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Regenia, 31

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***Luv me, or hate me...but please know I'll always be me!!!***hmmm, about me...well I am temporarily handicapped due to a car accident, but I still love going to the gym since the gym is my life. Most of the time I use a wheelchair out of convenience sake, however, I am able to walk, in fact, I LOVE walking. If anyone is willing to join me on my journey don't be shy, speak up! I am a 31-yr-old female who got a second-chance at life when I was 21, so not used to this 'dating' thing! (Who wants to "celebrate" my 10-yr-anniversary with me?!?){well that came, & went...no "celebrating", oh well!!!}*oh yeah, since it's leaving the intentions kind of vague; I'm really looking for someone to help pass the time...I'm bored, I really just need someone to talk to, if more occurs, so be it! Looking for a new friend and to see where it goes from there! I'm not against a relationship, but I guess I'm old fashioned in thinking it's better to be friends 1st; that way if things don't work out in the dating aspect you gained yourself a best friend!!! I am looking for a teammate, a best friend and someone that I can trust with anything and everything and someone who does not take advantage of a kind heart.*I really just want to make some new friends since you can never have too many friends, and maybe I can also find the right guy for me. If you'd like to chat come say hi and ask me anything you like :) It's all about quality, not quantity; I'd rather take my time and meet the right person here, *** meeting as many as possible.Btw...yes my profile says I'm here for "Dating"/Friends but that does not mean I'm not open to serious possibilities, I just feel everything starts with dating. What about this is sooooo hard to understand; we meet up for coffee/lunch and if I like you I'll keep you ;} jk; if we both feel it's worth a try, than hell maybe it is (but than again you don't know till you try) there has to be someone out there as crazy as me willing to "step outside the box" (ie...comfort zone)!?!?!?!?!***&!! Settling for OK is not an option, but I'm about ready to give up!?!*I know this has been said before but I'm really looking for that 1 guy who can show me they're really not all the same! -&- c'mon people every time I think this one might be different...they wind being exactly the same!?!I'll let you in on my plan because I think I MAY need help with the logistics of it; but I've always dreamed of owning my own business! With that being said if you are business oriented it might be a good thing!?!So many good men and women are single by choice because they know what they deserve & they refuse to settle for less; I tend to think I am 1 of them!?! Just because someone looks like a good match “on paper” or “on line”, doesn’t necessarily translate in reality. Also what is with you "guys"; you see my 'temporarily handicapped' disclosure & bolt the other way! Here's the challenge: talk to me a li'l then you can decide I'm not the right 1 for you!?! I have a lot to say; I just may need some help prying it outta me lately!?!-&- since I'm noticing the cooler weather I can feel a smile spread across my face. Love the Fall, Winter's not bad except for the darn obstacles caused by snow! not sure, anything really; maybe a romantic walk, a dinner (doesn't have to be by candlelight, but...){& come to think of it...no dinner, you can't have a normal conversation if your "date" has spinach stuck in his teeth!}, go to the movies {but how much conversing can go on in a movie; none unless you don't mind that popcorn being bounced off your head!), don't know? Or we could just go to Starbucks; communication is the key to any relationship, lets see if we make a connection...Actually why'd it take me so long to figure this out = who'd be willing to help me get my walking legs back?!?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Barbra

