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Barbra, 35
United States, Wisconsin, Menasha

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I am a music teacher and mom. Separated for about a year. I have twin boys. Don't do very well filling these things out but I'm quite good in conversation. I lead an active lifestyle - I run and practice yoga and bellydancing. I also swim in the summer. I find physical health to be very important and try to eat clean foods as much as possible. I really love trying out new kinds of physical activities - for ***, on the agenda is Aerial Yoga, Trapeze and I've always wanted to do one of those obstacle courses. I love being creative in the kitchen and working to make whole, healthy and natural foods fun and delicious for people who are more accustomed to a processed diet. I'm thinking of studying nutrition as a new career path... But at the same time, I'm pliable. Will not think twice about grabbing a slice of pizza or an ice cream cone. I do have a small issue with the beef industry though...I'm not making myself sound fun here but I love meeting new people, trying new things, and overcoming fears. I have a weird sense of humor and find bathroom humor funny. I guess people would say I have a sarcastic edge and also can be very silly. I suppose what makes me unique is that I am very open-minded and non-judgemental. I come from a family of musicians and we are all very close and affectionate."'Cause I'm keepin' it real..." I have recently become very focused on what is real in my life and what is not real. I don't care about reality TV shows, celebrity gossip or pop culture. Call me a square, but I just don't care (haha, that rhymes!). I have a first-generation Droid with a severely damaged screen that I must frequently restart because I don't give a crap about the latest gadgets that are filled with ways to distract me from reality. If you are the type of person who is really into "stuff" and ***, we won't get along. Now I really sound fun, huh? I'm actually a total hypocrite - I'm constantly quoting 80s movies.I hate the cold... I pretty much use it the way other people use salt and pepper.Ok, so on some other dating websites there is a category "You should message me if..." I think it's pretty pertinent, so I'm going to add one here.You Should Message Me If:1. You are NOT expecting to make out on the first date.2. You can handle mid-July NY humidity like a pro and won't complain about being hot3. You might not prefer it, but can appreciate the musical theatre genre for its artistic form and whimsical-yet-sarcastic social commentary.4. You don't associate non-sexual physical affection with neediness.5. You are willing to put up with my tirades about the Secret Government's evil plot to control the world, which it already does.6. You are willing to put up with my tirades about the evils of the USA's food industry and health.7. You don't think I'm a loon for wanting to drop out of society and live in a small, self-sustaining, primitive, yet joyful, village filled with kind natives who make everything out of bamboo. They will have nightly bonfires with accompanying festivities. I don't like high-pressure situations. Let's meet for coffee or a beer/glass of wine in a relaxed and quiet atmosphere where we can actually hear each other speak. Maybe go for a walk. During the day is just as good as an evening. I'm pretty easy-going.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Metal British Indian Turkish Drag Racing Golf
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