, so I guess I live in the right province. I have playedsports all my life, up until recently I was still playing softball, but then 40 came and I stopped beingable to play at the level I wanted, so I packed up the bag and retired haha. At this stage of my life I am donewith the game playing of my younger years. I no longer have the will or desire for any of that. I am looking for someonewho is in the same stage of life as me. Once you hit 40, something changed. All of my priorities changed and I started to realize that life really is short, and you need to really live in the moment, and stop putting things off untiltomorrow, because you just never know if there will be a tomorrow. I have so much love to give, I am looking for someone to share it allwith. Loyalty, respect, love, kindness, patients, and love for my boys are on the top of my list, and I will not tolerate anyone who is a game player, or is not willing to put in the effort to make a relationship work. I don't expectanyone to do anything that I am not willing to do myself. I know that I sound a bit ridged, and harsh, but the truth is " I am just a girl looking for a boy " someone to love meand share the good and the bad that life throws our way as well as have a whole lot of fun along the way. I would leave the decision of the first date to the man, but I would love in the summer going out for dinner on a beautiful patio sipping margaritas quietly getting to know each other. After dinner go for a walk along the beachtalking and watching the sunset. If the time is right stealing that first kiss.If it is fall or winter time long walk in the fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other possibly if the time is right holding hands. Later, sitting by the fire, possibly having drinks, or sipping hot chocolate. Hopefully feeling the connection and wanting to see each other again.There are so many things to do, but really until you get to know each other's likes and dislikes, a nice dinner and goodconversation would be wonderful.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ileana

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm the kind of girl who tries to pick someone up when they're feeling down, and takes care of those that are closest to me. What can I say? It's in my nature to nurture! I like to think of my glass as 'half full', and try to maintain a positive outlook on life and love. I like to laugh - a LOT, but you'll also find me reaching for the tissue box during a sad movie....Incredibly romantic, I love to surprise and to be surprised; love notes in special places, phone calls or texts just to say you're thinking about me, or a candlelit picnic on the living room floor. I think that romance should come from the heart - not necessarily the wallet - and that random acts of kindness along with imagination and creativity can go a long way in showing someone how much you care.I sincerely believe that it's the little things in life, and yes - in a relationship - that often mean the most and make the biggest impact! *S*Having been in the same profession for nearly 20 years, and self employed for the past 13, I’ve acquired all of the ‘trappings’ that keep me comfortable and content. I lead a very quiet and simple life, filled with work, great friends and a wonderful close-knit family. I enjoy a good book while curled up under the blanket, movies of any genre, board games and music of all types. I LOVE to cook, and I hope to find someone who shares in that passion, or at the very least, has a BIG appetite! I have a huge soft spot for children and animals, and happen to have 2 kitties of my own, Allie and Zoey. Communication is key for me in any relationship, I want my partner to be my best friend; Someone I can talk to about anything and everything, or say nothing at all and still have the best conversation with only a look....I want to meet a man who can still be a boy - but knows when the right time is to be either/or. Someone who is grounded, but still not afraid to dream and count the stars with me. A person who'll not only make me laugh, but who can appreciate and understand my own twisted sense of humour. A man who'd never shy away from public displays of affection, and who understands the importance of commitment, loyalty and family.A bit of a tall order - but - nothing that I'm not willing to give in return *S* Something laid back and relaxed - a bottle of red wine and some great conversation! :)

  • Milisent

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    hello... friendship and mutual respect is first as a strong foundation and there has to be chemistry but we humans are complex; some lucky matches have lasted for years...others have not survived - not meant to be.....on a lighter note....lol...I like boating ,travelling, nature, animals, music, learning new things, cooking, health, personal growth, and home projects.My goals and aspirations...to take a vacation, make some improvements on my apartment, and of course be able to travel more , do a road trip, do some more exploring!I'm a very positive, passionate, caring, loving, affectionate, responsible and honest person. I think I am pretty unique in that i've lead an interesting life, am a girl with a past, who is definitely living in the present,has spirit , soul, and inner beauty... if a man truly loves a woman he shows it in his actions and efforts,spends time , whenever he can, if he truly cares ; romance is important and communication. i believe a higher power and energies are at work that make things happen for a couple if they are meant to be together, and choices we make determine the outcome.. I'm not a materialistic person, and not looking for a man to support me, i like my independance .I also like to have that special someone to cuddle up to every night too..:) How people treat you is their Karma...How You react to it Is Yoursthe following words are not mine, they are quotes from a book:she was the first woman not to bow down to him; she knew who should be receiving the adoration, so she looked him straight in the eye, probably flashed him a sly and knowing smile, then turned and slowly sashayed away into her tent to wait for him to bring her love offerings; Why? She wanted to see if he deserved her love. She wanted to see how he'd enhance the quality of HER life before she let him in. She knew that for a woman there was something worse than being alone: BEING WITH A MAN THAT DOESN'T DESERVE YOU AND DOESN'T KNOW IT.; she already had everything. She wanted to see if the wisest man in the world knew what a woman truly wanted: gifts tied with heartstrings. Unconditional love, selflessness, support, loyalty, enthusiasm, attention, thoughtfulness, devotion, romance, constancy, caring, emotional primacy,-these were the love gifts fit for a Queen. HonourRespectDignityThree basics we all deserve to be shown and treated with.Our pasts are just that past, no such thing as a regrettable mistake, as long as we have learned from it.I love music....most hits, some eighties, classic rock or hard rock, anything clever, progressive and original, that the artist has shown excellence in musicianship and detail and creativity. that depends, something where we are both comfortable and no pressure:)

  • Hosanna

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am an outgoing, down-to-earth girl that likes to have fun and spread her contagious laugh. Trust me, you'll know it when you hear it ;)I enjoy getting out of the house for a bbq with friends, a walk in the dog park, or a night out, as much as staying in to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie. It's also important to get out for lunch with the girls once in awhile.I love animals and hope to start fostering a dog or two along with my own. I am one of those big hearted people that treats my animals like family. Yeah. I'm a sucker for a cute face. It would be awesome if you love animals too. I can fit into any situation, dress up for a dinner party, dress down for a hockey game or motorbike ride. I love my jeans and t-shirt as much as a nice dress and heels. I can even wear a ballcap! There is a time and a place for everything.I like a small town atmosphere, but enjoy living close enough to the big city to take advantage of the perks.I prefer being around people that say what they mean and mean what they say. It's sooo much easier than reading minds :)I've been told that I look younger than my age, act younger than my age, and think older than my age. I am looking for a nice guy with a great smile and sense of humour who will treat me like a queen, so I can treat him like a king. A positive attitude and a willingness to make the most of any situation are great traits to have. Life is too short!This king knows that communication and affection are important in a relationship.I don't desire kids of my own, but I would date someone with kids. I love them:)I am not looking for a one night stand, sexting relationship, or a fling, so if that is your thing, save yourself the time and keep fishing in the next pond. Yes, that also means that I am not interested in friends with benefits. I can't believe I had to clarify that lol As long as we are laughing, I am game!

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