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a music teacher and mom. Separated for about a year. I have twin boys. Don't do very well filling these things out but I'm quite good in conversation. I lead an active lifestyle - I run and practice yoga and bellydancing. I also swim in the summer. I find physical health to be very important and try to eat clean foods as much as possible. I really love trying out new kinds of physical activities - for ***, on the agenda is Aerial Yoga, Trapeze and I've always wanted to do one of those obstacle courses. I love being creative in the kitchen and working to make whole, healthy and natural foods fun and delicious for people who are more accustomed to a processed diet. I'm thinking of studying nutrition as a new career path... But at the same time, I'm pliable. Will not think twice about grabbing a slice of pizza or an ice cream cone. I do have a small issue with the beef industry though...I'm not making myself sound fun here but I love meeting new people, trying new things, and overcoming fears. I have a weird sense of humor and find bathroom humor funny. I guess people would say I have a sarcastic edge and also can be very silly. I suppose what makes me unique is that I am very open-minded and non-judgemental. I come from a family of musicians and we are all very close and affectionate."'Cause I'm keepin' it real..." I have recently become very focused on what is real in my life and what is not real. I don't care about reality TV shows, celebrity gossip or pop culture. Call me a square, but I just don't care (haha, that rhymes!). I have a first-generation Droid with a severely damaged screen that I must frequently restart because I don't give a crap about the latest gadgets that are filled with ways to distract me from reality. If you are the type of person who is really into "stuff" and ***, we won't get along. Now I really sound fun, huh? I'm actually a total hypocrite - I'm constantly quoting 80s movies.I hate the cold... I pretty much use it the way other people use salt and pepper.Ok, so on some other dating websites there is a category "You should message me if..." I think it's pretty pertinent, so I'm going to add one here.You Should Message Me If:1. You are NOT expecting to make out on the first date.2. You can handle mid-July NY humidity like a pro and won't complain about being hot3. You might not prefer it, but can appreciate the musical theatre genre for its artistic form and whimsical-yet-sarcastic social commentary.4. You don't associate non-sexual physical affection with neediness.5. You are willing to put up with my tirades about the Secret Government's evil plot to control the world, which it already does.6. You are willing to put up with my tirades about the evils of the USA's food industry and health.7. You don't think I'm a loon for wanting to drop out of society and live in a small, self-sustaining, primitive, yet joyful, village filled with kind natives who make everything out of bamboo. They will have nightly bonfires with accompanying festivities. I don't like high-pressure situations. Let's meet for coffee or a beer/glass of wine in a relaxed and quiet atmosphere where we can actually hear each other speak. Maybe go for a walk. During the day is just as good as an evening. I'm pretty easy-going.

  • May

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm still a little freaked out about the idea of online dating but I realize dating in general is difficult for me. I have been in a few long term relationships with people who were friends first but never had to try being set up on blind dates or the whole bar thing. Between work and spending time with my kids, I haven't had a lot of opportunity to meet new people so I'm going to try to stick this out a little bit longer. I have a great job as a manager but it is usually pretty demanding and to do the job well, I need to put in extra hours. The flexibility and loving what I do makes the extra stress worth it. I also have a part time job which I don't find stressful but I would describe as pretty mentally draining. Being a Social Worker with a forensic/psychiatric focus leads to a constant focus on boundaries and keeping a professional only relationship with people (which is another reason the whole online thing freaks me out - I've already seen coworkers, I'm afraid to see former clients). I feel that one of my strengths at work is that I am able to enjoy helping people who can be viewed by many as not deserving of help. So it's nice to have someone to vent to and be totally myself with outside of work. It's also nice to have someone to tell me to stop my whining and get over it when I'm overthinking things. I enjoy a sarcastic remark to make laugh at myself. I am a caretaker in so many areas of my life and think I do a decent job at managing all the chaos but I do realize that I need to exercise regularly and force myself to have a social life when I'm not with my kids so I can keep a level head and stay positive. I play on a volleyball team once a week now and I've been reconnecting with old friends I've seen less and less of over the years. I love day trips with the kids or with friends -;festival" that involves hanging out outside with some live music and food and I enjoy spending time with my extended family. I love to cook but will complain about cleaning so I admire a man with a little bit of OCD and the energy to work on projects around the house. I am really looking for someone who I love hanging out with and is accepting of everything that comes with kids and a busy schedule.

  • Terese

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    ..im employed full time and attend college at night . Being successful is important to me. At least to a mediocre extent on your part.. So if u live in your mothers basement, have no car, and catch a bus to your job at McDonalds, you're not for me. I prefer a man ***with no more than two children , honest, passionate, attractive, preferrably mentally stable. I have my own place , vehicle, fairly decent employment. You should too! I need a man who can warm my heart and put a smile on my face. :) I am a very brutally honest, loyal, passionate woman. I speak my mind. I stand for what i believe in, i love hard and i love true. I just want the same in return. I always give 100% and believe honesty is the best policy. Truth always comes out...why not just speak it? I want my boyfriend to be my best friend. I want to feel peace when I lay my head on his chest. I want to be able to laugh and cry with him. I want to look forward to seeing him... I definitely need a loyal honest intelligent passionate man. ALL of those. Have to find a man worthy of that first,

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